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Generally speaking, who is the first person you talk to about the sexual experience you just had? The person you had sex with - or someone else?
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The person I just had sex with, for sure. Even if it's a just a brief check in, I like to get a sense of how the person is feeling before we part ways. Providing we part...
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So I don't generally talk about it with others, although I've got a couple of lad-friends whom I can gush to. When I give them the low-down, they give me tips like, 'Hey, the next time you have sex - lay the bed with bin bags, slather yourselves in baby oil and just... have at it!' Not sure if he's being serious, but that's apparently a great way to discover new positions.
I do try and have a post-mortem with the partner(s), but sometimes they get a bit cheeky and start suggesting porn stars to watch, to help me improve on my cock-sucking skills, etcetera. It's actually quite hilarious if it didn't leave me a bit chafed!
I do try and have a post-mortem with the partner(s), but sometimes they get a bit cheeky and start suggesting porn stars to watch, to help me improve on my cock-sucking skills, etcetera. It's actually quite hilarious if it didn't leave me a bit chafed!
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I guess the person I had sex with would be first, but more like a "hey that was really good! we should do that again, etc.". Then I tell all about it to my friends on lush. I love to kiss and tell
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Being as I'm only sexually active with my husband, he is the one I talk to about it. Once we're done and he's firmly rammed a pillow under my arse and cleaned himself up, he comes for a cuddle and we chat about how it was, what new stuff we tried- which of those we liked, which we didn't, which things we will tweak in future... All helps make sure we are both fully sated and enjoying our sex life as much as possible. Plus, I always like to hear what a good girl I've been!
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When I give them the low-down, they give me tips like, 'Hey, the next time you have sex - lay the bed with bin bags, slather yourselves in baby oil and just... have at it!' Not sure if he's being serious, but that's apparently a great way to discover new positions.
I was totally serious and you know it.
Seriously oil-sex is a lot of fun, but all those bin bags would certainly be quite inconvenient: they'd keep moving around and you'd constantly need to replace them. You might as well buy a large plastic sheet and cover your entire bed with it. Personally, I use a large blanket and simply fuck on my floor.
That said, I've been shopping for toys this weekend and this fun lube-wrestling ring caught my attention; there was a big sale and it was available for around $150. It sure could be awesome to fuck with oil/food/fake-cum, but technically it probably isn't all that much more convenient than just fucking on a blanket: you'd have to inflate it beforehand and clean it thoroughly afterward, whereas I just have to lay my blanket on the floor and throw it in the washing machine when the fun is over.
Who knows though, maybe I'll review it someday, haha:
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I usually speak to the person I just did it with, however there are only very few people I can talk to about ANYTHING because I trust that they keep it between us.
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I only talk about it if I have sex with someone new, and then it's David (my boyfriend) who wants to hear all about it. Usually while he's having sex with me right afterwards. It's his thing.
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That would be the person I had sex with. Though I do have a few friends that I talk to about sexual things, but not every detail of everything I've done. I enjoy talking about sex though.
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Generally speaking, who is the first person you talk to about the sexual experience you just had? The person you had sex with - or someone else?
Oddly, no one. Every now and then I'll chat up a friend here on Lush. Outside of lush, my communications are writing related.
Talk about sex with my husband?
For fucks sake - nope. No. Oddly, we don't really talk about it much. We're like the couple in Charcoal Pinstripes. We have awesome sex (when it happens it's awesome) but we don't discuss it - it just happens. I imagine it's what having God as a best friend would be like if he had a lovely dick and gave wonderful orgasms but only graced you with the glory at his whim.
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For me it would obviously be the one I have just had it with. Later I would be telling my girlfriend all about it and probably relive the experience with her.
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Someone else. Perhaps my partner in crime where I can tell everything without being judge, the good and the bad. Then I would ask advice on how to approach my man about it.
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Seriously oil-sex is a lot of fun, but all those bin bags would certainly be quite inconvenient: they'd keep moving around and you'd constantly need to replace them. You might as well buy a large plastic sheet and cover your entire bed with it. Personally, I use a large blanket and simply fuck on my floor.
Ooh the way you described it... I'm actually more intrigued by the idea of oil-sex now! The initial thought of fucking atop garbage bags was a bit un-sexy...
Back to the original theme of the thread - unless it's very casual sex or just a one-night-stand, I think it's actually a good idea to touch base with your partner after the encounter. Once, I made a terrible mistake of going a couple of weeks without speaking/texting to, which peeved the other party. That I went and talked about it to a couple of other friends really made things worse. Youth is no excuse for stupidity, so I was just stupid. Lesson learnt.