My girlfriend that I've been with for 1 year doesn't want me to go down on her any more, it's not because she's subconscious of what she's like down there, she's clean, shaven/waxed and well very tasty, but she's stopped me from going down there recently, any reason why?
Any advice would help me out a lot.
Well, why don't you ask her?
Only she can tell you for sure. Why not ask her?
Got to agree with my sweet friend daddysweetheart...
Talk to her
But if perhaps she ah is not kosher with your technique
Please don't get offended
Its beyond sensitive down there...and sometimes we don't want to hurt your feelings...but what was good for a previous lover might not be good for us
Just ask her...
Just ask her gently. She might be worried about upsetting you.
Sometimes a lady takes an antibiotic and gets a yeast infection, or is going through something she is shy about......you just have to ask her delicately, showing lots of compassion. It could be you go down and then kiss her, and she doesn't like that....who knows?
Let her tell you.
I can only say the same as everyone else. Ask her! But pick the right moment. Make sure its when you are feeling to close to one another, and feel she is comfortable enough to open up to you. Then you can both work this out together.
This is all very helpful even though you mainly say ask her thank you.
Did she stop making love also? Do y'all use condums? If either of these are answered with Yes. Maybe she has been seeing some one else and has caught something. Like most of the comments above y'all need to talk.
Brandie
How long has since she stopped the bus from going downtown? If it's months, she should have been able to clear up any yeast infections etc.
Listen to so many people here: talk to her. When lovers are afraid to talk, it causes misunderstandings and problems - it makes you jump to dark conclusions. If you gently bring it up and she's evasive, THEN perhaps you should be concerned.
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