My Partner now tells me that she has never reached an orgasm in her life.. She rarely masturbates and when I asked her why she does it she said she didn't know , but gets bored and stops .
She has had a number of partners but no one has ever got her off.
I love touching her , oral, masturbating her, massage , carressing, and she has never faked it , just telling me to stop , but no climax ... is it my ego that is hurt, possibly , but I love her and want her to experience that deep satisfaction level that comes from orgasm ....
She was really reserved when I met her,and has taken 5 years for her to open up a little, she loves to masturbate me , (She is the best I have ever had at that now ), occasionally she will give me short oral..
I have asked her to guide me , tel me what works for her, but she always just said she wanted hard sex, but when I asked how hard or the kind of style , she didn't know, as her previous lovers and experience was very poor .. (I engaged in the deep hard sex, biting , holding , hair pulling etc , but nothing seems to do it for her)
I did use a small ring vibrator once with her but she was shocked , although she really did lose herself and her pussy was pulsing and so wet and joked after , but when I tried to introduce it again she freaked on me ..
Once we were in the car and she gave me head whilst driving amazing, and then she proceeded to masturbate herself whilst looking at her pussy in the mirror after I suggested it ... She had NEVER looked at her pussy before this ... How can a woman of 52 never have looked at herself before ...
When I first met her, I actually thought she maybe gay, always around women , holidays with them, male relationships never lasted, even travelling to Africa to find someone and experience the "black" thing ... None of this worked. What can I do , I have wined and dined, the candles , the baths, flowers, etc , I am fairly experienced confident , suggesting and always more than open to try things, she did do a playing card list , but when I asked her to then do some of them , she just freaks out ...
All I want to be able to do is have my lady experience the ultimate pleasure, and climax, every woman deserves this, I could just be a self centered male and think what the hell , and let her pleasure me all the time, but I love touching her, but I am gradually feeling our relationship will not go the distance ...
Any other man been in similar circumstances ??
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