It's pretty much the most important thing (to me) in a relationship.
There's trust and intimacy that goes along with that comfort.
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For me, there is a host of things I need to find in my significant other's arms. Comfort is one of the very top emotions I look to feel. If he cannot comfort me, it really isn't a relationship with any meaning or lasting ability.
I could not agree more. Making love is not just sex. It is the whole interface between two loving people. Yes, it all is vital.
When you think alike and of the same thing, and answer a question before asked....................your bonded...............tighter than a tick on a teddy bear
absolutely important! i need to feel that his arms are a safe haven when i need to escape all of the turmoil in the world. being in his arms just strengthens our bond.
As a guy I'm not sure "comfort" is the word but there is a sense of being in the right place and time...like you belong together...definitely an underrated characteristic of a good relationship...
Huge for me! I missed it so much when my first husband passed away. I think it is a built in necessity for me. Not sure if that is the same for everyone else or not!
Yes, it says so much the hugs.
WOW for me it's VERY important. Soo great after a bad day or great evening to just wrap your arms around her to just feel in heaven
For me it's very very important to me. I crave that so much.
I absolutely love the comfort I find in a lover's arms. I couldn't be with someone that didn't cherish that. In particular, that magical, not-quite-real feeling after you've had sex and are lying entangled together, listening to the gentle rhythms of each other's heartbeats. Maybe talking softly. Maybe dozing. Maybe tracing imaginary alphabets on each other's skin with your fingertips. Perhaps the single most perfect feeling in the world.
That got destroyed many years ago. Now my comfort is hugging a special body pillow that I affectionately have named after a dear "computer" friend and looking at her pic. She is my FRIEND and we are long past any "sexual" relationship. So sad, but so true.
When things go wrong for me, the first person I want is my wife. The first thing I do when I see her is go into her arms.
It's so important and so intimate.
Call me a silly romantic, but it is very important to me. The trust and intimacy is essential. Just listening to your lover's breath can be the best feeling in the world.
Maybe this is the litmus test. If you feel best in their arms, maybe they're the one...
I want to make a joke about something like 'arms' as in weapons but I can't think of anything. Boo.
It's such an important part of a relationship...I absolutely crave the comfort of strong arms around me when I'm upset or feeling low. Don't have that type of comfort though, so I pat myself on the shoulder and say, "There there." (shrugs)
For generations our ancestors fought proudly as warriors against the Jedi. Reclaim our armored past for an unending future.
Now as for me holding is very important. Maybe a little more so after a BDSM scene. I'm lucky that Hubbie and all of my long time lovers enjoy the after glow in each other's arms. Oddly enough about half of the strangers Hubbie offers me to at the swing club likes to cuddle in the after glow. This is of their doing not mine. I enjoy it though. It adds a little romance to what started out as just horny lust filled desire.
Brandie
If I couldn't find comfort in their arms then I would be incapable of calling them a significant other. It's very important.
I can’t think of a good tagline so this will have to do. Suggest a better one for me?
Not just my significant other, but my closest friends as well. I have some dear friends who have always been there for me no matter what.
It's nice to see a little sappy on a sex site!
