For the gals that have been to a swingers club, A) did you jump at the chance to go when you had a chance; B) were you curious and reluctantly went; or C) did you need a great deal of persuasion to go. Whether you answered A, B, or C, was it ... is it, as you expected? What surprised you? What excited you? What turned you on/off?
It was my idea and I was curious and riddled with anxiety. We went two nights in a row and i needed a little alcohol both nights. After that I never needed liquid courage again.
When my ex introduced me t swinging, I was very reluctant, however that soon passed and I loved going.
It was my idea. I heard a woman talking on WEBN about a Florida sex club she had visited. I was curious and asked my husband to find a swing club. He found one in Dayton. The first night we visited I was scared to death and required some tequila to relax and relieve my anxiety. That first night I engaged in oral, vaginal, anal, and dp, with my husband and four strangers. We returned the very next night and I needed a little tequila again. The second night I pulled a train, over 20 men. After that second visit no more alcohol was needed. It was more than I could have imagined and I have never had a bad experience at the swing club. I was surprised and excited that so many people, men, women, and couples, wanted to have sex with me. I was turned-on by the energy and the atmosphere and all those open-minded nude people. I am turned-off by the people who clearly do not belong at a swing club because they are jealous/insecure. I am turned-off by the women who have to get sloppy drunk so they can blame their participation on the alcohol when they wake-up feeling ashamed the next day. I am turned-off by some of the single men because, 1) it is clear that they are not swingers and are lacking the swinger mentality, and 2) clearly do not understand who swingers really are and have no interest in learning, and 3) are there thinking they are superior and we women swingers are just there to be their cum repository.
