Do you have a penis?
This is the most common question that I get and it is usually always the first question someone asks me. First off, just know that if a woman you meet in real life comes out to you as a transgender woman, please don't ask her this question after she tells you. The reason why we are presenting as women is because we are women. Pointing out any male features that a woman has is an instant turn off and inquiring about any male features is also an instant turn off. This is a site for erotic stories, so I can understand why this question is asked, especially if you have a fetish for transsexual women. Just please understand that erotic stories and pornographic films are mostly fictional.
I do still have a penis. At this moment in my life I don't wish to have vaginoplasty. My insurance currently doesn't cover the medical procedure, which is one reason why I'm not getting it done, but not the most important. I don't have any dislike of the genitals that I was born with. I do have a dislike for the gender I was assigned when I was born. I can easily tuck it away when I am dressed. The only way others can see this is when I'm naked. I'm not a nudist, so it hasn't been a problem for the public to see and treat me as just another woman.
How do people react when they see you have a penis when you get them in bed?
I never have sexual intercourse with anyone prior to telling them that I have a penis. I don't strip down and stand naked in front of them and let them find out by looking at me. I have known some transgender sisters that have done this who have been beaten so badly they have been hospitalized. If I notice that a guy is attempting to get intimate with me, then I will let him know if he doesn't already. Personally, I never had anyone that stopped their advances after I told them.
Do you like your dick sucked?
Okay, I don't get asked this as a question. Usually they say "I want to suck your dick". I do like to have fellatio performed on me. Yet, for this to be the first place for you to go is a turn off to me. Please don't let your first message to me be "I want to suck your dick". Get to know me first and explore other parts of my body. I don't know if this is true for all transgender women, but it is true for me.
Are you a top or a bottom?
Sometimes this is not asked a question either. Some just assume that I am a top and they say "I want you to fuck me". I am a bottom. The only time I top is when I am trying to please my partner. The majority of the transwomen I know are bottoms. I do know some that will top and like it. I will top, but I don't like it. I don't know of any transwoman who is only a top, but that doesn't mean that they don't exist.
What porn do you like?
I had people share pornographic pictures asking if I like it. I can't comment on every single pornographic image. I do like the film studio TransRomantic to give you a feel for the type of porn that I like.
I'm a crossdresser, can you help me out?
I never understand why crossdressers try to reach out to me to ask questions. I'm not a crossdresser, I am a transsexual. If you have questions about crossdressing it might be more appropriate to ask another crossdresser.
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I'll try to add some more to this list as I get more questions that come in either through this forum or via private messages.
