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Do you ask before pulling out and cumming on your partner?

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Active Ink Slinger
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First of all I don't mind a bit of cum on me lol but recently I had a fling where me and this guy where going at it, my eyes where closed enjoying the sensations and the next thing I knew he was whipping of his condom and cumming on my stomach, In my experience guys usually ask first so it was quite a surprise.
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I've asked before I've pulled back to cum on their clit. Sometimes the gal said yes, sometimes they've said "no, keep it deep inside", one time she said "let me suck the cum out".

So, yes I ask.
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I would say it depends. If it is a relatively new partner I think you should ask. Sort of like knowing if they like to swallow with a blow job.

If you've been with the person for a long time you likely know whether they would like it or not like it. My wife has nothing against it but for me I want to keep fucking her hard all the way through my orgasm. I might do it just to see it cover her tits or ass (porn style) but it's not really my preference.
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Personally, I wouldn't pull out and cum on a woman unless it's something I've asked (or at least given her warning that I wanted to do it..), or perhaps she requested (which has happened at times). I wouldn't just do it out of no where because she just might not like it... and it's a little disrespectful i think to just assume she'd be ok with it.

In general though If I was wearing a condom I would likely just keep going and fill it with my cum without pulling out. the whole point of wearing a condom is to enjoy the full experience...
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I only ever do it if she is comfortable with it and would enjoy it in the heat of the moment. That being said, I fucking love it. The sensation and the visual image are delightfully visceral.

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The Linebacker
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No. If you knew her you'd know, asking would ruin the moment. But she might demand I do that or she might beg for me to. Whatever mood we're in.
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Usually not pulling out, but sometimes masturbating and spraying her boobs while she is masturbating with a vibrator on her clit.
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It was what I done in my single days every time.
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Hey Winnie. It can be a real turn-on to cum on her. That must be the case with your guy if he went to the trouble to pull out and remove his condom. Personally, I wouldn't pull out when using a condom. But without a condom I always pull out and let if fly. And no I don't ask. Just not in to questions & answers while I'm in the midst of an orgasm.
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For the longest time, I have been my partner. But I respect my wish to not be cum on
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I do ask always if I feel like cumming on body. But I generally cum inside because it has a greater feel to it. And my partner absolutely loves it! Besides why would you jerk yourself off when there is a naked girl infront of you with legs wide open??
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I cant tell you the last time i used a condom so most of the time i'm pulling out and cumming on her without asking. I guess I just thought that's what everyone did? I've never had it be an issue
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Who wants to pull out when your coming, a nut, unless she wants it somewhere else
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If im thinking about pulling out ill ask, but most times I know where shes ok with having or wanting cum left.
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I always ask.
Balloonmeister
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Always ask first and I will do as she pleases. But I always hope she wants to take it orally.
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I cum where I want to cum, be it in her or on her.
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My husband never pulls out but then agin i DONT. want him to.
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never done it in my first relationship..
next gf, she asked me to pull out and cum on her belly, she said it was a turn on for her to see how much cum I "produced" for her..

now, sometimes it happens when I'm without condom... so it's just a need..
Active Ink Slinger
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never came on a woman without asking. usually when I did she asked me to do it
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no - I do it when she watns it badly
Active Ink Slinger
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I have always know where I was expected to cum and would not change the location without her approval
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I've never pulled out of my wife. She enjoyed the feeling of me in her. She misses that feeling these days due to medical issues and I miss it also.
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I agree with RalphBranca. I always ask...though am always disappointed by rejection.

Some women, it seems, don't find post-coital ejaculation exciting. Indeed often messy, especially over their breasts.

Each to her own, I suppose...
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I would either ask her first or if its one of those times things just happen and in the moment it to late to ask lol
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it depends. If I'm with a slut then who cares ill just pull out and nut on them, But if I'm with someone I like then I'd know what they like.
Balloonmeister
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A Gentleman will always ask first and then deliver to please his Lady.
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