Someone who can't or don't even bother to give me an orgasm...and trust me, it's not hard to get me there. A selfish lover is the worst!
That they put forth little or no effort. I call them NEVER again.
Someone who is boring with no passion and for me, a passive man. Oh, and someone who doesn't or is awkward at dirty talk...
Somebody who oversells their prowess and then doesn't deliver is definitely my idea of somebody bad in bed.
"A dirty book is rarely dusty"
my husband!! a wham , bam , thank you mam. why we havent had sex in a 100 years!!
Having been there ,all I can say is......Meh!
At least my hand appreciates what I'm doing!
Since we are doing a one word description. Then this would be mine for a bad lover.........Next!
A woman that is bad in bed is often referred to as a 'dead fish'.
i'll piggy back on what many have said, being selfish. if your partner is only focused on their needs, there is really no reason for you to be involved.
A guy with premmy ejaculation.
Only thinks of their own gratification, pretends to be caring or sweet but really is only looking for their own release. Takes their time in getting off. If you see me on all fours, resting my head in the palm of my hand while you are fucking me it means I am so turned off/bored physically and mentally just hurry up.
Huh .. different angle on this one to everyone else it would appear .. some men arent good in bed for various 'acceptable' reasons I would suggest .. little experience .. little confidence .. little encouragement .. little co-operation/give and take .... anxiety ..medication ... etc. etc.
No I didnt say little dick.
I think most of you are being *means*.
An emerging talent--needs practice-maybe shy or bashful in their youth--In my high school days, one of my friends was not well endowed. but he had the ladies. He just once said, "You have to play to your strengths and hope your weaknesses will get better. He was had some girlfriends and his wife is a real looker.
Someone who's rusty in bed can always become better if given the right prompting and guidance.
But I was with a guy once, we dated for two years, and refused to show me any sort of affection in public. I didn't realize how much it negatively affected me until I left him for other reasons. Evidently, I began to see myself as being unworthy of a thing such as a kiss or holding-hands with... and I had been okay with such essential elements for so long.
I refuse to go without it, now.
A description for a bad lover I've used for years is Type O Negative's line "Loving you is like loving the dead"
someone that only thinks of them selfs.
No passion just there to get off quick.
Someone who only thinks of their own pleasure. Someone who thinks their orgasm is the ultimate goal of sex. Someone who thinks sex is just coitus and this is their main activity sexually wise. Lack of imagination, I guess
I agree with all the selfish comments. It's also about lack of communication. Not necessarily verbal communication but not picking up on my queues or reactions.
Lately I've been tired, distracted and stressed out over work and personal problems. I'm probably horrible lay right now.
don't understand why you married him..
good for you, you got rid of him then!!
