I'm trying to decide whether to allow Him to put me into chastity devices full time. I already wear a butt plug or stretching ring most of the time as His choice (and have, by necessity, the personal hygiene routine that goes with it) but now He wants me to wear full time an expanding plug that locks into position once expanded, and He also wants to put padlocks through my labia piercings to act as chastity device.
I have no problem with keeping myself for Him and His friends- I have done so for over a decade. I don't understand what makes Him choose now, after so long, to introduce this.
And it has to be said, I really don't relish the thought of how uncomfortable and intrusive wearing the expanding plug is likely to be and that's without trying to sit down on the stem of the plug or the padlocks.
Practically, this will limit me enormously and reduce my ability to have any sort of outside life because I can't imagine how I would go to the gym or do a yoga class with them in place.
Thoughts? Where do we go from here? I'm worried that His choices mean that He no longer trusts me. I have no idea how to enter this conversation and how to discuss whether I consent to this or whether I refuse. If I refuse then that could have huge implications as we have been real life partners for a very long time.
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