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What do you want to hear?

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OK ladies. This was inspired by ToniC's question on "What do you say?"

I realised that I don't say much of anything in bed, really, even though I like to hear my lady talking. What kinds of things do you like your partner to say in bed? What drives you wild to hear, or does it really make much of a difference to your experience?
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One cute boy used to tell me a story about what he was goin to do, while performing it.

Another whispered things in Danish into my ear. (no clue what he said but it was very erotic to listen to)

One person managed to say "I love you" without making it sound corny or forced.


Though, I prefer to hear the other person say things spontaniously after a pleasurable grunt.. like "oh shit" or "damn" or well you know something with a hint of surprise over how good it feels.

Call me a whore and I become the incredible hulk and throw you out the window.
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*crosses "take that you whore" off the list*
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haha!
also remove all movie quotes from the list.
Especially the comedy ones.
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it's cliched but I like hearing a guy calling me dirty...I have a weird thing about dirty talk because sometimes it just makes me laugh uncontrollably at the absurdness of it...If it's too porn style it makes me laugh...what really gets me hot when sometimes the guy takes control and orders me to do something
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If he starts telling me in detail what he is going to do to me once we are alone through out the day and constantly whispering to me when we are in front of a lot of people knowing we won't be able to take care of business for a while would drive me crazy......more of a slow seduction and then if he says all that is Spanish....forget it.....LMAO!!!

"Love all, trust a few, and do wrong to none."
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Coming from the "old and happily married" camp, I love it when he still tells me how sexy he thinks I am and how much he loves me. After 9 years to hear that still in bed? Ooooh yeeeeaaaahhhhhh!
"A black cat crossing your path signifies that the animal is going somewhere." - Groucho Marx
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Coming from the "old and happily married" camp, I love it when he still tells me how sexy he thinks I am and how much he loves me. After 9 years to hear that still in bed? Ooooh yeeeeaaaahhhhhh!


This is something I do try to work on. We've been together a very long time, and I have a bad habit of just assuming she knows how much I love her and want her. But I can't help thinking of Willie Nelson:

"I guess I never told you I'm so happy that you're mine
Little things I should have said and done, I just never took the time
But you were always on my mind"
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I like to hear a range from, I love you when he's cumming (if it's sincere), to really dirty talk. Just depends on the mood and the rythmn, (hard and fast or soft and slow)
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Quote by castlequeen
Coming from the "old and happily married" camp, I love it when he still tells me how sexy he thinks I am and how much he loves me. After 9 years to hear that still in bed? Ooooh yeeeeaaaahhhhhh!


This is something I do try to work on. We've been together a very long time, and I have a bad habit of just assuming she knows how much I love her and want her. But I can't help thinking of Willie Nelson:

"I guess I never told you I'm so happy that you're mine
Little things I should have said and done, I just never took the time
But you were always on my mind"


You can NEVER tell her enough times....trust me! Try it at random, maybe while she's doing her hair in the morning, come up and kiss her on the back of her neck and tell her you love her. Do make sure you're not in a hurry to get anywhere because you might be delayed after that.
"A black cat crossing your path signifies that the animal is going somewhere." - Groucho Marx
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honey that was so good, I do not mind vacuuming the downstairs and doing the dishes tomorrow
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All I want to hear is "I forgive you"
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Quote by MerryAnita
I like to hear a range from, I love you when he's cumming (if it's sincere), to really dirty talk. Just depends on the mood and the rythmn, (hard and fast or soft and slow)


I'm with MA on this - it really depends on the mood and the moment.
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I just like to hear him in my ear. His sounds of pleasure, in my ear. Letting me know that he feels good too. Doesn't have to be loud, ;) Just those soft sounds in your ear. The look on his face....maybe I'm weird....

I also like dirty talk sometimes. . Like when I want that rough crazy sex! ;)
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I like it when he hums or sings softly in my ear. And to hear how much he wants me....
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i acctually like when guys call me a whore or a slut in bed makes me feel naughty
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Welcome to Lush little one.
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Welcome to Lush, little one. You've come to the right place if you seek guys telling you you're naughty.





Hey, Cat, one more post to go and you reach a thousand.
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I'm not really a fan of being called a slut, whore or a bitch any time, so in bed it would just rile me up - and not in a good way (unless he's into pain).

I love having dirty nothings whispered in my ear - or against my mouth just after he's kissed me.
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and I used it to declare I didn't even try to get laid... geez... I so feel I don't fit in here anymore:
*laugh*
On the other hand we made a list of everyone I can remember I've had sex with.


Love the new av, Lisa.
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i acctually like when guys call me a whore or a slut in bed makes me feel naughty


Welcome to Lush, you slutty little whore.


(You knew someone had to do it)
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Her Durrasch.....I didn't realise I had caused you to start this thread. As for me, it's nice if he says "Thank you, that was lovely".
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Hm, durrarsch *laugh* (insider spelling joke)
I'd say you made a fool out of yourself unless you actually was -in bed- with our Little one, when you posted your comment.


EDIT: Was/were whatever!
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Classy av, Lisa.
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Love the new av, Lisa.


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Classy av, Lisa.


Thanks! It's Vanessa Paradis (Mrs Johnny Depp).
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Lucky bitch
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Lucky bitch


I know! I feel envy and admiration for her all at the same time.
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I love it when a lover slaps my arse and get and manly talk with me it makes me so surprises as i know they would never be like that during the daylight. I also love it when a lover whispers an erotica story in my ear that makes me orgasm so fast. I love it when a man talk's to me in special words of love that only we know about. ohhhhhh i'am so horny now grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr ahhhhh sweet dreams re-remembered Hb xx
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I just like to hear him in my ear. His sounds of pleasure, in my ear. Letting me know that he feels good too. Doesn't have to be loud, ;) Just those soft sounds in your ear. The look on his face....maybe I'm weird....

I also like dirty talk sometimes. . Like when I want that rough crazy sex! ;)


I agree with you 100%
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I feel weird cuz everyones av is black and white!!!
*tears*
I no this isnt part of the subject.....left out....oh nvm, Im acting like a bitch,huh?