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Bi-curious advice pleaseee

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I am a straight woman but I find myself able to get off by watching women more in porn at times. I don't have any friends I would ever even consider hooking up with as most are straight anyway but I do not find them attractive in the sense of messing around or ruining a friendship. I hope this makes sense. Anyway, where do I even start and how do I go about even flirting with a woman and seeing what happens? I am new to this. I do not want a relationship with one I just want to play a bit...maybe.
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go to yourb local gay bar or on gay dating sites I hope this helps you
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You could take that first step with a tranny. Hello! lol
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Thank you both
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My wife and I have been involved in the lifestyle for many years and your question is not uncommon. "I would like to try (fill-in secret sexual desire or fantasy here) but don't know how to get started. I don't want my everyday friends, family, associates to know about this and just want to see for myself if this is something I would like".

FWIW, take our advice and take a weekend getaway to a distant city - Ft Lauderdale comes immediately to mind. Visit the nude beach, the strip clubs, the LGBT nightclubs and a couple of swing clubs. Nobody knows you or will want any details of your real life.

But don't experiment near home or w/previously known peeps. That's just dumb! Have Fun!
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My wife and I have been involved in the lifestyle for many years and your question is not uncommon. "I would like to try (fill-in secret sexual desire or fantasy here) but don't know how to get started. I don't want my everyday friends, family, associates to know about this and just want to see for myself if this is something I would like".

FWIW, take our advice and take a weekend getaway to a distant city - Ft Lauderdale comes immediately to mind. Visit the nude beach, the strip clubs, the LGBT nightclubs and a couple of swing clubs. Nobody knows you or will want any details of your real life.

But don't experiment near home or w/previously known peeps. That's just dumb! Have Fun!


Thank you!!! I'll definitely look into that.
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I have the same question regarding having a sexual encounter with another guy. I have fantasized about it often, but not experienced it with another adult male.
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My wife and I have been involved in the lifestyle for many years and your question is not uncommon. "I would like to try (fill-in secret sexual desire or fantasy here) but don't know how to get started. I don't want my everyday friends, family, associates to know about this and just want to see for myself if this is something I would like".

FWIW, take our advice and take a weekend getaway to a distant city - Ft Lauderdale comes immediately to mind. Visit the nude beach, the strip clubs, the LGBT nightclubs and a couple of swing clubs. Nobody knows you or will want any details of your real life.

But don't experiment near home or w/previously known peeps. That's just dumb! Have Fun!


Ok, this sounds a great idea... in theory but isn't it exceptionally dangerous?
A strange town, unknown people, totally alone with no-one knowing where you are?
Alarm bells are ringing very loudly for me on this one!
And if you were 'spotted' by someone who knows you, or of you, professionally...

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"I am a photographer, makeup artist and model by day. That is my real job and I love it. I wouldn't trade it for the world. If you love what you do, you never have to work a day in your life."???
WooHoo!!!! 27,000 views! Could I dare to hope for a famous story...


https://www.lushstories.com/stories/milf/the-runner.aspx
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I know it is not easy to start. Although I had a different experience. My best Childhood friend and I had been playing around for months and then this one-day things changed and we were having great sex. We were younger (edited by admin for content) and had not idea what good sex was. We are still trying to figure that out.

There are more women out here that have an interest in other women than you may think. A Lesbian Club in another city may be a good option, but a dramatic step. One you may not be ready for at this time.

Maybe you have a close girlfriend that you could share that some woman have Lesbian feelings and may or may not ever act on them. In a most general way, without indicating you too have these feeling.

I am sure there are many other women on Lush that would be more than willing to assist you.

I care for men and women both equally.
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Flirting is flirting, you just have to get over that initial hesitation.
If I am attracted to a female I'm honest with her, I go up to her and tell her that I find her gorgeous and then I tell her if she's interested she can find me later. I always leave at that point to give her space to either forget about it because she is straight or find me if she's not. I've never to my knowledge offended anybody by this approach so give it a go
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That's a toughie. I would suggest you do what I did after my divorce and I wanted to fulfill my bisexual fantasies: look around for a good hookup/dating site - you can usually post a free profile, and start getting a feel for the women on there. Be careful: there are plenty of strange people on these sites. When you find somebody that sounds sane and un-evasive about things, set up a meet at a bar or a Starbucks and talk in person with them. I hope you're successful in whatever you do, but don't put yourself in a risky position, and don't EVER have the first meeting at your or their home.