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Just curious. Are all men inclined to want to try anal sex or is that too much of a fantasy?
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Quote by greysgirl87
Just curious. Are all men inclined to want to try anal sex or is that too much of a fantasy?


I think all men probably are inclined to try anal but for various reasons lots never get to enjoy the pleasure. I'd say that you don't get if you don't at least 'ask' and those that don't get to try it out are missing out on this delicious pleasure.
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'All' is such a strong word - it's probably fair to say that most guys are at least curious, a minority are repelled and a minority are obsessed with it. I expect that what governs most men's feelings is their partner's attitude. If your partner hates the idea, then curiosity is likely to stay unexpressed or even repressed.
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I don't know about all men but I certainly love it.
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Quote by greysgirl87
Just curious. Are all men inclined to want to try anal sex or is that too much of a fantasy?


I'm curious, but until I have a partner who offers, I'm disinclined to ask, because I have no interest in being on the receiving end. Just as I think it's rude to ask for oral if one's not going to reciprocate, I don't feel I can ask a partner to do something I don't want to do (receive anal).

That said, if a lady were to say "hey, wanna put your cock in my ass?" I will not refuse.
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as long as he's not too big.
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Are you talking with men, women or both?

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Just curious. Are all men inclined to want to try anal sex or is that too much of a fantasy?
Old in chronological age. But young at heart and desire.
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I'm inclined to try anal with a girl out of wanting to explore sexually. It's all about leaving no stone unturned and touching her in every way with every part of me.

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If a guy does not want to do me in the Rosebud he is not going to be around very long.

Yes, I know any number of woman who just love anal.
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Anal sex is nice when done with care, it is more than a shove it in and pull it out type thing. Lube and time is required. So if it is done right, it can be very enjoyable.
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I would say probably 99% of men do, simply cause it seems sort of normal to try it nowadays what with all the internent porn and most of it seeming to contain anal. I've personally had anal 4 times with 2 different girls, twice with each.
The 1st girl was my 1st ever gf, after about 9 months of asking she let me and it was awesome, she was terrible at sex but this was amazing, same the 2nd time.
The 3rd time was with a fuck buddy I had (after the above gf). She simply said to me on about our 3rd time I think it was that she was on "that time" and so we had to do anal, who was I to argue and we did it and again in the morning before work, that felt really naughty! hehe.
I think the fact they both let me do it more than once showed they must've at least got something out of it, neither time I had to ask for it the 2nd time.
My wife won't allow it though, which is very dissapointing but she says it's cause i'm too big so I suppose there are worse reasons to be deined it.
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feels wonderful, why not?
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I'm kind of ambiguous on it.

With a guy? I might do it but it's not a thing I'm actively searching for (and I'm largely putting my bi-side to pasture now anyhow).

With a woman? I don't think so. I take a lot of pleasure in other parts of a woman's body and I'm really not much of an ass man even when admiring women's bodies.
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Trust me... nearly all guys want to try it, and most ask (some don't even ask! They just turn you over and pull your hips up!)
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I have never tried it actually and wasn't all that interested until I started to meet more women who were fans. I have rimmed a couple of women, though.
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I want it both ways. Giving and receiving.
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I love a big thick very hard cock going in my ass
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I had a reasonable amount of anal sex with one girlfriend, so am experienced with the giving of cock to bum.

I was curious, I admit, before said experience. I didn't have a burning desire to try it (IE I think I could have gone life without it, and not put it down as one of my regrets), but when it's so prevalent in mainstream porn you do naturally wonder what it's like.

She loved it (a lot) so I did it (a fair amount....), but now I've tried it, I've tried it. Curiosity quenched. So if I ever find myself with a girl what wants it, then I'll give it to her. If I don't, then I won't (and it won't bother me).

The only thing that really confused me, regarding anal, was my girlfriend. She loved the thought and fantasy of it, but was completely turned off the actual idea. So she would often get off thinking about it, but wouldn't actually let my cock anywhere near it. I never quite got that one.
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I love to give both. Some guys love anal very much.
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I love to give both. Some guys love anal very much
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Of course all or most guys want to try it.. But when i do want to go through the backhole i always ask first..
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We do it a *lot* and it was *her* idea to try. (So glad she thought of it!!)
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Like anal as I use toys on myself, and have done a few women but I have also had one in mine which was an awesome feeling
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Quote by greysgirl87
Just curious. Are all men inclined to want to try anal sex or is that too much of a fantasy?


I don't mind occasionally receiving, but I don't like to give.
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Never been lucky enough to be with a woman who had any inclination to it.
Bugger.
Or not in this case.
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I think it's natural for a guy to be attracted to a sexy ass, and playing with it to some degree in foreplay is fun if both partners enjoy it. Anal sex would have to be her choice and then, proceeding carefully I would oblige. Admittedly it is fascinating if she is top riding reverse cowgirl to watch me being consumed by her.
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Well it is another place to put the joystick!
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I agree with what was said earlier - "all" is a very important word in the question. I doubt all men want to try anal but I expect most men want it. I have given and received anal and enjoy it both ways a great deal. It's not something I insist on but I am always willing.
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Most men want to try Anal sex, except the ones who have "stinky & nasty" mindset