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ladies i love you but i see a lot of hypocritical people on here.

i see a lot of ladies on here go one about how they don't like guys showing off their penis pics. but these same ladies have breast pics and maybe more.

isnt that a bit contradictory or hypocritical?
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ladies i love you but i see a lot of hypocritical people on here.

i see a lot of ladies on here go one about how they don't like guys showing off their penis pics. but these same ladies have breast pics and maybe more.

isnt that a bit contradictory or hypocritical?


Apparently, you don't know the difference between breasts and genitalia
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Believe it or not, I have seen a lot of male genitalia. I really do not need to see yours the very first time you contact me. When the timing is right I am not too shy as to ask.

The Guys, I know only comment about girls pictures in one fashion. "More Please."

So you think there is a difference in the male and female wiring?
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I think what women complain about more, is the dick pics being sent to them without asking (and in a lot of cases, never having even talking to the person). What is posted on your page is your own prerogative and no one should tell you what you post there...they don't like it, they don't have to look.
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I keep telling all the other guys what women really want is colored pencil penis sketches done Picasso cubistic style. Maybe they might like oil on canvas, too.
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Quote by SeanR83
ladies i love you but i see a lot of hypocritical people on here.

i see a lot of ladies on here go one about how they don't like guys showing off their penis pics. but these same ladies have breast pics and maybe more.

isnt that a bit contradictory or hypocritical?


okay guys - raise your hand if you don't wanna see titties! *scans crowd* yeah, i thought so.

and women? hands up if you don't wanna see dicks. let's see... one, two, three... *10 minutes later* 834, 835...

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okay guys - raise your hand if you don't wanna see titties! *scans crowd* yeah, i thought so.

and women? hands up if you don't wanna see dicks. let's see... one, two, three... *10 minutes later* 834, 835...


I disagree with the premise of both Seans' argument and yours.

Sean is talking about the hypocrisy of girls complaining they get sent pictures of unsolicited cocks, when women also send out pictures of unsolicited breasts. And as a guy, I have to say that I don't fancy receiving pictures of unsolicited breasts because it makes me uncomfortable.

In the same way that a girl knows what a cock is, knows what it looks like, and isn't offended by the mere sighting of a penis (especially on a site like this- one can't be too shocked), they just don't like the unsolicited nature of most received pictures; I would say the same is true of me (and I'm guessing others, I don't think I'm particularly unique) of men.

Furthermore, I put it to you (the phrase best used to win any argument) that, if the recipient likes or dislikes receiving the pictures on not, the hypocrisy is actually still the same. The unsolicited sending is still unsolicited sending, regardless of the enjoyment of the receiver.

In my experience, I've had pictures requested of me much more than I've requested from others- and I've certainly received more than I've sent (that number not being, I'm ashamed to say, zero).

But, I can see the other side and argue against Sean (because the best arguments see both side of the coin) that there is no hypocrisy because, I would guess, in general, that those who complain about receiving unsolicited photos are also people, just like my fine gentlemanly self, that doesn't send them. So those people complaining about receiving unsolicited cock pics aren't being hypocritical about receiving them just because there are other girls who send unsolicited photos of their-selves. It's only hypocritical if they send pictures of themselves (when complain about receiving those of others).

Also, I am guessing (be speaking to others) that the number of men who send them outweigh the number of women, and so the problem may be more of one for women than men.

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It's no secret that I have posted breast pics of myself in various threads around the forums where others have also, but I'm not in the habit of sending them to friends, male or female, unsolicited. When guys send me unsolicited photos of their cocks, it's not that I'm offended by the sight of their cocks, but I feel uncomfortable with their implied desire that I comment upon or praise their endowment. Even acknowledging that I looked at it seems to be important to them, which suggests they derive some gratification from forcing me to look at their genitals when I did not ask to see them. If guys display pictures of their penises in an open forum, I'm not saddled with the expectation that I personally react to what I've seen, but in a personal message, that expectation is implied. That's a form of sexual pressure that women are more sensitive to than men, in my opinion. Perhaps Sean's discomfiture with the reverse situation is based on the same emotions. I'd like to know, actually.

Let me add that few of my new male friends here on Lush have sent me un-requested photos of their penises, so this hasn't been a big issue with me, but from what I read, other women have this happen to them far more frequently. Sean didn't specify if he meant in open forums or in personal messages. I think there is a big difference in venues.
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Quote by JustFriends101
I think what women complain about more, is the dick pics being sent to them without asking (and in a lot of cases, never having even talking to the person). What is posted on your page is your own prerogative and no one should tell you what you post there...they don't like it, they don't have to look.


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It's no secret that I have posted breast pics of myself in various threads around the forums where others have also, but I'm not in the habit of sending them to friends, male or female, unsolicited. When guys send me unsolicited photos of their cocks, it's not that I'm offended by the sight of their cocks, but I feel uncomfortable with their implied desire that I comment upon or praise their endowment. Even acknowledging that I looked at it seems to be important to them, which suggests they derive some gratification from forcing me to look at their genitals when I did not ask to see them. If guys display pictures of their penises in an open forum, I'm not saddled with the expectation that I personally react to what I've seen, but in a personal message, that expectation is implied. That's a form of sexual pressure that women are more sensitive to than men, in my opinion. Perhaps Sean's discomfiture with the reverse situation is based on the same emotions. I'd like to know, actually.

Let me add that few of my new male friends here on Lush have sent me un-requested photos of their penises, so this hasn't been a big issue with me, but from what I read, other women have this happen to them far more frequently. Sean didn't specify if he meant in open forums or in personal messages. I think there is a big difference in venues.


Some guys have a deep seated need to have the world acknowledge that they do in fact, have a dick. Among women, this is almost unheard of. This dichotomy is also represented by far more men than women being obsessed with dick size. I think I was 15 the last time a ruler was placed next to my penis, and that was part of my discovery of auto fellatio. If anyone really wants to see what I've got, it'll have to be the old fashioned way - in person. My crotch is a "no selfie zone". As for breast pictures, my next complaint will be my first. Yes, I have seen Bethany's breasts and she has every right to be proud. I'll give her five years to stop sending them. Oops! I keep forgetting that some women here actually DO have dicks. I'm so confused. Time for a nap.
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okay guys - raise your hand if you don't wanna see titties! *scans crowd* yeah, i thought so.

and women? hands up if you don't wanna see dicks. let's see... one, two, three... *10 minutes later* 834, 835...


Very flawed logic.

It's exactly that kind of thinking that leads to guys sending dick pics. "They'll like it so it's fine."
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Very flawed logic.

It's exactly that kind of thinking that leads to guys sending dick pics. "They'll like it so it's fine."



It's not flawed logic, put into simpler terms it boils down to supply and demand which also relates to why the vast majority of sex workers and exotic dancers are female, women wear more revealing clothing and porn is mostly targeted to the male market.

I'm not saying it's wrong or flawed, it's just the way it is.
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I've only sent my cock one time and she asked. To me the female is much more acceptable because it's simply the most sexually attractive thing in the world.
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Well speaking for myself I love pics of dicks;guys send me your cock pics PLEASE!
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It's only hypocritical if the same person has issues about receiving and also sends them.

But others don't speak for me. Vise versa. There's no universal standard.
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It's not flawed logic, put into simpler terms it boils down to supply and demand which also relates to why the vast majority of sex workers and exotic dancers are female, women wear more revealing clothing and porn is mostly targeted to the male market.

I'm not saying it's wrong or flawed, it's just the way it is.


That doesn't change what i said, really. Granted, for commercial purposes it is the norm for a good reason, but we're not talking about commerce. Assuming males would like to see your body parts even if you don't want to see theirs, and showing them whenever you feel like it is a very skewed way of thinking in my eyes.
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I have never sent breast pics, solicited or otherwise, out on Lush. The exception(s) lies/lie in the October Breast Cancer Awareness thread(s); find me, find my breasts, scars and all. My avatar is me, too, but I've yet to have anyone say anything negative about that picture.

Dick pics? I've received so many that I once had to have my own brother clear my Lush inbox. I couldn't take opening the emails anymore. Certain stories--in my case, Falling--seem to trigger an outpouring of "hey she wrote this she must want to see my dick" kind of thinking. Guys, no. No woman just wants to see random dicks.
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I have both .. just ask if you want pics.