we have got into a habit with someone we know and whilst thats safer, we wonder if excitement drops off a little…
Had repeats & it no different than on on one. With some people you click for the longer term, with others things you or they dont like emerge. Have met some couples regularly for some months or a year for a threesome or a couples swap. We got along well. There were other couples where it was clear a second round would not be as good as the first
We always tried to repeat. My wife always wanted to make an inner relationship with the other woman hoping that would keep it strong. We had some great times and some really bad times after awhile. Those experiences could make a book!