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First attraction to a man

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I have come to realize that new guy in our tech services department is hot. I have never really thought about a real guy that way before, just pics I've seen online. Another step in discovering my bisexuality, I guess. Of course, he's probably straight and I'm not really interested in workplace affairs even if he isn't, but it's still interesting to find myself having that feeling.

Any other guys had that experience late in life (I'm in my fifties) as opposed to earlier?
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I do the same thing sometimes, catch myself feeling attracted to another man. My problem is it is just a sexual desire.
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I do the same thing sometimes, catch myself feeling attracted to another man. My problem is it is just a sexual desire.



Is it Sexual desire or pure lust?
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I came late to bisexuality (49), and I rarely become attracted to men with their clothes on, except during those occasions where prearranged sex is involved. I must admit however, that seeing men running in shorts (especially with no shirt) along the jogging path attached to the designated bus route across from my work does make my dick twitch sometimes.

In public, it's still only women that can typically turn my head and command my admiration, probably because so far, only women can ignite an emotional connection with me.
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HMMMM first time? Was with my best friend, we had a sleepover and masturbated each other I just took it one step further and sucked him, never looked back after that
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HMMMM first time? Was with my best friend, we had a sleepover and masturbated each other I just took it one step further and sucked him, never looked back after that


There was a time when a friend stayed over at my apartment (we would have been late twenties) and I actually had sexual thoughts about him staying; wondered if he would like to masturbate with me or let me suck him. Didn't do anything because, at the time, I was still denying my sexuality due to bullying in high school and had no idea if he would be interested. A decade later, when he unexpectedly died after we had kind of drifted apart for a while, I met his boyfriend at the funeral. So apparently I might have missed an opportunity there.
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My first time was when I was young and watching a Swedish porn film and I saw a girl sucking off a gorgeous guy with the most beautiful cock and being soooo jealous of the girl
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The first time was when I saw a builder with his shirt off and a wonderful body. He was very good looking and I went straight home and played with myself wishing I was with him. It was wonderful. I have seen many more sexy guys on porn films that I fancy and often feel a bit jealous of the girls or guys who are sucking them or being fucked by them, wishing it was me.
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The very first time I was ever attracted to a man was whilst watching Mick Jagger in the movie 'Performance',later I was attracted to David Bowie and Alice Cooper.

It was then I realised I could actually make love to a man, if he looked convincingly enough like a woman.
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1st time was when I went on a high school camp we were having showers and my cock became very erect
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It was in my early teens,I caught a glimpse of my neighbor with his shirt off I got all tingly thats when I knew I was attracted to men,I actually wet myself
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He came on to me, subtle yet bluntly. We were double teaming a gal. We were a bit drunk. We made a sandwich with her. He was in back, me in the front. We just kept giving each other the "look". He pulled out to cum. his shot was powerful enough the I had his cum on my chest! I went on to take my turn in back, fucked her smelling his cum on my chest. He stayed beside me as I worked her from behind. His hands wondering over her body and mine. He would grab my ass and squeeze. I would have gone in his arms right then if I wasn't preoccupied!
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I was 16 at a pool party, he was in my class and wearing a speedo. I never acted on it.VVhsk0fRF5UjKydY
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I remember seeing a black guy at a rave party. He was really muscular and I knew he was straight but when I got home I wanked off over him. I would have sucked him for hours if I could
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broad shoulders and a good chest fo it for me x
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My first time was when I was young and watching a Swedish porn film and I saw a girl sucking off a gorgeous guy with the most beautiful cock and being soooo jealous of the girl


I know that feeling. I love their cocks more than the man
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I have been bi since high school, but here is my first expense feeling lust for a man. In the original Star Trek, there was a scene where sulu had is shirt off. This guy was ribbed with a nice butt. He started getting my horns going.
The romantic bi guy.

Stay horny my friend.
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I was at a bar, not dressed, unfortunately. A guy next to me started chatting me up. He was very handsome. He had a scruffy beard, a "dad-bod," and the most intense eyes. He was charismatic and charming. I started feeling this weird tingling butter-fly feeling in my stomach, and that's when I realized that, for the first time, I was very attracted to a man. I didn't act on it. I'm not sure if he would have been into it, but when he eventually paid his tab and walked away, I had an incredible urge to be with him. The strange part is, before that, I never had a bi-sexual or gay thought in my life. But in that moment, for the first time, I just had an incredible urge to suck his cock!
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My first time actually being attracted to a guy (although I have sucked a few friends off before going into the service) was when the ship I was stationed on was having what they called a steel beach party on the Helo deck and while walking around the deck I seen a shipmate laying out tanning and had a pair of red gym shorts on and pulled up to maximize his tan. When I seen him laying there like that I got an instant hard on but never acted on it.
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Although I had suck several cocks before him the first COCK that I desired was a cousin that was a 3 years older and one day when all of us were skinny dipping he got hard and placed it at my lips. OMG HOW FAST I opened my mouth and wrapped my lips around the head of his dick. We still have each other when we get together.
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Before I was legal and he was old enough to be my Dad
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My first attraction was when I was young. I'm bi and I can honestly say my very first masturbation came from watching men on tv. A couple years later, i had the opportunity to make it real with my best friend and I did and never gave it a secong thought.
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I spent many years in outright denial so it's only recently that I have acknowledged to myself that I find certain men attractive. I think over those years of denial, I found it hard to get along with some people and I think now it was because there was that underlying attraction that I was refusing to acknowledge. Finally, some years ago while working as a volunteer at a museum someone tapped my on the shoulder from behind in a very crowded lobby. They wanted to ask about neighboring attractions and places to eat - I stumbled out some kind of answer but the whole time my brain was saying, "Go anywhere they ask you to go, do anything they ask you to do!" - Sadly, they didn't pick up on it ( or were too interested in each other to want to add a third).
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Was always interested in receiving, but in my late 30's saw a dude that got me hot just looking. Wife got us together while she watched. Loved her for that. Have seen a few guys since
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Porn films and magazines. Old fashioned ones before shaving etc. Although I loved the women my mind started being distracted by fat hard cocks, guys with hair and moustaches. I'd find myself masturbating to the girls and the guys. Shortly after I started acting in it, with fellow masturbators then older guys. I don't find modern male porn stars as attractive