Groaning is too subtle a form of encouragement, so I give detailed, step-by-step instructions on how to bring me to orgasm... just so there's no chance of miscommunication.
From breathing heavily to full on screaming, and begging to outright instructions... it all happens in our house and it's all real. My husband was the one who made me realise that I'm allowed to get what I want too (a real revelation because my ex fiancé was a selfish so and so) and so made me promise never to fake it, which is a promise I've kept!
As for hurrying him along, I've found a select few phrases that seem to make him cum harder. When it becomes clear he's ready, I talk to him. But it's not to make him finish, it's to make it more enjoyable for him. If I'm getting sore or bored I just tell him and then we 're-evaluate' and see what's next.
Moaning is the icing on the cake, and I love icing...
Yelling and yanking the sheets off the bed! My wife and I have broken a bed before. We're both vocal, very loud, and we talk as dirty as it gets to each other during sex. If you can't work up a full-body soaking sweat, even in the air conditioning or dead of an ice cold winter, you aren't fucking.
Except for the fun of doing something really naughty (wrong man, wrong place) totally silently, I like to talk dirty, encourage, stir their emotions.
oh my .... love to hear him moan out loud when shooting his load.... that is a great turn on too... for me, I do moan and make loud noises when being pumped
Yeah, I don't know about all that...but I moan when my lover is hitting the spot or I'm feeling desperate. Moaning is hot, and I reckon women are more comfortable being vulnerable than men are, because men are taught to not express their emotions past a certain extent. I guess that's why gay/bi/pan men moan a lot more, because they reject that misogynistic notion of men having to be more stoic when it comes to pain and pleasure.
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