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Guys would you pay an escort over $250 - $300 to date?

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I have been following a vlog about an escort and she is pretty open and she stands firm when it comes to "buying" her time. She has stated she gets paid $250 for half an hour, $300 for an hour and so much for the night or even a weekend.

Yes this woman even expects clients to pay her lots of money for "dates" because she rather a guy pay for her time. Recently she put out a business idea where she gets guys to pay her so she can view a guy masturbate over Skype oh and she will not masturbate. She will sit fully clothed.

Like to know your thoughts.

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I wouldn't her in the first place, and certainly not pay her anything
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I've never paid for sex, but it is on my bucket list. My fantasy is to go to a legal brothel, hire two women, have them play while I watch, and then join in.
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Well, those rates would be very high where I am. Average around here is probably (all prices in CAD) $140 or maybe $150 for the half hour and $200 for the full hour. $300/hr. would be a top-of-the-line escort in a nice condo or ritzy hotel offering a fairly broad range of services. Most I've ever paid is $250 for an hour. All are "incall" (you go to their location) rates. Usually they add 10-20% or so for outcall (they come to you). Perhaps she's talking outcall (In some jurisdictions, incall is illegal)?

But to pay to Skype where I'm the one putting on the show?? Not happening. Wonder if she has a lot of guys bugging for Skype action (ie. she gets naked and plays for him to watch) and this is just her trolling them.
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In a word, NO.
Primus Omnium
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No. I would never pay for sex.
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Quote by VirgoGo
It's an interesting business proposition for her -- she only needs a couple of takers for this gambit ("you pay me to watch you masturbate") to be worthwhile. I applaud her creativity. And if this particular kind of transaction is a turn-on to a particular kind of guy, I hope they find one another. Win-win.


A nice reasonable take on this - transactional sex is sort of in your wheelhouse, after all, Virgo (in your fiction, of course). Not my thing, but more power to her, and anyone with the money and inclination to take her up on the offer.

The surreal part of that video is that she is so matter-of-fact and non-sexual while she talks. She could be selling life insurance.

Like a few other guys have already said, I've never paid for sex, BUT...in my NYC days, whenever I spotted a higher end prostitute/escort in a bar or a hotel I found the thought pretty arousing. Of course, in my NYC days I barely had money to pay for the subway, so it wasn't exactly a temptation.
Cryptic Vigilante
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No, I wouldn't pay a woman for sexual favors of any kind.

That said, what's presented in the OP really isn't new or surprising to me: experienced escorts know all too damn well that many of their clients seek a certain human contact just as much as a sexual one. Plenty of them actually offer a service that's commonly called a 'girlfriend experience', which may or may not involve sexual favors. Essentially, numerous men are willing to pay the usual fee just to converse/eat/cuddle with an escort while fantasizing that she's their girlfriend.

Wikipedia even has an article about it:


Quote by [url=https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Girlfriend_experience
Wikipedia[/url]]The girlfriend experience (GFE) is a commercial experience that blurs the boundaries between a financial transaction and a romantic relationship. Within the sex industry, GFE is a common term for a sexual encounter in which both the escort and the client are willing to engage in reciprocal sexual pleasure and some degree of emotional intimacy. The "girlfriend experience" generally involves more personal interaction than a traditional call girl or escort offers; it varies widely from person to person, however. There is a focus on not just having sex, but also having more of a comprehensive experience. Within this particular realm of sex work, prostitutes embody a sense of authenticity in order to make the experience more pleasurable for their customer, as well as to make a more lucrative outcome for themselves. If the sex worker is male, the service is called the boyfriend experience.


If you also visit different sex-camming websites, many models who are performing in public-chat announce a fee for c2c (ie. cam-to-cam). For around $10-20, the model will take a peek at your own cam and watch you jerking off to her. I highly doubt that most models will actually bother to watch your cam for more than around 2 seconds, but whatever, it's still an extremely popular fantasy for plenty of guys, haha.

I even once saw a cam-girl who was organizing a raffle to win a Skype-date with her, which she clearly specified to be non-sexual. The price for each ticket was around $10, and within 30 minutes of being in her chat-room I witnessed a guy buying nearly 50 tickets for $500. That's $500 just to have a slight chance of having a non-sexual cyber-date with that specific model (maybe a 25% chance). So yeah, I can totally imagine the proposition featured in the OP being a viable one: plenty of men have these kinds of exhibitionist fantasies, and the price is fairly adequate within that market for a one-on-one experience.

Crazy, yes... inconceivable, no.


PS: Before anyone asks, I only tipped a model once when visiting those sex-camming websites. The girl was performing an unbelievably hot pole-dancing show in public-chat, and absolutely no one was tipping her. I felt very bad for her and went out of my way to buy $10 worth of tokens, which I tipped her all at once, haha.
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Hubbie said he has never used an escort / hooker and doubts that he ever will.

He does know one that has private jets sent to New Orleans to bring her to all parts of the country. The 250 to 300 / hour would not cover her tip.

For Hubbie.
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Quote by Sirene_Jaune
I have been following a vlog about an escort and she is pretty open and she stands firm when it comes to "buying" her time. She has stated she gets paid $2.50 for half an hour, $3.00 for an hour and so much for the night or even a weekend.



Bit steep but yes I would give it a go.
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Quote by NOLAHotGal
Hubbie said he has never used an escort / hooker and doubts that he ever will.



A decade ago, I would have said that. I haven't seen any for a while but that's been more of a time and discretion thing than a lack of desire to do so. The one who was my regular "retiring" to do a non-sex job probably helped, too. She was someone I could have had a real relationship with under other circumstances (common interests, fun to talk to, physically my type). It's the ultimate no-strings attached affair and probably costs less than actually having an affair.
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I find the distaste surrounding paying for sex quite fascinating. From the feminist perspective, there's the notion of "trafficking" and exploitation, where you question the ability of the sex worker to decline gigs....and these are real concerns, especially at the low end of the trade. From the client's perspective, there's the distaste at having to pay for something that can be available for free. And yet, there are tons of providers and even more customers. Maybe distaste adds to the appeal, in some perverse way? -You know you're an outlaw, and not merely a boring CPA, when you can't tell anyone what you're up to!

The intersection of commerce and coitus is a juicy area. I've done some research in this area, and written about it in more "respectable" formats. I'm struck by how organic and flexible the business is. New acts/new offerings/new angles appear constantly -- from camming to the offering on the vlog...And the reactions are pretty consistent. Some are intrigued, some are horrified, and a few actually take the plunge.


I think that prostitution at the high level inspires that distaste for some good reasons. There's a lot of horrific exploitation and abuse that goes on. But that's mostly (but not entirely) at the street level.

Independent escorts, which is what I tend to see, are very independent, hard-working businesswomen for the most part. They work a trade which earns them little to no respect and, yet, are probably as capable as some of those running more "respectable" businesses. They face attacks from the authorities, feminists (some, there are others who are supportive of this side of the sex trade), pimps, and johns but stand their ground and keep on keeping on. In any other business, they'd be held up as examples of hard work and perseverance.

This, of course, creates tension when it comes to how police the sex trade. Do you assume that it is exploitative all round and criminalize the whole thing? Do you support the independents by legalizing or decriminalizing their work while focussing more resources on the abuse and trafficking in other segments of the trade? Do you legalize the whole shebang and let regulation do the job of controlling the abuses?

I don't know that I know the answer, but I'm broadly supportive of legalizing (or, at minimum, decriminalizing) the act of buying/selling sex while still regulating things tightly. However, I don't really have a detailed plan or anything.
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no i would not. im not the sort of person that would pay for dates and sex.
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I haven't and wouldn't pay for sex. Just not for me

However, with appropriate safeguards (to protect against abuse, trafficking, underage, and other reprehensible behaviors) I would support legalization and regulation of prostitution in its various forms.

For her (the woman in the video), she has found a novel way of making money. As there seems to be a certain segment of the male population who believe that there are lots of people who want to see their dick, she is likely to make money. Capitalism in action, unfortunately.
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The idea of hiring a woman for sex is intriguing. Not an on-line chat or Skype session, like this. Certainly, I don't need anyone watching me masturbate.

However, a real-life experience with an anonymous other woman... I can see that being a turn-on. Plus the illusion of control when it's your money on the table seems exciting. Of course that assumes I know she isn't being trafficked, forced, or abused.
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You seriously don't want to go any lower than 300 dollars for a hooker. Any lower and she'll probably look like a cracked out bridge troll.....

1,000 dollar hookers is what you should strive for really.
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Note to self: Put aside at least $2000 for Burquette's Hooker Adventure.
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Note to self: Put aside at least $2000 for Burquette's Hooker Adventure.


sounds like a good story. Will you do your usual research for the sake of verisimilitude?
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sounds like a good story. Will you do your usual research for the sake of verisimilitude?


I don't know if I can afford to! I may just have to have the experience and make it memoir. ;)
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I don't know if I can afford to! I may just have to have the experience and make it memoir. ;)


Burquette's Hooker Adventure is a doozy of a title.
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You seriously don't want to go any lower than 300 dollars for a hooker. Any lower and she'll probably look like a cracked out bridge troll.....

1,000 dollar hookers is what you should strive for really.


I'm not really sure what market you are in, but see my comments upthread. $300/hr. gets you a fairly good one around here. It's the $150 and under that you have to watch out for. And I've never heard of anyone charging $1000 around here. That's probably something you'd only see in places like NY and Hollywood where there's people with money to burn. I don't think even the Toronto scene gets that high.
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Quote by seeker4
I'm not really sure what market you are in, but see my comments upthread. $300/hr. gets you a fairly good one around here. It's the $150 and under that you have to watch out for. And I've never heard of anyone charging $1000 around here. That's probably something you'd only see in places like NY and Hollywood where there's people with money to burn. I don't think even the Toronto scene gets that high.


I was a bit surprised by Magical_felix's response too. I've never hired an escort and my awareness of that business is limited to the hearsay of a few friends/colleagues/whatever, but I've always assumed that here in Montreal the customary prices ranged from $50 for a shitty street-blowjob to around $300 for a proper session with a professional escort.

From the web:


Quote by [url=https://redlightcanada.com/how-much-does-a-montreal-escort-cost/
Redlight Canada[/url]]You can expect to pay anything from $50 an hour right up to $200 for a street escort (depending on how many clients they’ve had and what time of day it happens to be).

Costs for independent private escorts vary but you can expect to pay between $200 to $300 an hour. Two hours usually come in at around $500 with couples at $400 an hour.

If it’s a menage-a-trois you’re after, expect to pay around $500.

At the opposite end of the scale, there are ‘luxury companions’ offering a VIP girlfriend experience which may set you back well over $1000 per hour.
Cryptic Vigilante
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Quote by seeker4
(...) And I've never heard of anyone charging $1000 around here. That's probably something you'd only see in places like NY and Hollywood where there's people with money to burn. I don't think even the Toronto scene gets that high.


To be fair however, there are plenty of people with money to burn in pretty much every major city around the world. I really wouldn't be surprised to learn that a few high-end escorts charge up to $10,000 for a full night here in Montreal, which make themselves available for wealthy businessman and hockey players. As per my source above, even $1000 is well over the norm, but you still have plenty of people earning salaries that are well over the norm too.

Sex sells, remember.


Edit: Just stumbled across this VIP escort based in Montreal...


Quote by [url=http://www.camillestpier.com/packages
Camille St-Pier[/url]]An affair ..... 400$

Rendez-Vous - 2 hours ..... $800

Rendez-Vous - 3 hours ..... $1,200
A little drink, massage, bubble bath and dessert

A Lunch or Dinner Date - 4 hours ..... $1,500
A great start, fine wine, conversation, 3 courses... starter, main course and dessert back in the hotel room.

Overnight Romance - roughly 10 hours ..... $2,500
Get to know me over and over and over and over ... again!!

A Delightful Day - 24 hours ..... $4,000
Brunch, beach, hiking, explore the city or just hanging in bed with room service.

The 2 night, 1 day - 48 hours ..... $6,000
Wild at Heart
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I get white hookers with no tattoos and Eastern European accent. No holes barred.
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(...) No holes barred.


No holes barred, huh.


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I have no idea how much those crack ho street walkers I see in Atlanta charge. But I've noticed when they strut down the street, a police cruiser usually pulls up to them with the blue lights on. Maybe they're setting up a date.

I've heard that upscale call girls here charge about $1000 and way up.

According to the TV news and newspaper, Atlanta is one of the top illegal sex trade cities in the USA. Really, you don't see lots of street whores. According to the last TV news exposé I saw on Atlanta's sex industry, call girls make up the vast majority of prostitutes and evidently, there are a few thousand. That blew my mind.

I know we've got over 70 strip clubs but those are legal. The better clubs are loaded with very good looking girls. At least half of the clubs are pretty large and fairly upscale. They'll have over 100 dancers per shift. So do the math, that's a lot of strippers.

So to answer the question. No, I would not pay for an escort no matter the cost.