You KNOW you are about to have sex / lovemaking ... do you like the act of being undressed by your partner or do you want to undress yourself. Also, do you like undressing your partner?
I think the very act of seductive undressing for a lover can be a hugely erotic part of foreplay. I had my current lover sit and watch me both undress from my day-clothes and dress into beautiful lingerie. This was our first intimate meeting. Oh, don't get me wrong, I'm no 'floozy' - I turned my back to him as I put on my display, for decency of course!!! ?
3 years later, he's still my adored and very sensual lover ?
Kind of answered this your other thread on foreplay. I love undressing my partner, making sure lots of touching of skin and body parts happens as I do. Watching a partner undress is pretty nice, too, but I'd say that undressing a partner myself, unveiling their nakedness at my own pace, is a bigger turn-on when push comes to shove. As for myself, whatever turns my partner on, but having them remove my clothing is very exciting.
I like being undressed slowly by my partner in the first instance. Don't know about you lot but having progressively fewer items of clothing on puts me in a state of powerlessness that's kinda hot. Of course he'd get undressed too - eventually.
I love having my clothing removed by my lover
It depends upon whom I'm about to have sex with, and the time we have, our mood, sense of urgency...
Well, he certainly likes undressing me. I never mind some help! But other times, he wants me fully naked on the bed or couch and already touching myself when he comes into the room. It all depends the mood and how the day has gone so far. Sometimes a fun striptease is good (probably more for a laugh than anything else).
Depends on the situation, but if she want me too, I have no problem sexily stripping, but I do enjoy a lady "ripping" my close off too.
I like BOTH: undressing her and making each revelation a blessing to me.....
Having her do a striptease for me.
In short, the undressing of each of us is part of the love making.
I do NOT like: her being so controlling she undresses as quickly as possible like it has no meaning, or is nothing special, removing any of the joy we can share in the act. That has, in my experience, been a prelude to disinterested, machine-like fucking that means nothing to her.
it really depends. am i feeling playful? if so, i would rather undress myself slowly and tease him. have i been thinking about this encounter all day? then he should rip my clothes off. so many variables...
I have been told that I undress so quickly I look like a cartoon character. WHOOSH! and I'm naked.
I like watching someone undress slowly for me. I also like watching someone dress slowly for me, into something sexy.
Very much a part of foreplay, and should be enjoyed as such. Not just the undressing but first touches, fingers feeling the contrast between bra and breast, skirt on the back of your hand and thigh then panties on your palm/fingers.
The moment she lifts her bottom to allow her panties to be removed and how they slip down her legs and off. Like unwrapping a Christmas present.
I never really undressed a guy so wouldn't mind doing so but might be a bit nervous and clumsy when it comes to unbuttoning buttons on shirts. As for being undressed think it would be sexy through never had it happen usually just undressed myself.
I depends upon the urgency.
If we have time and the mood takes us we occasionally undress each other.
If we are both really caving it we rip our own clothes off - if we have any on to start with.
One of the best bits of lovemaking is the undressing. Sometimes it is that desperate need to tear each other's things off because you can't wait to get at each other's bodies, sometimes it is a striptease, but almost always it is arousing
I love to tease when my partner from start to finish so removing my clothes very slowly as he sits and watches. For me this is part of foreplay and the more enjoyable it is the more he wants ...
Both can be fun. Depends on the mood and sometimes you just want to get at it!
Far too many variables to say to say always. Either can be wonderful... Having you clothing just ripped of ain't too bad either.
I do enjoy undressing him slowly 
