Just curious, why do men feel so insecure about this subject? A 5-6 inch penis is normal size, but most men say they are eight inches or more. Personally, I've seen two cocks that big, they were nice, but nothing exceptional to me except for a couple of extra inches to stroke. My bf is 6 1/2, thick, with a big set of balls and I think he's really nicely developed. Fills my pussy and ass and makes me orgasm almost every time we make love. He's also 6-3", muscular and handsome, smart and funny. I like those qualities as much as I do his beautiful, thick cock.
I'm average. But when relaxed, it's quite small. My wife have nicknamed my penis, "Junior"!
It is primarily an ego thing, like some of you have said above. I think it's mostly from the guys who doesn't really experience sex much and is trying too hard to bed a girl, thinking the girls would enjoy a huge or long cock, very much the same way a guy is more attracted to larger bosoms on ladies.
It's just a case of 'penis envy' that is so fueled by porn scenes of overly large penises and the ladies enjoying them on the shows...ever notice how the guy(s) hold their cocks in the scenes? They are actually holding their penis extenders in place. And some of those fake penises have gobs of fake cum. A real penis cannot produce that much cum as some of the porn vids shows.
Current internet "information" and opinion seems to be that the average penis size RANGE is between 5 to 6 inches, anything outside of this being uncommon, either larger or smaller (3.5 being defined I understand as micropenis) and those with confirmed erect sizes exceeding 7.5 extremely rare (flaccid size we know being no indicator of erect size).
This pleases me, as I do reach the average range, just, being 5.25 BP on a good day, though they are fewer as time goes on. I've always considered myself small as I had a I thought relatively late and unnoticeable puberty and was somewhat bullied at school (no sympathy I could stand up for myself). However, I've had no complaints from the few ladies wiith whom I've had sex, mostly my wife it's true, possibly as my girth is slightly more than my length.
Not all do some have other assets!
this hasn't been my experience in real life. HOWEVER, online, i must be the 'luckiest' girl in the world because i constantly encounter gentlemen eight inches and larger?
Honestly, I don't think I've ever told anyone what my length is and frankly I don't know. If a woman really wanted to know, there is one way to find out.
I can't do anything about my "size" and I don't think I have to. But my tongue skills, I've worked to develop.
it's shrinkage, i swear to god!
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Why do fishermen exaggerate the size of the fish they've caught? ...Must be a guy thing.
There are no doubt various reasons. But I think one of them is that with the explosion of readily available porn, mostly what you see are big dicks. Some monstrously so. I saw one guy on Fetlife with a 14" (35.6cm for those European ladies) cock. It was just about up to his nipples. And he had balls like tennis balls (though not bright yellow). Who the hell can physically accommodate that? I believe lots make a good try though.
Anyway, I digress...
Yeah - how often do you see pictures put up on the chat room picture rooms of 5-6 inches, or less , cocks. Not very often.. So I think some men play up to what they feel is expected.
And let's be honest, is it any less dishonest than a woman wearing a wonderbra? I don't believe so.
When I heard a guy talk about his size I always reminded him it was not the size of the tool that did the job - it was the way it was used.
Can't say it's ever been an issue offline - either I'm talking to people who don't care, or I'm talking to a woman who might care, in which case I'm likely hoping that she'll find out soon enough.
But online is a different world. I know that most men lie, so I assume that women will take that into account. So I usually add a couple of inches on and say that I actually have 12 inches...
I think I should start exaggerating the depth of my vagina.
I don't understand why men lie about their penis size? Particularly if they posted their picture. Unless a woman has indicated they want, love and need a BBC or WBC we expect a man to have an average sized cock. This is all cyber talk here and reading erotica, we can imagine every detail that we desire. No need to lie. I've chatted with a few people whose cocks grown and shrink often apparently. I just giggle and accept them as they are because I like them.
Almost all men? What is that, 9 out of 10? I'm not sure where you get that from. In real life, I've never told or been asked about the size of my penis by anyone. By the time that question COULD be asked, an intimate viewing is usually imminent. On hookup sites, I make it readily available for review. It's actually a click, a scroll down and a second click from this page.
Who is it that's doing all this asking? Do you ask every guy you meet? It seems a little clinical to me.
I checked it out, and I am surprised that the average is around five and a half. Fortunately, I've only run into a couple of those.
Me I'm a grower not a shower! I'm not proud ... not ashamed ---- just glad the way I came!
Insecurity, wishful thinking, embarrassment, and a desire for praise all seem like common reasons to me. I try to be honest about it whenever asked and even had an ex girlfriend grab a ruler for measurements with which to report back to her friends. You can say that you've got a foot long but unless you do you are only setting the girl up for disappointment, even if you are still packing compared to the average.
In college I once knew a guy that was roommates with my coworker. He was very small and all of his guy friends knew about it. At parties it would come up and they would poke fun of him in front of the girls. Funny thing is that pretty much every girl would think "wow, he must be HUGE and is just humble about it" and end up putting the moves on him. Later on, after some serious foreplay, they would see that he was telling the truth and most would figure "well, he didn't lie" and end up sleeping with him still. Dude actually got laid more than your average guy just for being up front, even with tiny equipment.
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