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OK guys - what contraception do you use, if any? to avoid pregnancy.

I have been married 17 years and bar the first years when we conceived - have been stuck on condoms ever siince.

judging by the porn amateur stuff I see - most couples do not use condoms. I assume the girl is on the pill or they are trying for a child or taking chances.
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OK guys - what contraception do you use, if any? to avoid pregnancy.

I have been married 17 years and bar the first years when we conceived - have been stuck on condoms ever siince.

judging by the porn amateur stuff I see - most couples do not use condoms. I assume the girl is on the pill or they are trying for a child or taking chances.


Condoms, always (well, except for with my very first girlfriend).


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When needed, condoms.
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OK guys - what contraception do you use, if any? to avoid pregnancy.

I have been married 17 years and bar the first years when we conceived - have been stuck on condoms ever siince.

judging by the porn amateur stuff I see - most couples do not use condoms. I assume the girl is on the pill or they are trying for a child or taking chances.


This is why we shouldn't allow our viewing of porn to influence any of our real world decisions.

Do you have an aversion to vasectomy?
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This is why we shouldn't allow our viewing of porn to influence any of our real world decisions.

Do you have an aversion to vasectomy?


My wife doesn't want me to have a V. Even though we intend to have no more children.

I'm going to do a sperm count as I hardly produce any semen these days and if my sperm count is 0 - I can save myself the bother of a V anyway.
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Not a guy, but I use an IUD. I know lots of girls who do also.

There are some Medical Risks, so talk to your Doctors.

Condoms are such a pain, but it does give you some other protection.
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Sorry! Have not done that for a while.
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OK guys - what contraception do you use, if any? to avoid pregnancy.

I have been married 17 years and bar the first years when we conceived - have been stuck on condoms ever siince.

judging by the porn amateur stuff I see - most couples do not use condoms. I assume the girl is on the pill or they are trying for a child or taking chances.


Vasectomy!
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That depends. I don't have casual sex really, and my last two girlfriends had passed menopause. But with a younger woman I would use a condom, and recommend everyone use one unless you've had serious talk about the subject first. It's all a man can do.
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I use condoms but i'm not in a stable relationship and I'm not having sex with just one person. But from what i know in cases like yours the best way to do it is to have the female partner do it. I'm not sure what it's called, i think it's something like "spiral" or whatever, but from what i hear it's the safest non-permanent way of contraception
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Quote by rafael


My wife doesn't want me to have a V. Even though we intend to have no more children.

I'm going to do a sperm count as I hardly produce any semen these days and if my sperm count is 0 - I can save myself the bother of a V anyway.



If you were fertile at one point in your life odds are you won't be sterile and even if your sperm count showed 0 on one test I still wouldn't rely on that as birth control, because of your prior fertility. You must know that it takes only one teeny weeny microscopic sperm to fertilise an egg?
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If you were fertile at one point in your life odds are you won't be sterile and even if your sperm count showed 0 on one test I still wouldn't rely on that as birth control, because of your prior fertility. You must know that it takes only one teeny weeny microscopic sperm to fertilise an egg?


true - though it took 1 year of trying to conceive, so I probably have a low sperm count.
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Condoms.
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I have been married for 30 years. My wife was on the pill and an IUD. Unless we wanted kids, the we went bareback twice a day. WQe have three and they are out of the nest. When we decided three was enough, it was V -Time. We have totaly bareback ever since.
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Bareback...I have experience V-time as well.
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I have a number of different partners who also have multiple partners. Condoms are the usual with me. There are a few who I am confident are not a risk & we bareback, but otherwise we fuck sheathed.
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I use a combination of everything. She is on birth control and I use a condom unless she is in a part of her cycle where the pregnancy risk is lowest. I also pull out half the time, partly to have that tiny little bit less risk and partly because it’s hot to cum on her or to have her watch me cum.

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I had a vasectomy back in 1964; dark ages.....one of the smarter things that I did actually. We had had four children by then and did not want more. Even though the sex faded in the marriage after a few years, it was still a good choice.

And as it has turned out, I have never used a condom in my life. Since I had prostate cancer radiation 20 years ago, there is no semen fluid to ejaculate, so no need from that point of view. On the flip side, there have been relatively few partners since then. Sadly....