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This kind of topic has probably been spoken about before but I am looking for help and advice on finding a partner and relationships really. Iv been finding it very difficult for a long time now I know I am young with this situation but am looking for any help and advice any would be appreciated I have been on my own for around 8 almost 9 years now I think. I know some people have been in different situations regarding this subject and different scenarios
Ls63563
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Get out, go places, do things, grow a life. When you are out and about, doing things and living life, you meet people. Usually people who are doing the same things you are. There would be a wonderful place to look first. In that way you would also see other people interact and get an idea of how it is done.
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Get out, go places, do things, grow a life. When you are out and about, doing things and living life, you meet people. Usually people who are doing the same things you are. There would be a wonderful place to look first. In that way you would also see other people interact and get an idea of how it is done.


I do go out on my daily walks usually for several hours to a nice park and places like that I spent my time outside seeing places
trinket
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Not just walks. Go out and do things like join a sports team or club. For example, footy, tennis, fishing, cars, archery, etc. most sports have mixed teams now and socialise with others after your games. Search the Internet for ideas. What about night classes? There are classes for practically everything, art, home improvement or decoration, skills that may improve your work performance. Go out and interact with others.
Dancing_Doll
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You seem outdoorsy, so maybe look into getting involved with a local nature/camping/portaging or hiking group. Something that will give you some sustained quality time with a group of people. Try a paddle-boarding or kayaking club in your area.

If that's not your thing, consider volunteering or getting involved with a charity of your choice. Do fundraisers, work a booth at a local event or festival, help out at a local shelter (animal or human). Volunteer to go abroad with a charity group (eg. clean water projects) or get involved with something like Habitat for Humanity. You will always meet people that way.

I don't know if you're religious (or care to be), but church-based activities/groups are probably a slam-dunk if you're looking to ease into growing a group of friends or finding a relationship, but that involves a personal commitment that's not for everyone.

Lastly, maybe save up some $ or dip into the vacation funds and go on a Contiki tour. You'll meet lots of solo travellers (they claim up to 55% go solo) and have some fun. I have two friends that have actually found relationships out of this.
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You seem outdoorsy, so maybe look into getting involved with a local nature/camping/portaging or hiking group. Something that will give you some sustained quality time with a group of people. Try a paddle-boarding or kayaking club in your area.

If that's not your thing, consider volunteering or getting involved with a charity of your choice. Do fundraisers, work a booth at a local event or festival, help out at a local shelter (animal or human). Volunteer to go abroad with a charity group (eg. clean water projects) or get involved with something like Habitat for Humanity. You will always meet people that way.

I don't know if you're religious (or care to be), but church-based activities/groups are probably a slam-dunk if you're looking to ease into growing a group of friends or finding a relationship, but that involves a personal commitment that's not for everyone.

Lastly, maybe save up some $ or dip into the vacation funds and go on a Contiki tour. You'll meet lots of solo travellers (they claim up to 55% go solo) and have some fun. I have two friends that have actually found relationships out of this.


I do already Volunteer at a charity store in my local area I work there 2 days a week and I have meet alot of people there and made friends but no one really in my age group there all around 20 or so years older than me. I am not really religious so I don't do the churchy stuff.
But I shall look into this so I can actually potentially meet someone
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Let people know you’re looking. Family and friends might be willing to set you up if they know you’re open to it. Also, this means you’re not meeting a total stranger. Else, focus on making yourself attractive to a mate. By that I mean working on your hobbies and your interests as other people have suggested.
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Let people know you’re looking. Family and friends might be willing to set you up if they know you’re open to it. Also, this means you’re not meeting a total stranger. Else, focus on making yourself attractive to a mate. By that I mean working on your hobbies and your interests as other people have suggested.


Sadly my family will not do something like that they leave me to it and my friends don't do that ether but bring as I only really do outdoor walking a lot there isn't much activity I have but I will definitely look into some of the things other people have suggested
Ls63563
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You just don't stand much of a chance if you don't go were the people you want to meet and interact with are.
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I am trying to do that I'm going out a lot more now I just need to work on some hobbies like other users have suggested I'm not really a Bar or Club sort of person as it's not my atmosphere really
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People are very reserved--do you know what you'd like in your partner? If so, you'll meet people w/ same hobbies and something will come of it.


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People are very reserved--do you know what you'd like in your partner? If so, you'll meet people w/ same hobbies and something will come of it.


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Well what I am mainly looking for in a partner is someone interested in long walks out and exploring places someone that doesn't live at the gym and doesn't mind a night in. As well as a person who loves me for me I'm not exactly rich and made of money ether way I'm really into my music and hoping they are too whether it's the same genre or totally different I don't mind branching out. I do enjoy going to the cinema and seeing a film here and there if something comes of interest to me they have on if not then it's Netflix or Amazon at home. I'm not really a sporty person at all or going to Bars and Clubs not my kind of atmosphere as I mentioned before but I have been told I'm rather good at Badminton.
Im not asking for much so that kind of person must be out there somewhere.