Does anyone else feel like I do?
What is happening to make that happen?
Do some women cry after squirting?
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Am I normal if I've never squirted and think it's scary/gross?
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Not sure why you're asking guys this. Personally, I have never seen it happen with any woman I have been with. A couple have emitted fluid in response to certain stimulation but I wouldn't call it a "squirt", more like a dribble. It's not something I desire, either. It's neither a turn-on nor a turn-off for me, just something that might happen during sex.
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Does anyone else feel like I do?
What is happening to make that happen?
Do some women cry after squirting?
Margot ... I think that some women may "cry" after a good orgasm and not just necessarily a "squirting orgasm". And then again, they may NOT cry after an orgasm no matter how deep / strong it is. It is my guess / belief that the crying is rooted in a much deeper mix of emotions than just those surrounding whether or not there was a big "O". I won't even pretend to go any further into that as you women are such mysterious creatures anyway.
NOT being female, I really have no idea what sort of "happenings" happen to make a squirt happen. I also have on more than one occasion wondered just what constitutes a "squirt". Yeah, I know ... and have seen ... the porn videos where the female can just about put out a fire on the second floor of a building with her "squirting orgasm". On the other hand, what about the really big soaking wet spots left on the sheets?? That scenario has happened on more than one occasion in my background (many years ago). Does that constitute a "Squirting orgasm"?? The important thing is that she / I had made love that was meaningful to us whether or not the act had met certain criteria for "squirting". In remembering back, that was at a time BEFORE either of us had ever heard of a "squirting orgasm". I have to thank "porn" for adding to my field of knowledge.
In my humble opinion, what is 'normal' for you may / maynot be normal for the next woman. So ... again in my humble opinion ... you needn't feel abnormal if you've never "squirted" ... and please get over the feelings of it being scary or grossed out. Once again ... in my humble opinion ... no real "(gentle) man" would be grossed out.
My best to you for the Holiday Season and always wishing the Very Best for you in Love and Life.
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It's nothing I have ever encountered in real life, so I am confident that you're in the normal category. Most of the porn videos look contrived and I presume are faked. Nothing about my partners body or bodily functions do I find scary or disgusting to be honest, any more than I do for my own body. (That doesn't mean I want to play with pee and poo though!)
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Based on my experience I'd say its far more normal to not squirt as that's been a pretty rare occurrence in my experience. As for what turns you on/off or grosses you out its all a pretty personal thing and I wouldn't worry about it in the least.
I've been known to make women cry for reasons I often don't understand...before during and after sex...I don't overthink it...
I've been known to make women cry for reasons I often don't understand...before during and after sex...I don't overthink it...
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We actually have a couple escorts in this area who advertise as being "sheet soakers". Never appealed to me but it must to some guys or they wouldn't be highlighting it in their ads.
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Does anyone else feel like I do?
What is happening to make that happen?
Do some women cry after squirting?
Of all my lovers (a fairly substantial number, at least by non-Lush standards), I've only had one who squirted. If you don't like the idea, then don't worry about it. Any partner who's going to get on your case because you don't squirt, you need to find a different partner.
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As a woman, I believe "Smoocher" (Rick) has said it all.
I am a woman who does not 'squirt' however I can and do get quite 'wet' when aroused and at times I have secreted a substance when having an orgasm. This was not what one would describe as a squirt though its a seepage or weep from my vagina. Its clear and certainly not pee. There is very little quantity. The term 'cry' is a good analogy. It's not quite as viscous as male semen but has a slightly musky taste, not unlike the taste of a woman when one enjoys performing oral sex on a woman. My partners do enjoy it when it happens and particularly when I get wet during foreplay. It tastes nothing like male semen, as I have tasted my own from my fingers, and their lips.
I have had many experiences with other women but very very few that have squirted when they cum. I consider it more like pee in volume and consistency rather than anything else due to the taste if and when it happened. It's not something I enjoy.
I am a woman who does not 'squirt' however I can and do get quite 'wet' when aroused and at times I have secreted a substance when having an orgasm. This was not what one would describe as a squirt though its a seepage or weep from my vagina. Its clear and certainly not pee. There is very little quantity. The term 'cry' is a good analogy. It's not quite as viscous as male semen but has a slightly musky taste, not unlike the taste of a woman when one enjoys performing oral sex on a woman. My partners do enjoy it when it happens and particularly when I get wet during foreplay. It tastes nothing like male semen, as I have tasted my own from my fingers, and their lips.
I have had many experiences with other women but very very few that have squirted when they cum. I consider it more like pee in volume and consistency rather than anything else due to the taste if and when it happened. It's not something I enjoy.
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however I can and do get quite 'wet' when aroused and at times I have secreted a substance when having an orgasm. This was not what one would describe as a squirt though its a seepage or weep from my vagina. Its clear and certainly not pee. There is very little quantity. The term 'cry' is a good analogy. It's not quite as viscous as male semen but has a slightly musky taste, not unlike the taste of a woman when one enjoys performing oral sex on a woman.
This is what I was thinking of but you've described it better. I've experienced a woman with this "seepage" but never an "squirt".
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I've had a bit of experience with a partner who squirts and soaks sheets. I think its hot. Here is some advice:
1) Have a non alcoholic drink handy to stay hydrated.
2) Put a few towels down first so your bed isn't drenched.
3) Have some wet sloppy fun.
I'm not sure what to tell you about the crying. Crying women tend to throw me off my game a bit. Other that give a hug I never know what to do.
1) Have a non alcoholic drink handy to stay hydrated.
2) Put a few towels down first so your bed isn't drenched.
3) Have some wet sloppy fun.
I'm not sure what to tell you about the crying. Crying women tend to throw me off my game a bit. Other that give a hug I never know what to do.
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I must have the odd one. Wife has always been very wet, and has cried on more than a few occasions. And she is not a crier. She is a squirter, I love it and dont mind doin the laundry. She dosnt do it every time, but I can usally tell before she tells me it is gonna happen. G-spot and clit rubbing are the best ways to make her squirt. She told me once long ago after a good session she thought she was gonna pee on me, but didnt have to pee when we were done. Next time told her to relax and let it go. We were both shocked at the outcome. She was embaressed, told her I loved it and never to say sorry for it again. It was a first for both us, I give her all the credit, she is awsum.
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Majority of ladies have never squirted. trust me when and/if it does happen, because you are so stimulated and gspot hit just right, you will not care as it will be so intense. but again majority never will
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I am currently with a lover that doesn't squirt per say but she does gush. The first time we made love at my place we soaked the sheets. I think she may have been embarrassed. When I saw the size of the wet spot on the sheets I told her that I thought that was great and I thanked her. She stated that she has never gotten that wet or put out that much fluid ever. Later on she confessed that she was worried (due to age) if she would be able to get wet enough with out the aid of some type of lubricant. She doesn't do this every time but we are finding the common themes that underlie these events. I actually think it is awesome when a woman is relaxed enough, and emotionally available and physically present to cum and expel excessive liquid.
With all that said, here is the main point. Sex, lover making is to be enjoyed. Enjoy it and be present but don't over think it. Accept how your body responds to each and every lover and love making session. They will be different and accept them as such. And by all means if your lover cannot accept you and your reactions to love making find someone new.
With all that said, here is the main point. Sex, lover making is to be enjoyed. Enjoy it and be present but don't over think it. Accept how your body responds to each and every lover and love making session. They will be different and accept them as such. And by all means if your lover cannot accept you and your reactions to love making find someone new.