I read the other day that 1% of the population enjoys masturbating better thAn sex. I think I maybe be in that 1%. Whats everyones thoughts on this?
I certainly enjoy sex better than masturbation. However, if you are REALLY good at taking care of your own business, and not that interested in teaching someone else how to push your buttons, I can see where you're coming from, I think. I'm know it takes quite a while in a relationship to really get to know all of the ins and outs of what turns on your partner and vice versa. So I guess for some people, they either aren't interested in letting someone else know what makes them tick, or are afraid to let someone else get that intimately aware of them, or whatever reason.
And you dont have to worry about pleasing another person. I have to say though, I'm not in that 1%
Sex is so much better than masturbation in my opinion. I never get the "true" feeling when I masturbate that sex leaves me. I mean, I know nobody ever gets the same feeling of sex through masturbation anyway. However, I will say this, when sex is not an option with a partner, masturbating each other is a real turn on. That's when masturbation does seem like "real" sex to me!
"So don't cry to me.
If you loved me,
You would be here with me.
Don't lie to me,
Just get your things.
I've made up your mind."
--Evanescence
Masturbation for me just takes the "edge off" ..... or get's me ready for "more" ... hmmm ... I prefer the "more"!
Yeah, sex is far, far better than masturbation, IMHO.
I probaly agree with that, although I do enjoy others as well
OK I have to ask a stupid question. Why if you like masturbation better than sex why are you having an affair???
Bunny12
Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off! Masturbation usually makes me crave sex. Sex is usually always better even phone sex. You get off either way but having the connection with another person you are hot for makes it so much BETTER and makes me cum much harder.
Bunny12
Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off! Well Birdie... i gotta think your wrong on that. masturbation is for phone sex or when you can't get the real thing but need the "attention".
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Well, I see no wrong in prefering sex with yourself before a partner.
I used to masturbate a lot but not reallly like it. I mean it was more of a thing to do just because it was supposed to be done. (you're weird if you do not masturbate *nods*) But I enjoy it now, thanks to some people making me look at the world and myself differently.
I almost like it better than sex...
Cause you get to feel so much more, before I felt more when someone else touched me, now I'm not even sure Im wet or not when with a partner. Something I always know when Im with myself.
(What a lot of rambling)
You dont have to decide if you like sex better than masturbation. To me it's two different sensations. Feels good in diffrent ways.
Masturbation: When you need something done right, do it yourself.
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