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Posted: Tuesday, January 12, 2010 12:30:54 PM

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Inspired from Rocco's post to the girls, I'm asking the same of the guys...

Would you be interested in dating a porn star?
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Posted: Tuesday, January 12, 2010 1:17:41 PM

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Absolutely - NO.



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Posted: Tuesday, January 12, 2010 1:38:05 PM

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It would depend on the porn star. You never know she might be very interesting. We are talking dating, like go to dinner that kind of thing? Would I have sex with her, this is all hypothetical, it could happen. I wouldn't be ashamed of it if it did or anything like that. If I did go on a date with a porn star, I would have a lot of questions I would like to ask her, I would be very interested in how she sees life and balances her job.

My life as it is has been pretty cherry vanilla, like I like my love life one on one. I prefer monogamy. That's me. I don't care for swinging or multiple partners. So being able to talk with someone who lives a totally different sex life than I do would be interesting.

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Posted: Tuesday, January 12, 2010 2:56:26 PM

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I never really dated a "Porn star" in the true sense, though I did date a porn actress back in the eighties for a bit, when I was living in NYC...I wouldn't really call her a "star"...it was interesting at the time, got to go to John Holmes birthday party at the Limelight in NYC with girls dancing in cages hanging from the ceiling and other stuff that really would mean nothing to me now...
I can't remember what year this was exactly, though we saw 'Educating Rita" in the movies, I remember that.
Btw, it was not so interesting that it has inspired any of my stories here...not yet, anyway...


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Posted: Tuesday, January 12, 2010 3:16:01 PM

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You know what...I would have to clarify the above...the girl that I dated back then had made various movies, some of which were well known at the time, but she really wasn't actively a porn actress...
In other words...I would be reluctant to date a girl who was going out to a "movie set" during the day and having sex with various guys all day and then coming home to me at night...that would be a "NO"...I think that is what you really want to know...


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Posted: Tuesday, January 12, 2010 3:47:32 PM

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NO!
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Posted: Tuesday, January 12, 2010 4:01:03 PM

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In December 1998, I met a woman, ten years my junior - on an adult dating website. She resided about 12 miles from me at the time. We exchanged a few emails and it was a Friday evening. She invited me to meet her at a busy nightclub, near her residence.

There wasn't much else going on that night, I hadn't seen her photo, but she seemed like a reasonable enough person, about as reasonable as you can decipher from a pair of brief email exchanges.

She had described herself to me and I to her, so when I saw the very attractive 5'9" - 130#, fair skinned Jamaican lady with the huge pair of enhanced EE's I knew she was Vanessa. Vanessa Wood. Former pr0n actress who I later learned, had 'starred' as the featured deepthroat performer in a series of forgettable, almost no-budget, xxx rated movies - straight to VCR tape.

She was pretty damned attactive, facially and physically. Pretty damned articulate, sharp as a tack and she always had a quick comeback if someone threw her any shit.

We became friendly...but did not have sex, as she wasn't into tall, skinny white boys. She had enjoyed my email banter and I was the first man she met on that website, so she wanted to become 'buds'...cool with me.

I didn't find out what she had done for a living out in LA between her 22nd and 27th years of life, until I agreed to leave the nightclub with her and five other people, 2 damned fine looking bi-girls and three other dudes...for an after nightclub boozing night-capper at Vanessa's townhome.

Vanessa excused herself and escorted the two fine younger blondes back to her bedroom and told us remaining 4 guys that we could help ourselves to her freezer for ice and cabinet for glasses - and "Oh, I've got some video tapes by the entertainment center - you guys can see me in action."

Up til that moment I just thought she was a very engaging, horny bi-sexual and dominant young woman...

After watching her swallow four huge hunks of man root, on two tapes...I decided I wouldn't try to pursue her for even a brief sexual interlude.

Lost track of Vanessa after a year.

I wouldn't be adverse to dating a former porn starlet or bit-actress - but I'd just as soon not see her body of work at any time, either.


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Posted: Tuesday, January 12, 2010 4:35:58 PM

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I have a friend who works as a stripper and has done some girl-girl porn. She's intelligent, well-read, funny and hell yes I'd date her or any equivalent.

Would I date any of the Silicone babes pretending to be sluts employing their best Method-Acting Moan? Hell no.
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Posted: Wednesday, January 13, 2010 4:37:49 PM

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I was once introduced to a girl who has done some 'work' in online porn. In the setting, the polite thing to do was to have a drink with her and talk- and I did that- but didn't pursue it any further. For one, she was kind of vacuous and her behavior led me to believe that she was happy to let her aforementioned experience define who I saw in her. For another, I was nervous about her age- granted a lot of women here could plausibly pass for anywhere from 14-34, but this little cutie seemed to be leaning close the bottom of that spectrum, and even if she was 18...I'm not really in the market for 18 year old adult film stars.

Theoretically though, my answer is very close to Kyle's. The only way I'd say 'no' unequivocally is if the question was whether I'd consider having a long-term relationship with one...but since I don't ever date with that goal at the outset, I think spending time with someone of this career could range from 'moderately interesting' to 'you're lucky to have lived 'till morning'....in which case, I'm in.
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Posted: Wednesday, January 13, 2010 8:38:57 PM

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Define dating. If you mean always going out with her and possibly being a girlfriend, there's no way I would. If I was single, and saw it as a one-time event, I would. I'd also be sure to bring protection, a camera, and Tech Goddess.
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Posted: Wednesday, January 13, 2010 8:45:13 PM

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Dating ~ When you see someone you might have an interest in, you ask them out on a date to see if (A) You will consider her a permanent fixture (B) One night stand Material (C) Definitely friends (D) Get me the fuck out of here...
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Posted: Thursday, January 14, 2010 4:07:02 AM

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roccotool wrote:
Define dating. If you mean always going out with her and possibly being a girlfriend, there's no way I would. If I was single, and saw it as a one-time event, I would. I'd also be sure to bring protection, a camera, and Tech Goddess.


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Necho wrote:
Dating ~ When you see someone you might have an interest in, you ask them out on a date to see if (A) You will consider her a permanent fixture (B) One night stand Material (C) Definitely friends (D) Get me the fuck out of here...


I would. Maybe I'm the only one here that can say this, but there are some things in my past that I've done that I'm not exactly proud of. They don't define who I am. If she's not a totally vacuous airhead, and seemed to be interested in a middle-aged, middle-of-the-road guy that has very little about him that's truly special, then of course I would...
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Necho wrote:
Dating ~ When you see someone you might have an interest in, you ask them out on a date to see if (A) You will consider her a permanent fixture (B) One night stand Material (C) Definitely friends (D) Get me the fuck out of here...


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Posted: Thursday, January 14, 2010 7:27:31 AM

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Even though the thought of dating a pornstar has a certain ring to it that I like, I am also aware of the possibility of it not working due to other circumstances that you would normally not encounter in any "normal" dating relationship. That said, I would only want to date certain pornstars.
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Posted: Thursday, January 14, 2010 9:52:38 PM

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I would like to pose a different question, could you friends with a porn star, prostitute or any woman working in the sex industry?

Depending on the woman, I could without question. I don't see women who work in the sex industry as leapers that need to be shunned automatically. There are many high paid courtesans, well educated who are of infinite interest. Women of refined tastes who just happen to be whores. Many books have been written and movies made about them.
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Posted: Friday, January 15, 2010 4:19:02 PM

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Absolutely I could be friends with one- he/she would immediately move into first place on the 'friend who provides me with the most anecdote material', if nothing else.

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I could definitely be friends with a pornstar, and would love to have sex with one sometime. As for a serious relationship, that I don't know about.
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Posted: Tuesday, January 19, 2010 8:28:37 AM

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I have been bought up to respect women.....so any woman who acts like a whore or is a whore forget it im not interested full stop.

The saying goes (you can't con an honest person) simply because an honest person would'nt put them self in a situation to be conned.

Being friends is one thing but dating one is another thing altogether. So a BIG fat NO not in a billion years.
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Posted: Tuesday, January 19, 2010 5:38:32 PM

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Necho wrote:
Dating ~ When you see someone you might have an interest in, you ask them out on a date to see if (A) You will consider her a permanent fixture (B) One night stand Material (C) Definitely friends (D) Get me the fuck out of here...


It depends on the lady. My answer could be anywhere from A to D.
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Posted: Tuesday, January 19, 2010 7:25:02 PM

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I do not think lady is the correct term. Considering the title of the thread.
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Posted: Tuesday, January 19, 2010 7:31:20 PM

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NiteAngel wrote:
#
A lady is a woman from the upper classes, especially in former times. N-COUNT

*
...the Empress and ladies of the Imperial Palace.
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Our governess was told to make sure we knew how to talk like English ladies.

#
In Britain, Lady is a title used in front of the names of some female members of the nobility, or the wives of knights. N-TITLE

*
Cockburn's arrival coincided with that of Sir Iain and Lady Noble.
*
My dear Lady Mary, how very good to see you.

#
If you say that a woman is a lady, you mean that she behaves in a polite, dignified, and graceful way. N-COUNT

*
His wife was great as well, beautiful-looking and a real lady.
*
A lady always sits quietly with her hands in her lap.

#
People sometimes refer to a public toilet for women as the ladies. N-SING usu 'the' N Britain informal

*
Synonym
ladies' room

*
At Temple station, Charlotte rushed into the Ladies.

#
`Lady' is sometimes used by men as a form of address when they are talking to a woman that they do not know, especially in shops and in the street. N-COUNT N-VOC US informal politeness

*
What seems to be the trouble, lady?
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As she left the litter-strewn lot, an angry voice called out to her. `Hey, lady!'

I do not think lady is the correct term. Considering the title of the thread.


WTF is that? whats it have to do with dating a pornstar??
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, January 19, 2010 7:36:45 PM

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I'm replying to driver1963 quote "It depends on the lady. My answer could be anywhere from A to D." I don't know how to reply to posts directly sorry.

If she is a PORN STAR she is deffo NO LADY!!!
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NiteAngel wrote:
I'm replying to driver1963 quote "It depends on the lady. My answer could be anywhere from A to D." I don't know how to reply to posts directly sorry.

If she is a PORN STAR she is deffo NO LADY!!!



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Driver1963
Posted: Sunday, January 24, 2010 9:04:16 PM

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NiteAngel wrote:
I'm replying to driver1963 quote "It depends on the lady. My answer could be anywhere from A to D." I don't know how to reply to posts directly sorry.

If she is a PORN STAR she is deffo NO LADY!!!


Oh well, I'm glad I don't see it that way
Guest
Posted: Monday, January 25, 2010 6:07:32 PM

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You have to accept different opinions with a question like this.
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Posted: Tuesday, January 26, 2010 6:22:08 PM

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Driver1963 wrote:
NiteAngel wrote:
I'm replying to driver1963 quote "It depends on the lady. My answer could be anywhere from A to D." I don't know how to reply to posts directly sorry.

If she is a PORN STAR she is deffo NO LADY!!!


Oh well, I'm glad I don't see it that way


Exactly what way do you see it Driver??? By definition a lady is somone of UPSTANDING, (Take notice off when she enters the room), mind your manners when she talks, she has manners and integrity, she cares for others and there opinions.

She is NOT paid to have sex with women and men and god knows what.

So please enlighten me as to why you dont see it that way, really im intrugued as to your explanation.
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Posted: Tuesday, January 26, 2010 6:53:42 PM

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NiteAngel wrote:
Driver1963 wrote:
NiteAngel wrote:
I'm replying to driver1963 quote "It depends on the lady. My answer could be anywhere from A to D." I don't know how to reply to posts directly sorry.

If she is a PORN STAR she is deffo NO LADY!!!


Oh well, I'm glad I don't see it that way


Exactly what way do you see it Driver??? By definition a lady is somone of UPSTANDING, (Take notice off when she enters the room), mind your manners when she talks, she has manners and integrity, she cares for others and there opinions.

She is NOT paid to have sex with women and men and god knows what.


How's it feel to be singled out?
Lighten up, will'ya?
Refer to Rocco's post right above your last one, Nite.
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yea i would date a pornstar. i dated a striper so its not too far to date a pornstar.

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