Forum posts made by freakycactus

Topic Come introduce yourself and tell us a lil about you.
Posted 06 May 2012 09:46

It took me a long time to realise that I'm a sub (I really don't know how it took so long), so I'm still new to the whole thing. I think what attracted me most was the need to be owned, to know that I am serving them, pleasing them and my pleasure is for them.

Topic Fuck or Pass
Posted 05 May 2012 06:46


Topic How many ladies try to turn their husband or bf into their personal Ken doll?
Posted 03 May 2012 11:45

People in suits and smart jackets scare me. I think it's more correct to say the women you meet like them.

Maybe I just have crap taste in clothes. dontknow

I must admit, I love a man in a suit. If he's 6' or over and good looking, I go weak at the knees.

Topic How many Lush users have you revealed your real identity to? How did it go?
Posted 02 May 2012 03:15

A few people know my full name, four found out before I set up a Lush only email address and of those four I'm still in touch with two. Of the other two, I no longer speak to one because we just stopped talking over time, and the other one... that's a long story. It didn't end well and it took months before they finally left me alone.

Since I switched to an email address without my surname and that uses a different username, rather than another one I use for everything, I have revealed my identity to some other friends, I even have one added on Facebook. I prefer that they know who I am because I chose to tell them, rather than because I sent them an email or showed them something I've put on Twitter. I have to be able to trust the people who know my name because by knowing it they can easily find me and I'd prefer to not have some guy from Lush randomly show up on my doorstep.

I also know the full name of a number of people I talk to on Lush. It's never been a big thing when names have been exchanged, it's usually their surname showing up on an email they've sent me, which means they need to be more careful.

As for who I've revealed my true identity to, I'm not too sure what that means, but there are a couple who I've shared a lot with, the same as I would with a non-Lush friend, and they've been lovely and kind and supportive. That's more important than whether they know my name or not.

Topic If your pet could understand English for 5 minutes, what would you say to him/her?
Posted 28 Apr 2012 15:13

I'm sorry you're being so ignored at the moment. It won't last forever, just until the girls' are a bit bigger and stronger.

Topic Favorite male body part?
Posted 26 Apr 2012 12:52

Big hands, strong arms. I don't know what it is, but they make me go all tingly.

Topic Wife is passed out
Posted 22 Apr 2012 11:25

even if you've discussed it previously, to my mind, if she is passed out, whether that's due to drink, drugs or is just in a deep sleep, then you are talking about non-consensual sex...

This is spot on, and no, I don't read incest stories.

Topic Circumcised or not?
Posted 22 Apr 2012 11:20

I prefer uncircumcised, the foreskin gives you more to play with and it a bit more fun watching them get hard.

Topic what brings you here.. isn't that the most common thing people ask
Posted 20 Apr 2012 08:47

At least, 'What brings you here?' isn't as bad as, 'So, what are you into?' Giving them an answer that doesn't involve something sexual isn't good enough - I've just started talking to you, I'm not going to tell you about my sexual interests!

Fortunately, I bore most of these people away.

Topic Older or younger?
Posted 14 Apr 2012 01:34

I'm more interested in whether or not there's a connection with someone than their age, they might be a couple of years younger, 15+ years older, or somewhere in between.

Topic Fuck or Pass
Posted 13 Apr 2012 15:51


Topic Things that scared you as a kid and maybe still do.
Posted 12 Apr 2012 09:40

jeepers creepers... dah! i'm still scared of that creature though its just a movie

The first time I saw that film, my friend's brother kept jumping out at me, I've been jumpy ever since. Even Buffy makes me jump! I'm not allowed to hold drinks or food during scary bits in tv shows or films anymore.

Topic The Use of the Word "Baby"
Posted 04 Feb 2012 08:22

I have always hated being called babe. It's a lazy way to ensure you don't forget someone's name. Other pet names aren't so bad, but babe makes me want to snarl at the person calling me it.

I'm coming round to baby, but it's a struggle, if said in the right way by the right person then it's not much of an issue, but still feels a little wrong.

Topic The Dom or Sub Test
Posted 30 Jan 2012 06:45

Highly submissive - hmmm.... interesting

Topic Lush V2 Bug List
Posted 15 Jan 2012 05:39

Although I've had a few PMs, comments and the like these last few days, I haven't received any notifications via email, which I usually do...
(I haven't changed my settings or anything)

I'm having the same problem.

Topic Intimidation
Posted 05 Jan 2012 02:52

I'm intimidated when I send bits to friends for them to read, when I submit it, when comments start coming through - it sometimes takes a while to read them. I calm down after the first few comments come through. I know I'm not up to the standard that lots of others here are, but people seem to enjoy what I write, and give it a month, I can even reread my work.

Topic What was your first vehicle you owned?
Posted 02 Dec 2011 08:18

I think it was something like this.... happy8

I always wanted one of those *sigh*

Instead my first was a Nissan Micra, still is :)

Topic Spankings !
Posted 29 Nov 2011 06:36


Not sure who you are wanting a spanking from ... your post says "from my OH".

I believe you are wanting an over the knee (OTK) type of spanking. (or maybe more...) but depending on your partner ... that is a good place to start. If you can talk about it with your partner and discuss what he/she wants that is a good idea.

Most OTK spankings are done with the hand only. Not to say a paddle or ruler or other type of device can not be used.

Dressed in blouse, bra, skirt, panties, stockings and heels is a very erotic way to start a spanking. Your partner (if sensual and experienced) would most likely begin spankings through your clothing with rubbing in between ...

He/she would most likely lift your skirt up and pull your panties down to your mid-thighs for spanking your ass directly ...

The sky is the limit here ... it all depends on your partner....

Hope this helps.

OH = other half :)

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 22 Nov 2011 08:02

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 22 Nov 2011 01:11

Pink Floyd - Money

Topic Where, What and with whom?
Posted 18 Nov 2011 06:49

On a boat in the middle of the ocean, nothing but water and sky in sight, curled up with him under a blanket looking at the stars.

Topic which has a better effect for you ladies?
Posted 15 Nov 2011 08:49

I prefer being on my back, it makes it easier for them to use fingers at the same time.

Topic What has surprised you about A question for readers and writers alike.
Posted 14 Nov 2011 16:59

How much it has helped me discover about myself.

Topic small cocks
Posted 14 Nov 2011 16:41

Well there's small and then there's ludicrously tiny. I had a flatmate once and I swear his was no bigger than my little finger. Now granted that was not erect, but I don't see that anything that microscopic was going to enlarge significantly enough for me to know when it was actually in play.

And no...I never went there. So I really can't say. Actually most of my partners have been pretty average sized. I see nothing wrong with an average penis. It's the bloke on the other end of it that needs to be extraordinary.

Ever heard the phrase, 'I'm a grower not a shower'? For some it's true. Flaccid they may seem tiny, but they can sure as hell grow into something very satisfying love7

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 14 Nov 2011 15:31

Less Than Jake - All My Best Friends Are Metalheads

Topic Can't access my profile?
Posted 14 Nov 2011 06:26

A couple of other people have mentioned the same issue on the V2 bug list

Topic What is the most important "life lesson" you have learned?
Posted 14 Nov 2011 06:11

Be true to yourself.

Live your life and enjoy yourself - smile and laugh as often as you can.

As my Dad always used to say, shit happens - deal with it. Surround yourself with people you love, and who love you, and you can survive pretty much anything.

And yes, try to do as much for yourself as you can, but you should ask for help when you need it. I'm still learning this one, and will struggle on and on without asking for help.

Topic Favorite little things in relationships
Posted 14 Nov 2011 05:46

The shared smiles when you look at each other, whether it's catching each other's eye across a crowded room, over the table as you're eating a meal, or lying in bed together all snuggled up.

The moment his arms close around you, and everything else fades away.

Topic Where do you like the cum?
Posted 09 Nov 2011 01:38

If a guy cums on me then I prefer it around my stomach, because it's in the best place to be rubbed over my body and on my pussy. My absolute favourite place for someone to cum is inside my pussy, yes it gets messy, but that's part of the fun.

Honestly, I'm really not that fussy when it comes to cum, I just want it

Topic About time we had a hot guys post
Posted 08 Nov 2011 06:53