Forum posts made by freakycactus

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 06 Nov 2011 04:53

Fallout Boy - Dance, Dance

Topic Turn ons, turn offs?
Posted 06 Nov 2011 02:28

Tall (6'+), confident, intelligent, funny, doesn't take themselves too seriously, a great smile, lovely eyes and the ability to give amazing hugs - put a man like that in a suit and my knees'll turn to jelly.

Ultimately, the rest (job, hair length, body type) doesn't really matter. Although, I have found since joining Lush that I have a thing for southern men - didn't see that one coming.

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 05 Nov 2011 03:28

http://nerdnirvana.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/hungover-staff.jpg

Topic virgins
Posted 04 Nov 2011 05:46

Well ok, i see your point and im with you, but the thread tends to indicate that the question is "do you find virgins more attractive than everybody else", or at least thats the they way it looked to me, and the simple answer to that is no, i dont. But that attitude of waiting for somebody you actually want to be with is a good thing, so im down with that. Hell i didnt loose my V plates until i was like 16/17, so i was hardly a teenage stud, but i have a hard time with people being tormented my their parents about sex, or religious hysteria telling people when to have sex. Having sex is entirely on that person, and if a virgin wanted to have sex with me, and i liked her, i happily treat her the same as every other girl, and if she was worth it and i wanted to be with her, i would of course be happy help her get better at it and to stick with her. But i still stand by what i said about inexperience being unattractive, which i thought was what the topic was asking for.

Preferring experience to inexperience is fine, I have no issue with that. What got to me was the rant that followed, and as much as I understand where you're coming from, there are less inflammatory ways of putting it.

i would of course be happy help her get better at it

Who knows, maybe they'd teach you a little something too ;)

Topic virgins
Posted 04 Nov 2011 04:55

i must admit, virgins dont float my boat at all, I like a girl with experience and high sex drive, they need to want it, and that comes from past encounters and enjoying it more and more. I think this is kind of a misplaced fantasy, imo theres is something not right with an adult who is virgin, dont give me all that "saving herself" bullshit, i actually think its not really natural (you can tell i have a vendetta against this relgion BS). Inexperienced people dont have a fucking clue what they are doing, and im sorry there is nothing attractive about that.

I didn't realise that all adult virgins had been waiting because of religion dontknow my mistake.

In all seriousness, that's a harsh attitude to take. Lots of people wait to find someone who is worthy of giving their virginity to, and honestly, more people should.

You say people should experiment as soon as they feel ready, who are you to judge when they feel ready?

And really - you meet a girl, you get on really well together and you really like her then you find out that she's a virgin. Are you going to tell her that there's something 'not right' with her?

Topic How to know when you're too picky?
Posted 03 Nov 2011 11:12

The most important thing is to trust your instincts. Ignore what your friends say and trust your own judgement. If you've chatted to someone enough to find out about their interests, then you should have an idea of whether or not something is there. Even if it's just a flicker of something, or they intrigue you in some way.

I've just let my friends convince me to give someone I don't feel a connection with 'another chance', I did, and now I know to ignore them in the future.

A strong connection is rare, but it's worth waiting for.

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 03 Nov 2011 03:10

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2008/09/29/article-0-063D373D0000044D-803_468x286.jpg

Topic Lush V2 Bug List
Posted 02 Nov 2011 11:57

You need to make 20 posts before you can post links and images, it's a preventative measure to help tackle spammers.

Topic Would you ever want to watch your partner fuck another woman?
Posted 02 Nov 2011 11:18

No - I don't share

Topic Pregnancy/Pregnancy Risk Fantasies
Posted 02 Nov 2011 11:18

I met a woman...and a man like with this fetish, once...

Half a decade ago, I had a personal ad trolling on AFF. I was contacted by a couple who inquired whether I would be inclined to meet with them in a public place for the express purpose of pleasuring the wife, while the husband watched...and then on 'her signal' would join in the act of pleasuring her solely. No male/male activity desired.

Curious...I agreed to meet them, after we had both exchanged photographs.

'Good looking mid-30 year old couple' white collar professionals...with a major malfunctioning dumptruck load of kink.

They wanted me to get tested to ensure I had no STDs and that I was fertile...as their kink was for me to only fuck the wife (no other dating or girlfriends allowed for me) and they wanted a man (me) to knock her up.

Repeatedly.

They expressed that they just wanted to abort any pregnancies and then Do It Fucking Again, and Again and Again.

My sole task was to be their impregnator, while the husband would receive oral from his wife.

Now I have met some kinked out fuckers in my life, but this pair was dead serious...and twisted (in my opinion) beyond color tv.

They were raising a child which she had with another man, before they had gotten married....the husband was infertile but wanted to experience 'getting the news' from his wife that she was pregnant. At which point he AND her also wanted to experience an abortion...

Top that, for fucking whack! While still being borderline permissible for public forum discussion on Lush. evil4

I started our 'meeting' drinking tonic water...just in case we hit things off and the 3 of us wished to go Get A Room.

Two hours later, after the pleasantries were out of the way and the nitty-gritty / meat and potatoes discussion had long been laid out and dissected to pieces...I was working on my third Long Island Ice Tea and needing a taxi back to my house. They mentioned that I had disqualified myself from future consideration as they did not wish to invite A FUCKED UP ALCOHOLIC PERVERT into their bed. shaking

My quick thinking and love for 5 shots of liquor per drink - paid off well that evening.

There are no words - it's just so WRONG

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 02 Nov 2011 10:25

Lit - My Own Worst Enemy

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 01 Nov 2011 07:29

U2 - Hawkmoon 269

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 31 Oct 2011 12:54

U2 - Where the Streets Have No Name

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 31 Oct 2011 05:13

Machine Head - Aesthetics of Hate

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 31 Oct 2011 02:12

http://29.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lh484qgCO51qzzmeso1_500.jpg

Topic About time we had a hot guys post
Posted 30 Oct 2011 11:33

Call me wierd - but I don't care. Alfie Boe literally stirs my soul when he sings - and that makes him hot !

http://upload.lushstories.com/108-alfie boe.jpg

Have you just seen him on Songs of Praise too? He sang beautifully.

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 30 Oct 2011 07:02

Young Guns - Learn my lesson

Topic About time we had a hot guys post
Posted 30 Oct 2011 02:53

http://imstars.aufeminin.com/stars/fan/will-smith/will-smith-20090113-484016.jpg

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 29 Oct 2011 14:20

Would it be possible to stop people from sending requests (friend requests and chat requests) from anywhere other than your profile? It could be something that people could choose to opt in or out of. It might encourage some to read profiles before sending random requests - well, we can always hope, lol.

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 29 Oct 2011 13:18

Slipknot - Psychosocial

Topic About time we had a hot guys post
Posted 29 Oct 2011 13:15

http://www.flmboynt.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/Jared-Leto-18.gif

Couldn't resist after a chat last night

*edited - apparently there was an issue with the other picture, let's hope this one works better

He deserves 2 :)


http://upload.lushstories.com/504-tumblr_kxbh5jXqKO1qainedo1_400.jpg

I just want to bite his hips, his shoulders * gulps *.... oh my love7

Topic Favourite Quotes
Posted 29 Oct 2011 08:54

A life lived in fear is a life half lived.

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 29 Oct 2011 08:39

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lq9j62cy1O1qe2o0ao1_500.jpg

Topic About time we had a hot guys post
Posted 29 Oct 2011 08:32

http://www.flmboynt.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/Jared-Leto-18.gif

Couldn't resist after a chat last night

*edited - apparently there was an issue with the other picture, let's hope this one works better

Topic question
Posted 29 Oct 2011 08:24

Again, not a fetish, but big hands with a firm grip shivers , not to mention tall men love7

Topic The most beautiful compliment you ever received
Posted 29 Oct 2011 08:04

This thread makes me smile, I've had a few that I will treasure forever, but don't want to share them, they're too personal. Every time I see this thread it makes me think of them :)

Topic About time we had a hot guys post
Posted 29 Oct 2011 06:36

http://27.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_krz6rzhww71qztagho1_500.jpg

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 28 Oct 2011 14:40

Laughter, and lots of it!

Topic About time we had a hot guys post
Posted 28 Oct 2011 14:22

Phwoarrrrr!
http://upload.lushstories.com/738-hot guy.jpeg

Very tasty ;)

familiar? no its not! SHHHHHH! lol

shakes head nope, not even a little bit

Topic About time we had a hot guys post
Posted 28 Oct 2011 14:05

Phwoarrrrr!
http://upload.lushstories.com/738-hot guy.jpeg

Very tasty ;)