Forum posts made by gabrielsweet

Topic Would you like a 3some with the 2 members Above You.....Yes or No?
Posted 16 Sep 2017 15:12

OMG YES YES YES YES YES .... did I say YES>??

Topic Would you Lick, Kiss, or Pass on person above you?
Posted 16 Sep 2017 15:10

Kiss and lick, then lick and Kiss and then start over ...... Swirl rules ...

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Topic are you fond of the person above you, not fond, or run screaming from or pass?
Posted 16 Sep 2017 15:06

I am so very fond of her already .... the best yet to cum ....

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Topic Drink, Date or Fuck no passing!
Posted 16 Sep 2017 15:05

well lets see I would say .... take out for a drink, take home and fuck, then start dating ..... works for me

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Topic Orgasm control and denial
Posted 16 Sep 2017 01:18

Well, it is a process that starts with controlling the orgasm, when the sub get close to finishing you slow enough to keep them ready to cum (on the edge) but not enough to let them fall over the edge.... You keep the stimulation just enough without triggering the orgasm, It does not take long for the sub to control their orgasms and not cum without permission. I have seen subs that could practically cum on command without stimulation. So like anything it is a process where you build up to it, some include punishment or correction for cumming without permission.

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Topic How far can we count?
Posted 12 Sep 2017 12:28

yes I would do her .... wait....

uhhhh 30,364


Topic Happy Birthday to Elizabethblack — the kindest and most wonderful lady in the Lush universe
Posted 07 Sep 2017 08:55


Topic Do you guys mind girls with small bums? (I have 32DDDs, but a really tiny bum)
Posted 04 Sep 2017 02:34

I prefer tiny round globes of pleasure .....

I tend to agree with the "shape" crowd.

Topic are you fond of the person above you, not fond, or run screaming from or pass?
Posted 02 Sep 2017 11:02

I do not really know ginger but I am sure I could be very fond of her. I love all her posts ....

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Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 24 Aug 2017 20:18

over the arm of a couch

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Topic How far can we count?
Posted 24 Aug 2017 19:36


Topic How many guys (and gals) edge when masturbating? How long for?
Posted 22 Aug 2017 22:19

I usually do not masturbate alone, I need the other persons involvement. I do love edging, but for me it is mostly just playing during a movie or reading. Not to cum, just to gain the feelings when I read or watch. That said I love to edge my partner and let her ride that edge for as long as she can. I like to stop and let the feelings die back and then bring them back harder.... over and over until they can't stand it and HAVE to explode.

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Topic Have you ever had sex with a foreigner?
Posted 22 Aug 2017 13:16

Yes .... a few, and now there is this adorable lil lady from the UK that I would love to get very close to ..... Embarassed

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Topic doggy style or cowgirl
Posted 21 Aug 2017 02:44

I prefer cowgirl, so I can watch her and play with her better. I see cowgirl as more playful and watching her drive herself to her orgasm (I love a slow touchy feelie cowgirl session) and doggie is me more aggressive and driving her toward her orgasm ...

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Topic Most important aspect to sexual satisfaction
Posted 20 Aug 2017 16:54

SO far it seems we are in agreement. There needs at least some connection for it to be at it's best. I have never had a situation with someone that I have no connection to that equaled what happened with someone I feel something for. Honestly it was about the same as far as what was done to each other, but it was not the same, still lacking. But that is just me.

Paul, if that is REALLY your name lol, I don't necessarily agree with the idea of a formula since every Dom and every sub is different inside and has different needs. I have known sub couples and Dom/me couples that have a very fulfilling sex life and if something is lacking, they have learned that together they should seek out ways to re-spark their sexual adventures. As with any other relationship they need to keep it fresh and exciting, as long as it is together, unless of course they are open and allow each other to play away from home. So I do agree with Scott, (are you the guy my ex took off with?), not always love but some connection is important. As well as aftercare. I know this is mostly a D/s idea to sooth anything done during a BDSM session but it does relate to everyone. Take the time to show how much you care for the other person rather that just get dressed and run. (I know sometimes it is necessary, you know, the movie ends, the light changes, someone comes home early etc.... LoL) but take the time, it IS always worth the results.

Moving on. Bethany, you are adorable and so hot and amazing. But I think your view D/s is missing some things though. I have never been in a D/s relationship that was not equal at its core. A true sub is actually the real power in the relationship. Without a sub a Dom is just a bully. I am a Daddy, so my dynamic is different that other Doms, but I have never felt as though I was superior or above the person I was with, she gives up control and the Dom (He or She) takes it to give the pleasures that the sub craves. I think the internet (chatrooms) and certain movies have given a misleading impression of the life. A D/s, or DD/bg relationship is very loving and caring. Not all Doms want to hurt and not all subs want to be hurt. There are degrees. I would never try to bring someone into the life that didn't have that desire for it is rarely something you can just decide to be. I for one do not wish to hurt anyone, now corrections are part of it since that is a good way to learn, but I do know Dom/mes that have NEVER had to even spank. Again that depends on the desires of the partners. I have seen many D/s relationships over the years that were more loving, more trusting, and closer than any vanilla one. Most of these relationships are not that different from your sex life, just the boundaries and roles are more defined and what each needs. I believe the Doms that do not see their sub as a equal, do not truly understand the life. Just my opinion. Now a Master/slave is a completely different dynamic altogether.

That said, I may be be a Dom or a Daddy, but that does not define me. I pride myself on finding out what my partner really wants and needs. I was in a vanilla marriage for 35 years and was never her Dom. Bless her heart she tried but it was not in her to be a sub, so I stopped being a Dom.

Megan - I LOVE your relationship. 2407_group_hug I was in a poly family for a time and they can be wonderful. I envy that you seemed to have reached such an excellent balance ... Bravo. You have what I have wanted for years. Y'all seem to have the D/s poly idea down good, but the roles are interchangeable for you. I have a real issue with the sub role, due to my time in the service.

Lily - you fit in the category 'In the Bedroom' enjoying a D/s play style. Serious as you can be but not living it fully 24/7. and as with Megan you switch depending upon your and your partners mood. That is wonderful that you embrace the possibilities.

As you can see there are as many different type of D/s relationships as there are Doms and subs. Everyone is different.

DAMN did I type all that?? I shouldn't give my opinions when medicated LOL. Regaeman Man


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Topic Say Something NICE about the Person/Profile Above You
Posted 20 Aug 2017 13:15

She is a delight to talk to...........

Topic kissing kitty
Posted 20 Aug 2017 12:02

Shhh Don't tell anyone I snuck in to put in my My 2 cents.

First off, even though you can't get fully erect, it doesn't mean you are limited to kissing kitty. Don't take that wrong, it is a LOVELY way to spend a afternoon and but there are toys, your fingers, food, vacuum cleaner attachments, well, you get the idea and it is only limited by your imagination ( and how well you can clean them). Not knowing the reason for your issues, so many of them can be corrected. If all else fails they can put in a penile pump to manually get you hard. But loss of an erection doesn't mean a loss of intimacy, you only need to get a little creative. Using toys (and other things) can also be much more intimate. You are right there watching the action as well. Learn what really turns women on with your fingers, tongue and toys. I suggest talking to some of the lovely lesbians of Lush and just ask? In my experience they enjoy helping someone that wants to learn.

ALSO, talk about it, tell her the issues you have and you might find that most are very willing to work around those issues, especially if there is a connection and not just to fuck. I wish you the best of luck.

Lori ...... I would in principle have to agree and bow to a Master notworthy but some of us 'penis packers'

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Topic Do you like having your hair pulled during sex?
Posted 19 Aug 2017 01:45

Well, as you can see just like with everything else with sex it is very subjective. This thread has run the spectrum from an adamant No, Not at all to a very exuberant HELL YES!!!!!!! Not every woman likes everything we see in porn or even TV and movies. The ones that do, don't want it all the time, it is a desire thing, what is needed at that moment. You either have to learn to expect and figure out what she needs or you have to communicate and make her understand you WANT her to tell you what she really wants.

No ,, most of this is acting out phony intent…. Sex isn't a movie you are starring in ... I find much more passion when my partner wants to please me with what he or she is naturally.

I totally agree, stop worrying about what to do and just do what you know, get good at that.

It requires lots of sensitivity and some guys never handle it. Have to stop 2 of 3 at first, cause it hurts too much. Got a shorter haircut lately to belittle their urge.

I think the problem is that they themselves do not understand the need or craving to have hair pulled or a spanking or so many other things that don't happen every time so they do not know how to find out if that is what their partners want and they just say what the hell and try. Damage done. Communicate, it solves almost everything.


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Topic Heap abuse on Sprite
Posted 17 Aug 2017 20:15

Well, here goes, it was Oct 2010 and I had just joined LUSH. I didn't have a clue (some say still don't), thought my stories were just not any good and I met sprite, she was the very first person I ever talked to in LUSH. She read my stuff and told me to post it that I was wrong and they were good. She talked to me every time I was on and she really made me feel welcome. So, I have not been able to come up with anything to abuse her.
Well, maybe, when we first met, I mean the first time, not even 5 minutes into the chat she was naked and calling me Daddy. I was a little stunned but she said she did that to all the new people, kind of a welcome slut. It was hot and well I enjoyed it all, except the garden tools, but I do have to say that when she asked if her iguana could join us I was a little put off. How would the lizard type???

**I don't think I have ever truly thanked her for that**


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Topic Would you go private with the person above you
Posted 15 Aug 2017 21:52

I certainly would and would be honored ....... occasion5

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Topic Receiving.ladies undies
Posted 14 Aug 2017 22:19

Having never been offered I guess I am not sure what I would want, but I do think it would be a very lovely sexy gesture and would be flattered .... so did you want my address????

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Topic Why can't many lush men chat first before cyber?
Posted 14 Aug 2017 11:32

I always like to chat with the lush ladies here before I even consider wanting to cyber with them.

AWESOME, see ladies I was right farmer_rogerak hit him up ......

Hey Rog, we'll compare list of names later *wink wink*

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Topic Why can't many lush men chat first before cyber?
Posted 14 Aug 2017 11:25

monkey wrangling skills for the win. Regaeman Man

UHHHH Ma'aM, where do you want this monkey??


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Topic Why can't many lush men chat first before cyber?
Posted 14 Aug 2017 11:01

Well, for starters the immaturity and "thinking with the little head" is a huge factor, but it goes a bit beyond that and the lack of social skills. The younger men have not learned the importance of the other person in ANY relationship. The have not experienced what it is really like to have a woman enjoy the pleasures you can give them, and then return the same to you. It is all hurry up 'get it on' and over with so I can move on to the next. They will figure it out but what it takes is for them to be shown that isn't what gets you anywhere with the majority of woman. To be honest, it is like with children, if they get away with it once then they believe that is what will happen each time. Yes they are immature, but can be corrected. A newspaper across the nose works well. :-" .

Part of the problem is the anonymity of the web, there are no real repercussions from what they do and say. If they offend someone they can just move on to the next. If they offend enough and have real problems with the people, they just change their name and start over. All they have to do is find someone willing now and then and they will continue. Now please, no one be offended by the next comment but the ONLY real way to stop it is for the ladies to stop saying yes. I understand and you have every right to (just like the men) just want to come on and get off. That is, btw, awesome that you want to and please do not EVER change, but if you allow the guys to just jump right into it, they are not usually bright enough to think they were just lucky and it was a one time deal, they believe, "MY GOD I am a stud, EVERY cunt on here will want me." Instead of believing that they were just a substitute for a dirty movie. Now, I am in no way blaming the Lovely Ladies of Lush, but that can open the door for them to believe it is acceptable.

Fair question which unfortunately has no real answer other than that's how most men are. I believe most guys are here for a reason and it's not to make friends. My guess is men login generally cause they are already horny and wants a girl to talk dirty to him.

Plus a few of just us don't have any people skills. Girls like guys with skills.. nunchuck skills... computer hacking skills..

I really don't agree with the word "most", because I do believe the majority will not start a conversation in here with displaying their cock or the opening line, "Come on baby, suck my cock"
any more than they would do that the first time you meet them at Walmart. Not "most" but too many. Also, I taught my kids how to talk to people and act around others when they were very little. What they did with those lessons is up to them. Since girls like guys with "skills" I think more men should learn a few.

In essence I apologize for those of my gender that believe manners and civility have no place in cyber village, but I do believe that "most" men do not believe that way. I mean sure, we can be children, ego driven, horny pricks, but only after we get to know you .....


Topic What gift would you give to the person above
Posted 14 Aug 2017 01:23

Unlimited airfare to continue her travels ...

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Topic Person above has been arrested for what naughty crime?
Posted 14 Aug 2017 01:19

Heidi was arrested during her last job interview for calling the interviewer a "Cheap Bastard" flashing her boobs, and running down the hall screaming, NO MORE CLASSES.........

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Topic Last one is the Sexiest (Bringing back an old but much loved thread)
Posted 13 Aug 2017 00:23

Smiling and polishing MY new crown .........

Topic Where did you lose your virginity?
Posted 12 Aug 2017 23:15

Under a bush, in a neighbors back yard, during a game of 'slips' (hide n seek), I CAN'T believe no one found us..Embarassed


Topic Person above has been arrested for what naughty crime?
Posted 12 Aug 2017 21:01

HBIC was arrested for showing up nude at a "Kill Bill" marathon ......

Topic Would you like a 3some with the 2 members Above You.....Yes or No?
Posted 12 Aug 2017 14:31

YES YES YES (trying not to sound to anxious) With the MRS and Rosie I would be in heaven ....