About goyse


I am a straight male in a loving relationship.

I have been in a prior marriage which ended in divorce after over twenty years. Through out those years my wife had relationships with numerous partners and eventually I also had an affair.

My stories so far are all recalls from that failed relationship. Initially I joined Lush because I enjoy reading stories which have been written around the cheating wife concept. Perhaps this was because of my own personal experiences. The more stories that I read the more that I came to believe that I needed to record my own personal experiences.

These days I am in a monogamous relationship and I have no wish to change that however this does not mean that I don't find beautiful women stimulating and attractive. It just means that I look but do not touch.

As for my past loves......They remain alive and well within my mind and visit me every time that I dream.

Goyse Hrv
Relationship Status:
In a Relationship
Local Time:
23 Jul 2018 08:15
My interests are various but some include reading stories about cheating wives especially so if they are true. I enjoy looking at beautiful, well built women.... but then doesn't everyone?

Sex is and always has been a big part of my life and I can't see that changing any time soon.

Water skiing has been my main sport since I was a teenager however age and injury now prevents my competitive participation. Fishing plays a larger part in my life in recent years.
Favorite Books:
With the exception of the erotic books that I read my interest in books revolves around life stories or real life events.

Presently I am reading Wool away, boy by Alan Blunt and The Happiest Refugee by Anh Do.
Favorite Authors:
Because my interests revolve around real life events, I do not have any specific favorite authors.
Favorite Movies:
Any movies that can give me a good laugh I enjoy. My other interest is in erotic movies with a good story line.
Favourite TV Shows:
I follow most motor racing including Moto GP, World super bike series, Formula 1, Formula E and Aussie V8 supercar racing.

Unfortunately some of the poor decisions by the officials in the V8 supercars have detracted from the enjoyment in recent years.
Favorite Music:
Generally speaking I love music almost without exception however my favourites include Led Zeppelin, The Eagles, Gary Moore, AC/DC and Pink Floyd.


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Topic: What do you think about when you masterbate?
Posted: 06 Jan 2018 08:17

I often think of an event where my ex-wife had sex with one of my friends thinking that I wasn't able to see...... but I did. She was unprotected and become pregnant but lost the child after about 2 or 3 months. She admitted to having sex with him but tried to hide the pregnancy from me but I was aware that she had missed her period. My sister in law confirmed that he had impregnated her and told me later on that she had miscarried.

Topic: DNA Test - am I right?
Posted: 04 Nov 2017 10:19

To start let me tell you about my experience. While my wife and I were courting she spent some time with an ex-boyfriend. We planned to get married had set a date. Shortly afterwards she informed me that she was pregnant. The circumstances were such that I automatically assumed that it was my child even though I had been aware that she had contact with her ex-boyfriend. We bought the wedding date forward and soon we were happily married and some months later we had a baby girl.

Somewhere in my mind, a doubt occurred that our daughter wasn't mine but I pushed that thought aside. When our daughter was five years old I by accident stumbled on my wife sitting with her ex-boyfriend in a cafe with our daughter. I didn't show myself but watched from a distance. The ex-boyfriend didn't seem to be interested in my wife but was very interested in our daughter.

Afterwards, I confronted my wife with what I had observed and told her that I thought she had some explaining to do. She made out that she believed that I was aware that the ex-boyfriend was our daughters father because she had made no secret that they had spent some time together around the time that I had proposed. I couldn't deny that I was aware that she had met him but as I trusted her it didn't occur to me that they had indulged in unprotected sex given that we were engaged to be married.

We managed to get over our differences and because we also had a son by that time we stayed together. The boyfriend, later on, was involved in a serious accident and was confined to a wheelchair and to the best of my knowledge she never saw him again while we were married. My wife insisted that our daughter must never be told the truth. I was reluctant but eventually agreed.

Move on some years and with our daughter at nineteen years of age, my wife finds herself another lover and splits taking almost all the assets with her then sues me for the remainder. I fight it in court and during the battle, she threatens to tell our daughter that I am not her father. I simply laugh at her because this is the person that I have reared from a baby initially believing she is mine and even when I became aware I never once treated her any different.

After the settlement is complete (I saved some of the assets but men are always the losers in such circumstance) out daughter comes to see me extremely angry claiming that I had stopped her from knowing her father. It seems my now ex-wife not satisfied with getting the majority of our assets decided to brainwash our daughter with a story that her real father wanted to be part of her life but I had intervened to stop him. She has severed all contact with me and I have only seen her once in the last twenty years.

Why would I bother to tell my story? Reading yours I see a parallel. None of us knows what is around the corner. If I could live it all again I would not agree to hide the truth from our daughter. You may reconsider how you and your wife deal with your situation knowing the mistakes that I made.

Topic: Does sex with a big cock enlarge the vagina?
Posted: 25 May 2017 21:35

Hi Endymion, I know that your intent was for women to respond but..... Your observations are not incorrect. Sex with larger men does in fact over time stretch the vagina. After having her children my wife almost had returned to her original size when she started having affairs with other men with considerably larger penises than mine. She thought that I was not aware but I unknowing to her caught her out and so started tracking her movements to allow me to understand what was happening and was quite surprised that she was having sex with a number of other men. Over a number of years it became obvious that she had stretched and was quite loose. As to knowing if she would have returned to her 'normal' size I will never know as after over 20 years together she suddenly (to me) left with another man who in turn left her some 6 months later. Prior to leaving me she had surgery to tighten herself (at my expense) but I suspect for the benefit of her soon to be new partner. Although this operation took place only a couple of months before she left she had already started to stretch again before our eventual separation.

Topic: To those who Cheated while being in Relationship, what Instigated you ? was it worth ?? and what were the consequences ??
Posted: 10 Apr 2017 11:35

Many years ago I had an affair with another woman. Prior to this I had caught my wife out with other men on a number of occasions and although there were a number of occasions where I also could have cheated I had not done so for several years until eventually my thoughts became "what's good for the goose is good for the gander".

It all started at a party where my friends wife asked me "How do you put up with her cheating". I admitted that it was very difficult and we spent some time discussing it and eventually took the opportunity to spend a night together. It seems that her husband had also been cheating on her and she had also caught him out and was not willing to forgive as I had done on many occasions.

Unfortunately I am not one for one night stands and before long I was involved in a "meaningful relationship" with the other woman which lasted around 12 months. It all came to an end when my wife discovered letters that we had written to each other. Given that my wife had become a serial cheater it took me by surprise that she became so angry and vengeful. She discussed it with my friend (my lovers husband) who also made life difficult for his wife and eventually the affair ended. Unfortunately I was emotionally involved and did not recover emotionally for many years.

Today I wish that I had been stronger and stood up for my lover and told my wife that our marriage was not going to work and protected my lover but it is easy in hind sight and there were children to consider. There were other relationships that developed but all of them were either resulting from this one experience or a result of my wish to prove a point to my cheating wife.

My wife's cheating continued for about 14 years after that. I became aware of at least 6 other men who she slept with over the 14 years that we remained together and suspect there were probably a good many more. Eventually she moved out to live with one of her lovers stripping me of most of our finances in the process. He left her some 6 months later and I refused to have her back mainly because of how she cheating me financially. I have never regretted my decision but kinky though it may seem I do occasionally get sexually aroused by the thought of her and when I remember some of the "events" that happened.

These days I am once more in a relationship with a wonderful woman who I have found to be entirely trust worthy. The scars of a very poor marriage and my cheating relationship still haunt me in many ways and I often wonder where my lover ended up and if she, like me still has a little place set aside for me in her heart as I have for her.

I know of many people who cheat on their spouses and never seem to become attached. Unfortunately that is not the way I am. Sex for me is and almost always has been a result of emotional involvement. My interests on Lush and other similar sites are to read the stories and write a few of my own when ever I have time on my hands which is not very often.

So to sum up. Yes, I've been there. I've tried it. I've been on the receiving end as well. I would not recommend it to anyone no matter how sexually stimulating it may appear. Would I do it again.? No bloody way.... Once is enough for me. However I do enjoy reading about other peoples experiences.

Topic: Have you ever fucked two different people in a day?
Posted: 30 Dec 2016 08:03

No, Not me. I've always been a one person type guy but there were times where my wife (now ex-wife) came home and intended to have a shower before bed but I cornered her and found she had all the signs of prior sex. Initially it upset me but after thinking it through I realized there wasn't much that I could do about it except leave - besides it did turn me on. On more than 1 occasion I caught her red handed and with the exception of once turned around and walked away. Eventually it became fairly common place and she didn't even try to wash before bed because we both started to enjoy it. For me I found the feel of going second was highly stimulating and she couldn't avoid me knowing because we has sex every night without fail through out our relationship and eventually I was going to work it out. At one stage I got her to tell me about some of her affairs but she was quite reluctant to do so. It all ended when she met someone who she was attracted to and left me. He left her soon afterward and now she lives alone and has for a number of years.

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It's a funny world

This is a true story. Names have been changed to protect the key players. My wife, Sue, was short but very well built. Everywhere that we went other men could be seen to eye her off and it was obvious to me that she enjoyed all the attention. She loved sex. I was a bit of a stud in my day when it came to endurance so we would often have several sex sessions in a night. At the time of...

Added 06 Jan 2017 | Category Cheating | Votes 11 | Avg Score 4.91 | Views 9,258 | 4 Comments

Caught out

Following my wife’s confession I found that I was getting suspicious of everyone. Looking back now I realize that I was not coping and was probably on the verge of a nervous breakdown. I even suspected my dad and my brother and my long term friend who just happened to be my cousin. None of it made any sense any more but I found that after a few drinks I felt a lot better about life and...

Added 04 Jan 2017 | Category Cuckold | Votes 13 | Avg Score 4.62 | Views 12,201 | 2 Comments

My cheating wife story

It was a Wednesday afternoon that I came home early from work. My best friend and water skiing buddy, Merv was laying tiles in our bathroom at that time so I was not concerned when his car was parked in the driveway. I parked on the road and walked up the driveway to the house. I could hear no noise in the house which was unusual as my wife usually listened to music during the afternoon. I...

Added 07 Jan 2017 | Category Cheating | Votes 22 | Avg Score 4.6 | Views 23,848 | 5 Comments

Spending time with Roz.

The story until now. I had caught Sue cheating on me a number of times but I still didn’t know a lot. Although I suspected that there would be things that I didn’t know I was yet to discover to what extent she had taken her infidelity. The story continues. Following my catching Sue cheating on me, life went on. Sue watched me like a hawk seeking out its prey asking numerous questions...

Added 29 Dec 2017 | Category Wife Lovers | Votes 7 | Avg Score 4.71 | Views 3,398 | 2 Comments

My cheating wifes confession

I had just spent a night with Marg and had concocted a story to stop my wife Sue from being suspicious. After Marg returned home a couple of days later I had a lot on my mind. Sue had accepted my explanation for not coming home although Mike told me later that she had checked my story with him the next day. Sex with Sue was becoming routine like washing the dishes or mowing the lawn. I’m...

Added 10 Jan 2017 | Category Cheating | Votes 7 | Avg Score 4.14 | Views 13,246 | 5 Comments

The Threat

Some of you who may have read my first two stories ‘It’s a funny world’ and ‘My cheating wife story’ may wonder how I responded to being treated the way my wife, Sue who I often called S treated me. Initially for quite a long time I felt a great deal of pain and insecurity. During our courting days my wife and I had some major issues which will be subject for some later stories but for...

Added 11 Jan 2017 | Category Cheating | Votes 6 | Avg Score 4.5 | Views 6,703 | 2 Comments

Marg - our first time.

My wife and I often visited our good friend Lyn. Usually it was just for a cup of coffee or to allow our kids to play together. I knew that Lyn had a thing for me because of the look that she gave me each time we met. Lyn and my wife, Sue were very close so I could not afford to show any hint of my interest in Lyn. Marg, Lyn’s sister was spending a holiday away from her family. I found...

Added 12 Jan 2017 | Category Cheating | Votes 9 | Avg Score 4.78 | Views 10,197 | 3 Comments

The set up

Lyn looked so dainty in her short skirt that was well above her knees. It brought back visions of my school days when the senior girls would try to outdo each other for the shortest skirt. Her skirt was more like a wide belt than a short skirt. We had met her downstairs and my wife, Sue said, “You look lovely tonight Lyn. That skirt is very sexy. Did you leave your panties off like I...

Added 13 Jan 2017 | Category Cheating | Votes 4 | Avg Score 4.75 | Views 8,243 | 1 Comment

Lyn returns

I now knew that my wife had photos that she thought she could use to make sure that she could keep me away from Marg. She knew me well and understood that I would do nothing to put a person that I cared about at risk. What Sue didn’t know of course is that Marg was unlikely to be as upset as she thought because during our time together Marg had actually encouraged me to seduce her sister....

Added 14 Jan 2017 | Category Cheating | Votes 9 | Avg Score 4.78 | Views 7,293 | 4 Comments

Sue Returns From Her Meeting

Lyn and I had been to the motel to discuss her problems now that she had found out that she was pregnant. One thing led to another and we had ended up making love. Lyn and I spent the next hour discussing her issues. I was keen to get away because since she had told me where my wife was I had other things on my mind. As for Lyn it was obvious that there was only one sensible decision that...

Added 15 Jan 2017 | Category Cheating | Votes 4 | Avg Score 4.75 | Views 15,069 | 2 Comments

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Happy Belated Birthday Goyse 🎉🎂🎉
02 Feb 2018 21:48
Happy Birthday from the Lush team.
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