Topic Jealousy Index
16 Jan 2012 18:36
Unfounded jealousy is a combination of greed and insecurity which can destroy a relationship at best, and worse, can lead to violence or even murder. It is a very negative emotion and serves no useful purpose. Greed makes you think of your mate as someone you own. Insecurity is the feeling that you may lose that object at any given moment. Better than jealousy is a firm set of rules in the relationship which must be adhered to religiously by all parties. Breaking the rules is like breaking any contract, it voids and ends the relationship. If you are secure in the fact that the other party/parties will be true to their word, there is no need to feel like you have ownership of another person, and that relieves you of any threat to you whatever. Sure, you might find out somewhere down the road your partner hasn't followed the rules, and it's time to end the relationship, or change the rules, but think how many stress-free years you will enjoy up until that point, if it ever happens at all.
Topic How many ladies try to turn their husband or bf into their personal Ken doll?
16 Jan 2012 17:42
If I were looking for a wife or girlfriend, that is what I'd want to have, not a mother hen. I would welcome her opinion on the clothes I wear, and at least consider her suggestions, but would not tolerate her dictation as to what I was going to wear, though I can't imagine a woman being that bossy.
Topic I want to spice up my sexual life with my boyfriend but...
11 Jan 2012 07:53
If a woman wants to use lube for her toys, it should be allowable by her mate. Marriage, or any relationship of that nature, is not a 50/50 deal... it's a 100%/100% deal, or it will not work. Both partners must be willing to put 100% effort into maintaining the relationship. If a man expects a woman to please him, which she must be willing to do, then the man must be willing to give his woman what she wants and needs to please her. You should be willing to give your mate sufficient time to see things the way you see them, which requires plenty of communication, or else the inevitable option is looming over you. A good, healthy relationship requires some concessions from all parties concerned. I hope I haven't rambled too much.
Topic Why cum on your face?
09 Jan 2012 18:20
I have never done that to a woman. Personally, I think the only place that is done is in porno films, they are always out for the spectacular for the shock value. Truly erotic sex is never done in porn. Anyone who turns to porn for examples of good sex is one misguided individual.
Topic Why are males so obsessed with anal sex
06 Jan 2012 19:23
I've never had the desire or even interest for anal sex. I had the opportunity once but declined it. Sorry, an anus is not a sexual organ.
Topic small cocks
06 Jan 2012 19:08
Girl says: "I won't marry you unless you have a 9" cock."
Guy says: "Forget it then! I'm not cutting off three inches for anybody."