I agree completely.


Think of how the kids is going to feel when it's apparent that Dad is not the dad. Seriously, that's some bullshit to put the kid through, along with everything else. It is about the kid because they're the one who will absorb the full weight of such a thing.

Part of My job as a sex therapist is teaching young girls to masturbate, so the answer is a resounding YES!


That sounds unethical.

Ladies,

When you have anal sex, is is spontaneous? Or is it planned?

If planned, what, if anything, do you do?

I was an 18 yo freshman in college. Too young to drink legally and not really used to alcohol. It may not of been the first time but it was before I was comfortable doing it. I went to a bar with 3 of my friends and played pool. We decided to have a tournament and the loser of each game had to drink a shot. When I lost the first game I had to drink a shot of whiskey. I had already had a beer. While I waited for my next game, I had another beer. When it was my turn for another game I told them I couldn't drink any more. Some guy watching us suggested the loser had to lose their panties. It sounded like a great idea. My skirt was already too short to be leaning over a pool table and wearing a thong. I was flashing my ass anyway. After I lost, I didn't want to take them off. 2 of my friends held up my arms and the third lifted my skirt. Then they picked a guy and let him pull them down. I had to play the next game totally exposed to everyone. I left the bar that night without my panties.

That is so hot! My college days was filled with term papers and nothing so exciting.

Nice.....but he does have a streak about him, I just can't put my finger on it.


I don't know what to say to that. I know this is all in fun, but I really don't think I'm much of mystery.

Nice, very intellectual (reads many books). Naughty people are not "thinkers".

Absolutely not. Those tattoos might look OK when you are young, but when you get older (my age) they sag, and just look
silly on a "mature" woman.

My daughter is a DVM, Doctor of Veterinary Medicine. Her class at the UF School of Veterinary Medicine consisted of 98 women and two men. The numbers over across campus at the Medical school weren't quite that imbalanced, but still more women than men. So your observations are right on the mark.

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You must be very proud of her. . . Getting into Vet School is harder than medical school.

If one of my adult daughters got paid less than her male counterpart, it would all over social media. The company would face a public relations nightmare.

If someone tried harass my daughters, my youngest would use the karate she earned and both wouldn't, if serious, call the police.

No what I worry about is what kind of future son-in-law I will have. Or even I will I will have one. Where my oldest goes to college women outnumber men to one.

Yes, at CalTech and MIT, men out number women, but that is just two schools. . . There are dozens of vet schools . . . I bet the female to male ratio is unbalance in the other schools as well.

There is a lot of fuss in the media about women being underrepresented in STEM (Sceince, Techology, Engineering, and Math) occupations. This is true.

However, boys, particularly African-American boys, are much less likely to graduate high school than girls. For every two girls who fail to graduate high school, three boys
fail (all races). Kids who fail school gravitate to criminal activity to survive. For each woman in prison, there are eleven men with African-American men disproportionately represented.

Also, what doesn't get media attention, is that girls (all races) are much more likely to be valedictorians, that more women become lawyers than men, become doctors than
men, and in much greater numbers graduate college (albeit not in STEM jobs) then men.

Literature is one small part. Consider the very successful Twilight books. The heroine is courted by two men. In Harry Potter Heromine is courted by Harry and Ron. Can you name any best selling book that male character is pursued by two women?

Boys, particularly African-American boys, need to be part of the narrative.. What they need most are fathers. If the father is in the home, the children, boys and girls, have a much better chance of graduating and leading a law-abiding lifestyle.

Even before all the allegations of sexual harassment by big names came out, Vice-President Pence had
a rule he would never meet alone, one on one with a woman. What do you think?
Do you meet alone with women in you work?

I didn't get much of a response when I posted this in "ask the gals". That was a surprise. I thought lots of women would comment.

What do you guys say?

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