About Hasabrain2

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Let's be honest. I'm a middle-age guy trying to have some fun online . . . maybe even in person if the circusmstances are right. I like most mainstream erotica. I don't see the point in bondage. Good sex makes both partners happy.

Name:
Hasabrain2
Sex:
Male 
Orientation:
Straight
Location:
California, United States
Local Time:
26 May 2017 08:24
Interests:
I often get on Lush during my lunch break. (I live close to work). As I have to get back to work, I'm not always available to chat.
Favorite Books:
I read exclusively non-fiction. Everything from the Dark Emperors (a book about the decadence of ancient Rome) to Stephen Hawking (of "Brief History of Time fame).
Favorite Movies:
I like movies with good dialogue. Whether it is Star Trek or Casablanca I want good dialogue. Action movies are great (I like Jackie Chan espcially) but good diaglogue makes the movie meaningful.
Favorite Music:
Soft rock, some classical music and please don't hate me . . . disco.

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Topic: Would you date a garbage man?
Posted: 25 May 2017 21:30



First things first. That was very disrespectful of you to bring my family, parents for that matter into this public thread. Just because you lack good reasons for better arguments, you resort to cheap tactics such as dragging the peson's family on a public discussions thread? I didn't drag your family, sons and daughters to be precise, here on to a public thread that is already stirring possible controversy albeit your undertaking. I expect an apology from you immediately. But already knowing of you being a certain kind of a "D" word, I don't expect it anymore.

And yet again you are nobody to talk on behalf of what my parents would approve of me or not. That's between them and me. Nor you are or were my guardian to speak on behalf of them or anybody for that matter except for your own. It is the way "your" world works, not mine. Now as I look into it, appears more of a personal issue for you, an invidual battle which I suspect is more than meets the eye. Please get help.


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Since I have never met you or anyone in your family, I thought it was clear that I was talking about moms in general. I'm middle aged, a fair number of my female coworkers are grandmothers of young children. They talk about their son-in-law/daughter-in-law. They are quick to boast if their son/daughter married well. Yes their son/daughter's happiness is most important, but if you have a high status job, you live in a better neighborhood with better schools. The people who have low status/low paying jobs live on the wrong side of tracks, the side with more drugs, more violence. etc.
Most are probably fine people, but you don't find gangs at the country club.

Topic: Been dumped by a girl because your job was menial/low status
Posted: 25 May 2017 15:15

Her is my own personal story. Many, many years ago I went to a club started chatting up a girl. Asked her to dance. She said no. Chatted some more
and asked again. Same answer. Then I said "I have $10,000 credit limit on my credit card (which was true)." Her face lit up. . now she was interested.

Then I said, "You had your chance" and walked away.

Topic: Would you date a garbage man?
Posted: 25 May 2017 15:12

Why wouldn't I? What a silly question. <img src="/forum/images/emoticons/my2cents.gif" alt="My 2 cents">


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I think you are very much an exception. When I posted a question in the "ask the guys" forum, and asked guys if they ever had been dumped because
their g/f found a guy with more money/higher status job, many said they were passed over from the start. The guys with low income/low status jobs were even in the race.

Topic: Would you date a garbage man?
Posted: 25 May 2017 15:07



People can be assholes no matter their occupation, whether they're a rubbish collector or an artist, they didn't start being a prick as soon as they got the job, they've always been one. I don't know what you do for a living but chances are your job didn't automatically make you an ass.

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One day at work we talking about jobs we had. One of my co-workers worked as a maid during the summer in her college years. She started at cheaper motels and worked her
way in the hotel chain to nicer hotels. I asked her which hotel guests were nicer to her. She the ones in the upscale hotels were much nicer, of course the tipped more,
but they kept their rooms cleaner and would extend common courtesies like saying good morning/good afternoon. The guests is the budget motels often didn't acknowledge her presence
if they passed in the hallway or talked down to her.

Topic: Would you date a garbage man?
Posted: 25 May 2017 15:07



People can be assholes no matter their occupation, whether they're a rubbish collector or an artist, they didn't start being a prick as soon as they got the job, they've always been one. I don't know what you do for a living but chances are your job didn't automatically make you an ass.

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One day at work we talking about jobs we had. One of my co-workers worked as a maid during the summer in her college years. She started at cheaper motels and worked her
way in the hotel chain to nicer hotels. I asked her which hotel guests were nicer to her. She the ones in the upscale hotels were much nicer, of course the tipped more,
but they kept their rooms cleaner and would extend common courtesies like saying good morning/good afternoon. The guests is the budget motels often didn't acknowledge her presence
if they passed in the hallway or talked down to her.

Topic: Been dumped by a girl because your job was menial/low status
Posted: 20 May 2017 10:39

I posted a question on the "Ask the gals" of "would you date a garbage man?" For some women that might not be a problem but for many that would be deal breaker.
(What woman wants to boast she is dating a garbage man? )

However, not woman admitted it would be a problem for her. I got accused of being a snob, one woman even suggested I see a therapist!

So, guys have you ever been dumped because your girl found another guy, A guy who drove a better car, had a better paying or higher status job than you?

Surely I am not alone in this experience.



Topic: Would you date a garbage man?
Posted: 17 May 2017 21:30



I have been a paperboy, a dishwasher, a short order cook, a blood donor, a drug dealer, an auto upholstery installer, a writer (paid, but not much), a theater director (paid, but not much), a telephone pollster, a "How to take the SAT" teacher, a middle school teacher, the head of a presidential polling operation, and (currently) an IT professional at a university.

I have been paid below minimum wage, and I have been paid relatively high corporate salaries.

I didn't change. All that changed was my job. It is a very superficial aspect of who I am, and who any of us are.



Really? Would Patton have been the same man without his armies? Trump the same man without his billions?

Would Van Gogh have committed suicide if had been commercially successful as an artist?

The job changes the man, in big ways and small.

Topic: Would you date a garbage man?
Posted: 12 May 2017 13:07

I think your "question" is actually a self conceited declaration, filled with arrogance and in bad taste about a person's socio-economic status. Of which, you are a nobody to question about in the first place. Let alone women's choice of preference over selection of their desired partners based on occupation and status in society.


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Really? You tell your girlfriend your dating a lawyer will get a much different response than telling your dating a garbage man.

Your father/mother might appreciate the work ethic of a garbage man, might not judge him, but most every mom wants to boast
to her friends, "my daughter is dating a doctor (or some other profession) now." She might tell her friends, if true, that Mr. Garbage Man
is good to you, makes you happy etc. His occupation will be way down on the list of things she tell her friends about your boyfriend.

If you were the first kid to learn to ride a bike in the neighborhood. your Mom (and/or Dad) boasted. If you marry a doctor/lawyer etc, she will
boast. Garbage man? Hardly. It is the way the world works.

Topic: Would you date a garbage man?
Posted: 11 May 2017 19:56

I say this because the other day, I went to a Taco Bell after my work out.
I was horny as hell because of the babes in the gym, but I know they are not interested in a middle age guy like myself.

In my head, I'm imaging them fucking some young dudes in uniforms. Well into the Taco Bell come a couple of young dudes.
I imagine them and the girls in the gym getting it on, but then I realize they are garbage collectors on their lunch break?

Really what woman would wan to date a garbage collector, even if he was hot?

Topic: How far have you gone Using your looks and sex appeal ?
Posted: 29 Apr 2017 10:34

To the bank haha, worked in bars for years and tips didnt come from my sparkling wit!


At work the other day, we were discussing jobs we had in college. A female coworker, who was not that hot looking, said she sometimes
made $450 a night as a cocktail waitress at upscale bar. . . . She made more in one night that my month's pay on my research grant.

Sometimes life isn't fair.

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