About HighDesert
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33 yo married bicurious male, desperately trying to remain satisfied with married life and sex. My greatest fantasies, and one's that I have written about, involve sharing my wife with other men. Was able to make this happen once and she enjoyed it. Would love to explore this freely, but, alas, she is reluctant... So I read... My main sexual interests, taboos, and turn-ons involve rough sex, anal, rough oral sex, really domination of all kinds. I really like role play and power dynamics in that role play. Yeah, a shrink would have a field day with me. I guess what I feel is important is that I know what I like and I don't try to hide it from my lover. She accepts me for who I am and that's what's important. At least I can be honest with her and she loves me for it, or at least in spite of it.

I am faithful to my wife and I love her dearly. That doesn't mean I don't like to flirt, but it does mean I am not interested in cyber sex or any of the like. Anything I do sexually I like to involve her. Unfortunately she is not a fan of pornography and only tolerates erotica, so my masturbation is mine and mine alone... and I can live with that.

Yes, the avatar is my wife. I'm a lucky man.

Name:
HighDesert
Sex:
Male 
Age:
35
Sign:
Libra
Relationship Status:
Married
Orientation:
Bi-curious
Location:
New Mexico, United States
Interests:
Music, beer, wine, camping/backpacking, my son, and my business.
Favorite Books:
Celestine Prophecy, Black Elk Speaks, Doors of Perception
Favorite Authors:
John Muir, Aldous Huxley
Favorite Music:
Jazz, Bluegrass, Reggae
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Topic: Want to watch your wife fuck another man?
Posted: 26 Jan 2014 15:50

A very long time fantasy of mine. We did have a 3some once, but everyone was really drunk. Would love to do it again but I don't know that will happen especially since we now have 2 children. A guy can dream. In reality, I like every fantasy of this I can think of. Sharing my wife. My wife and I sharing a cock. Me being cuckolded. Simply sitting back and watching my wife submit to another... I can't think of a scenario that doesn't appeal to me when it comes to another man...

I sometimes wonder if I should seek counseling, but it's not really something that bothers me, though I wonder if it should.

Topic: "Sensual" massage?
Posted: 09 Mar 2013 09:03

Clearly, from the number of questionable massage parlors and the number of ads on backpage and craigslist, many many people go to get sensual massages. If you have gone/do go, what has been your experience? Did you get a legitimate massage followed by a handjob? Did it really just feel like you had hired an escort who was rubbing your back for the first half of it? Mutual touch? Nudity? Nuru?
If you were in a relationship, did you feel like you were cheating?

I've never gone, not sure I would/could, lots of my buddies go... I am intrigued.

Topic: girls whom don't like the taste of your cum, do you offer a spit bucket?
Posted: 20 Feb 2013 07:26

I don't think I'd want a sexual relationship with a female with that kind of hangup. I mean, can you imagine if your guy didn't like the taste of pussy? Pretty ridiculous if you ask me, and just unlady like. Spitting is just plain mean.

Topic: Cumming on her face
Posted: 20 Feb 2013 07:20

I don't think it is really specifically the face, though that is often the reality. I think it's really more the idea that our orgasm is so amazing for both of us that I, the male, want to cover the female from head to toe in it and that the female wants to be completely covered in it. It's only hot if the female in question wants it though. My wife will sometimes ask me to. If you don't like it for one reason or another, just act like you don't and that should do the trick.

Topic: Things in the ass, aye or nay?
Posted: 19 Feb 2013 03:26

All's fair in love... I'll take whatever she'll give me, as long as it's no larger than mine, 'cause I'm not small and ouch.

Topic: Anal?
Posted: 19 Feb 2013 03:17

If you wouldn't watch a woman make a bowel movement then why the hell would you wanna fuck her in the ass? 1) Not lady like imo 2) Hopefully the stress that you put on her anal structures doesn't cause her to shit her panties in a family restaurant later on in life when aging and health become factors. Blunt, but hey these are thing to take into consideration.

I'd watch a woman do just about anything. I am perfectly fine with bisexual sex, why wouldn't I want to fuck my wife in the ass? She thinks it's erotic to balance on pain like that, to only be released, both literally and figuratively, to the kind of outwardly taboo carnality that only intense sex can create.

Anal get's you there out of it's very taboo nature. She has orgasmed from anal sex alone. Other times not, but I believe she enjoys the feelings of submission. She has been dp'd and I think that was just a step further.

For some of us, we're trying to create the butterflies and intense horniness we had the first time we were sexual. Notice I didn't say the first time you had sex. It could be as simple as the first time you ever touched a breast, a pussy, or a penis. That was a pretty incredible feeling. Anal sex, due I'm sure, in part to my own culturally accepted notions of sex, is taboo and can take me back to a feeling of experimentation.

Sex alone can be great and fun, but experimentation and the taboo are exhilarating with a touch of recklessness.

And it's tighter (for the first few minutes at least) and feels great, and different.

Topic: Anal?
Posted: 19 Feb 2013 03:12

If you wouldn't watch a woman make a bowel movement then why the hell would you wanna fuck her in the ass? 1) Not lady like imo 2) Hopefully the stress that you put on her anal structures doesn't cause her to shit her panties in a family restaurant later on in life when aging and health become factors. Blunt, but hey these are thing to take into consideration.

I'd watch a woman do just about anything. I am perfectly fine with bisexual sex, why wouldn't I want to fuck my wife in the ass? She thinks it's erotic to balance on pain like that, to only be released, both literally and figuratively, to the kind of outwardly taboo carnality that only intense sex can create.

Anal get's you there out of it's very taboo nature. She has orgasmed from anal sex alone. Other times not, but I believe she enjoys the feelings of submission. She has been dp'd and I think that was just a step further.

For some of us, we're trying to create the butterflies and intense horniness we had the first time we were sexual. Notice I didn't say the first time you had sex. It could be as simple as the first time you ever touched a breast, a pussy, or a penis. That was a pretty incredible feeling. Anal sex, due I'm sure, in part to my own culturally accepted notions of sex, is taboo and can take me back to a feeling of experimentation.

Sex alone can be great and fun, but experimentation and the taboo are exhilarating with a touch of recklessness.

And it's tighter (for the first few minutes at least) and feels great, and different.

Topic: Where do you look for porn...with some plot
Posted: 19 Feb 2013 01:21

So, not the kinda stuff that is 50% lesbians and the other 50% is soft core. My wife wants the hardcore straight sex, anal, dp, facials...you name it. She would just like some actual descent plot to go along with it. And I feel for her. I'd like it to. But I just have lower standards and I can get turned on when the wind blows a certain direction.

So the real question: When is Dancing Doll going to open a production company?

Topic: Are breast implants a turn-off or turn-on?
Posted: 15 Sep 2012 05:47

Not only do I find it a turn-off, and no I would never sleep with that person because of it, but I don't that I'd much want to be friends with a person so vein as to modify their body in such a way. I really think they are revolting and the women who get them are pretty damn ugly on the inside.

Topic: Circumcission
Posted: 02 Sep 2012 09:03

Sorry if this is a little less of a turn-on forum topic, but it could really help me out..

So... I am circumcised and my son, 2, is not. I am starting to teach him how to clean himself and he is becoming pretty aware of penises, coming into the bathroom when I am showering or taking a leak and pointing at mine, saying "penis" and then at his and saying "same!!!!" (just kinda cute)

We didn't for the whole abuse/nature argument, but now I am having second thoughts after reading some of the posts on the threads in the ladies forum. So some questions for those that are not circumcised...

Have you had any health related issues because you are not circumcised?
Have you had woman be turned off or on by it?
Do you wish you were circumcised?

And for those that are... I am a little disappointed that my mother and father made the decision to do that to me. Do you feel the same? Do you not give it any thought? Do you think it is an advantage or disadvantage for any reason?

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Stories Published By HighDesert
For my Birthday

Last night was my birthday. I turned thirty-three and after my son was put to bed, I went for the shower, cleaning myself up for what I was hoping would be some hot sex with my wife. After cleaning up and drying off I came out of the shower to find my wife bent over the bed with only a t-shirt and high heels on. She had also placed a rather large butt plug in her ass, letting me know that I...

Added 03 Dec 2012 | Category Wife Lovers | Votes 11 | Avg Score 4.45 | Views 12,524 | 3 Comments

Jamaican Lullaby

Laura and I had arrived in Jamaica only four hours before. We hadn’t been ballsy enough to bring our own pot and decided that we needed to look for some. As everyone knows, the island is swimming in the stuff and we didn’t think there would be any problem. Laura and I showered and she put on a beautiful sundress. It was all white and you could see her body perfectly underneath the material....

Added 29 Apr 2012 | Category Group Sex | Votes 10 | Avg Score 5 | Views 6,981 | 1 Comment

Fifteen Years Later

It has been 15 years since Laura and I married. In that time we have changed careers a number of times but have been consistently lucky in that we never have really wanted for anything. We have also been blessed with both a handsome son and a beautiful daughter. In this time Laura and I have had our ups and downs but we have remained faithful to each other and have somehow remained rather...

Added 04 Mar 2012 | Category Group Sex | Votes 5 | Avg Score 4.6 | Views 5,839 | 1 Comment

Ecstasy and the Black Man

Twelve years ago, long before my wife, Laura, and I married, and when we were both still in college, we were little more than fuck buddies. Sure I would buy her drinks and we would flirt, but there was no way any thoughts of "long term" had crossed either of our minds. The sex from the beginning had been great and a couple weeks later, it had gotten even better. I remember one night we got...

Added 03 Mar 2012 | Category Group Sex | Votes 11 | Avg Score 4.91 | Views 7,265 | 1 Comment

Durango Bootie 2: The next Morning

The next morning Laura and I woke rather early as the sun came up over the mountains. We both headed to the shower and cleaned ourselves of last night’s escapades. We both dressed and went downstairs. As we made our way I heard a shower running and the smell of bacon permeated the house. When we got to the kitchen, Garrett was standing in front of the oven in a white terry-cloth...

Added 26 Feb 2012 | Category Group Sex | Votes 8 | Avg Score 4.88 | Views 3,742

Durango Bootie

My girlfriend Laura and I have been together now for almost three years. Laura is a tall, very voluptuous blonde. She has a great body with the nicest tits I have ever had the pleasure of sucking on. Besides her body she also has a beautiful face that immediately attracted me to her. Last night Laura and I went to our favorite bar in Durango and caught ourselves a nice buzz. Laura had...

Added 19 Feb 2012 | Category Group Sex | Votes 7 | Avg Score 4.86 | Views 7,315 | 2 Comments

A Wife Alone

I need to tell you about what happened here last week while you were away. You deserve to know and I just hope that you understand. You left me on Monday last week and by the time Wednesday rolled around, my mind started to wonder. I started thinking about you and your tongue and your cock. I put on some lingerie to make myself feel sexy and opened a bottle of pinot. I sat at the...

Added 06 Feb 2012 | Category Group Sex | Votes 35 | Avg Score 4.85 | Views 22,289 | 10 Comments

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