About IanCraves

I'm a man - meaning I have a job, goals and can support myself and those I care about and not some adolescent in a man's body. I know how to treat a woman and certainly like to have fun, play games and act like a kid when it's appropriate.

I have stuff but if something went horribly wrong, I could live a simpler life and build it all back up again. Are you the type that wants to enjoy life with me or is the stuff more important?

I'm here because I like to read the ideas and fantasies that many only express in writing. It's been a while since I've penned some erotic story of my own to share but maybe one of you will inspire me...

California, United States
I like many outdoor and sporting activities like camping, hiking, the ocean and soccer for example. I like to cook, especially when there is someone to share it with. I can add to the fun in a group but I don't have to be the center of attention or draw attention to myself. I know who I am and comfortable in my own skin and hope you are too.

We should have some common interests but don't have to 100% agree on everything. I like a woman that is active and can be independent but also wants a man to be there to help her when needed.
Date Joined:
02 Dec 2013
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18 Oct 2016
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Topic: Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted: 30 Jul 2016 03:44

city stroll in the rain

Topic: Skinny dipping with the lush member above
Posted: 29 Jul 2016 04:46

most definitely, warm or cold water wouldn't matter

Topic: Spank Or Be Spanked!
Posted: 29 Jul 2016 04:45


Topic: Unfortunately/Fortunately
Posted: 29 Jul 2016 04:44

Fortunately I was walking by and my eyes found the scene unfolding

Topic: Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted: 29 Jul 2016 04:34

Trouble is her middle name

Topic: Who would you rather kiss? (above or below)
Posted: 29 Jul 2016 04:32

Above and we'll see if we agree to add below to the fun

Topic: Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted: 29 Jul 2016 03:41

Sex will awaken a hunger

Topic: You Wake Up On A Deserted Island with the one above and say...
Posted: 29 Jul 2016 03:37

A deep all over tan will be useful in this sun

Topic: Random Friend Requests
Posted: 28 Jul 2016 09:47

Many of the quality friends I've made here at lush were random. Agree with many other statements that a boiler plate first message likely gets ignored/deleted but something with a spark to get a conversation flowing is always appreciated. Finding some common interests happens via conversation so I see it somewhat as no different as just saying hello to someone in real life I don't know but I also realize there are some that send truly random and inappropriate openers that would never fly if in person - I know I've seen a few of those myself.

Topic: Dominate or to be dominated or pass the above person?
Posted: 26 Jul 2016 16:30


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