Topic The Gentleman's Charter
08 Jun 2013 02:22
To me a gentleman is one who considers other peoples feelings, whose word is his bond and who is polite to all without being sycophantic.
Topic Sissy Boyfriends
08 Jun 2013 02:07
Aha we've flirted with this issue before when I mentioned my inclination towards .. now how did Wellmademale put it when I mentioned buying matching napkins for dining room furniture something like ''not to have a smidgeon of interior decorator in your genes''. Well I clean the house ever week, the toilet (sorry to our US friends - the bathroom) every day, I take my shoes off at the front door and have a pair of slippers with a heart design on them in pink (my girlfriend said only I would have bought them), I like cooking especially for friends, I am missing the sports gene - whenever an event of any sporting activity is on the telly it's worse then soap operas (no I don't like them - slight recovery of the macho feel there), one of my favourite movies is An Affair to Remember with Cary Grant and Deborah Kerr or The Apartment with Shirley Maclaine and Jack Lemon, I love the company of women and would rather have a dinner date than go paint balling, I thought I was getting obsessed with organisation - too anal retentive because I plan even how to go from one room to another picking up things on the way etc and a female friend tells me that is what women do all the time which is why a lot of men think things just sort of happen - her words and is natural as I live alone. When my girlfriend is coming for a visit and she is today :) I go and buy a single flower that goes in a special little vase I have bought and beside it will be her favourite snack - a mixture of eggs, mayonnaisse, cheese and onions with crusty brown bread rolls. Even now a lifetime after it happened I get emotional about the death of my childhood cat killed in an accident. But the conclusion of all this is that I have no problem admitting these things and have no doubts about my sexuality this is just for fun true though it is, and personally I am suspicious of lusty rugby players with hairy armpits who sing bawdy songs whilst drapping their arms over each others shoulders. :)
Topic Musical Taste?
07 Jun 2013 02:25
Something I've never understood is how some people get jealous of your relationship with something (rather than another person). Many fellow guitar players say their girlfriends express that they love their guitars more than the girlfriend whereas to me they are totally different things - I was lucky I was married to another guitar vocalist so she never said that even when I did gigs without her. I am not referring to any opportunity to meet other women just the instrument itself. By doing this they stand a good chance of ruining the relationship not because we like guitars more than partners but something we feel deeply about shouldn't be tampered with and to do so displays a lack of sensitivity and selfishness thus making the partner less attractive accordingly.
Topic Do guys like Chubby or Curvy girls?
06 Jun 2013 06:47
I love a gal with a little meat on her bones. however if you wait a couple hundred pounds and in a string bikini stay at home
This is surreal.
Topic Where do you masturbate??
06 Jun 2013 06:39
I'd like to do it in the bath but there would be the chance of electrocution.
Topic How do you pronounce it?
06 Jun 2013 06:24
I don't even know what it means when shown in its non acronym form never mind how to pronounce it. Does it mean hard core sexy picture swopping?
Topic Fuck off ~
06 Jun 2013 06:16
The worst thing anyone ever said to me as he left the argument was ''I hope you get cancer.''
Topic Do guys like Chubby or Curvy girls?
06 Jun 2013 06:08
All of them. They are the most fascinating things on the planet even above Gibson Les Pauls and Fender Stratocasters.
05 Jun 2013 01:44
I have this yucky image now of Elizabeth II and the Duke of Edinburgh (''My husband and I.''), having oral sex.
Topic Mad at me for fucking his niece
05 Jun 2013 01:29
I find a lot of archaic attitudes and strange generalisations in the replies you're getting especially for a site dedicated to sex, but my answer to your question would be in the form of another question. When you wake up in the morning with an erection do you feel guilty?
Topic Does anyone experience reoccurring dreams that freak them out, that might have some kind of meaning?
05 Jun 2013 01:22
I had a recurring dream where the scenario changed but the theme stayed the same. I was looking for something that I could never find and kept going around in circles. I think this happened when I was experiencing a dissatisfaction with my life and wished to change it. When I met a new friend in the Czech Republic and decided to leave my horrible boring job at a call centre for T-mobile, leave the UK take up a new career in Prague I had one last dream where I found whatever was the object of the search and the dream stopped.
Topic Post a random fact
04 Jun 2013 00:06
Elvis Presley possibly the most famous man on the planet was managed by an illegal immigrant which is why he never toured outside the US (and would have made millions).
Topic The NTSB wants drinking limit lowered to .05 for DUIs.
01 Jun 2013 00:00
In the UK the rather enigmatic rules are as follows
There are strict alcohol limits for drivers, but it is impossible to say exactly how many drinks this equals - it is different for each person. The legal alcohol limit for drivers in the UK is:
35 microgrammes of alcohol per 100 millilitres of breath
80 milligrammes of alcohol in 100 millilitres of blood
107 milligrammes of alcohol per 100 millilitres of urine
It’s not possible to say how much alcohol you can drink and stay below the limit. There are strict drink driving penalties if you are caught over the limit.
The way alcohol affects you depends on: your weight, age, sex and metabolism (the rate your body uses energy)
the type and amount of alcohol you’re drinking what you’ve eaten recently your stress levels at the time.
In the Czech Republic where I now live the tolerance for alcohol is zero. As a driver and as a drinker I feel I agree with the Czech one and am bewildered by the UK one. Though I have seen breath testers available in UK service stations which seems a good idea.
However I do find the drinking and sex laws of the US rather bewildering although the UK ones on the legal age for sex seem weird (16) as having a baby in my mind is much more important than voting for some lying son of a bitch politician (18) or having a drink (18). So I feel that they should make their minds up and raise or lower the limit so that they all match. Personally I favour lowering the voting and drinking age as I don't know of anyone who didn't drink underage and most 16 year olds I feel are well informed enough to choose some lying charlatan to represent them.
Topic FWB anyone else?
31 May 2013 02:20
I feel each relationship has its own uniqueness and that searching for categories especially using acronyms and abbreviations to describe such in my opinion cheapens or reduces them to the mundane. I think this is supported by quite a few people not understanding the applied acronyms. It's bad enough when people use such things as jargon at work (the implication that they are in some exclusive club - is somewhat pretentious) without resorting to them regarding our most, in my opinion, important social aspect.