Topic Interesting article
18 Apr 2013 01:31
I think this relates to the primitive instinctive thing about seeking a mate who could protect and provide and therefore the more status or power the more attractive as the odds are favourable about provision etc. I feel this does still happen - politicians and policemen seem to have more groupies than rock bands (if you'll excuse the generalization as of course people do marry for love).
Topic The Willykini: YES or NO?
18 Apr 2013 01:23
A good opportunity for the less endowed to pretend otherwise. To be honest the idea is mainly funny though it's strange how women just look sexy in such skimpy things whilst retaining their dignity but men just look funny especially if they have socks on and definitely don't.
Topic Shyness regarding masturbation.
18 Apr 2013 01:16
I feel society would like to still pretend that we don't all masturbate; this may be illustrated by the insult ''wanker'' the implication being that those who do are negative people in some way or other. Though this seems to have been replaced at one time by the equally ambiguous ''dick head'' again sexual references being looked on as negative as in ''don't fuck with me''. I tend to agree with Janet_haney but also to extend it to all genders as some men too are reluctant to admit such a practice. All of this to me indicates even today a lot of negativity is still around regarding sexual freedom and expression.
Topic The Condom Challenge
16 Apr 2013 07:30
I only watched until she started to put it in her nose. I thought she was going to do the classic inflation of the condom where it ends up on your head. :)
Topic Bacon how do you like it?
16 Apr 2013 07:18
i like my bacon to have crispy edges but a chewier middle
I agree with this and you get this by moving it around the pan all the time.
Topic when did you masturbate last?
15 Apr 2013 05:28
Last night - I mean early this morning but I'm getting food for thought at the moment.
Topic In your Relationship...
15 Apr 2013 02:23
A friend who is a psychologist and I were discussing sex and I said my priority is pleasing the other person and he said that is submissive - yet I am not actually lying there passively whilst my partner does things to me but I am the one doing things to her. Not sure if that is submissive - though in his terminology my first priority is what determines the issue in his technical sense?
Topic Do women dislike or resent the use of the slang "Cunt"?
13 Apr 2013 03:16
All speech is arbitrary and why one word gathers different connotations to another must have some cultural significance. I notice there is no noun except fuck for having a sexual session where you can use the indefinite article. This must be the same sort of thing. We seem to be trying to avoid in some Victorian double morality way saying these words so even grammatically there is no way to say this except in a clinical kind of way (sexual intercourse).
Topic RACK vs SSC
13 Apr 2013 03:01
I don't mind the lifestyles so much as all the acronyms which I find most affected. Is that to keep a sort of restricted club or cult atmosphere or is is related to George Orwell's ideas about language in 1984? How about HMP (hetrosexuall mainstream practices) or WMSENOPL (wank myself stupid every night over pornographic literature), or PTCIMBN (put the custard in my boots now)?
Topic Missionary Sex
09 Apr 2013 15:30
I vacillate between Schweitzer and Livingston.
Topic RIP Margaret Thatcher
09 Apr 2013 15:17
I don't agree with any of the celebrations about her death they are - to quote someone ''tasteless posturing'' and also pointless as celebrating the end of something implies something better is going to happen or something bad has ended like WWII but nothing will change because she's died. The sad part of her death to me is she was part of the age I lived in and it is a reminder of my own frailty. However I abhorred all of her polices the harvest of which we are reaping in endless ways today as the latest idea about taxing bedrooms in council houses is showing which has overtones of the poll tax to it.
Topic Why do guys act this way?
05 Apr 2013 07:40
Why do guys seem to almost always seem like they're very interested in you and then ignore you? For example, one guy and I that I knew spent the night cuddling and kissing and later looked at me and said, "We're definitely going to see each other again." That was three weeks ago. One guy strung me along for 6 months. And guys seem to act in that manner generally. Can you tell me why? xx
I never do this and even when I was younger never did it. These guys sound like they feel they're doing you a favour or something. Whenever a girl expressed an interest it always gave me that happy buzz rather than a power surge. Seems the problem is with them if, as others have expressed, they want to play head games, rather than really meet someone they're just sad pratts trying to boost their flagging egos which they probably doubt in the first place. Kind of berks who consciously flex their muscles and do chest breathing exercises and sing rugby songs in the shower and sneer at skinny little guitar players.
Topic What do you think of my avatar?
02 Apr 2013 12:04
I feel your avatar is ok especially taking into consideration your sexuality but also that if anyone who knows you saw your ''headless shots'' they would recognise you. There are a few small mistakes in your favourite authors where you quote book titles - maybe you meant D.H Lawrence. Not meaning to be picky but you did ask.
Topic Why is girl-girl erotica so hot?!!
02 Apr 2013 09:12
I like anything that portrays realistic passion and romance in whatever gender combination. I have watched some phoney porn of all kinds including girl on girl. I tried watching gay porn but was unable to find any sexy overtones just straight get your dick out stuff which I felt was as off putting as similar hetro or lesbian scenarios. I think part of the appeal of 2 women is the taboo voyeur aspect of watching something that to be realistic isn't yet totally accepted. Also I think women generally (I could be wrong here) are less inhibited and express their feelings visually and vocally better than men and I'm always turned on by that.
01 Apr 2013 04:52
''Very good sir'' - Jeeves understanding Bertie Wooster's inarticulate hungover groans.
Topic Bar joke
01 Apr 2013 04:03
A dog is lying on a bar floor eating from an open bag of crisps (potatoe chips) and then licking its balls. A guy says to his friend ''I wish I could do that.'' The friend replies ''Well give it a crisp and maybe it will let you.''