About JesseS


Crossdressing, switch, bi-male with years of BDSM club and swinging experience. My stories and photo albums are probably the best indicators of what I am into. I'm not interested in having a large "friends" collection, so please don't send requests if you are just looking to up your count.

Jesse Sende
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27 May 2018 02:18
Crossdressers, girls, and gurls. Consensual B&D, giving & getting erotic, sensual spankings, golden showers, outdoor sex. I am not interested in "fantasies" that consist of simply, get naked and cum. Also, while 'kissing cousins' or strict 'aunts' are okay, I detest most incest stories/scenes. BTW, if you're one of those who clicks off after orgasm, please don't waste my time. T-Y
Favorite Movies:
Kinky Ladies of Bourbon Street, Erocktavision-5, Sexworld, Spartacus (XXX), Wendy, Big Bang Theory (XXX), Teenage Twins (1976), French finishing school, Wonder Tits (1982, sexy & really funny), Wendy (All 3 parts),
Favorite Music:
Rockabilly, R&R, Motown, Blues, '80's


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Topic: Do Tattoo'd women turn you on?
Posted: 30 Jun 2015 16:06

Absolutely tired of tats, especially on women; major turn-off. The human body looks so much more beautiful un-inked and non-pierced.

Topic: decreasing sex drive
Posted: 26 Nov 2014 16:51

Perhaps an erotic vacation trip to someplace like Hedonism in Jamaica or a lifestyle resort in the states might remind him how much fun it can be. I've seen folks as old as 70 in these places so it will also provide some peer approval.

Topic: Puzzled by...
Posted: 21 Oct 2014 15:41

Quite possibly the cuckold videos and stories exaggerate the scenes to cartoonish dimensions; as do most BDSM videos. If a couple has a desire to do a MMF scene, but want the husband to feel, even if artificially, guilt free, then the obvious path would be 'woman-in-charge.' In most real life BDSM it is the submissive whose fantasy is being served first; the submissive controls the scene, although acting powerless so the conscience isn't bothered. I'm suspecting most real life cuckold scenes are the same, drawing out the desire in an odd type of extended foreplay.

Topic: Spanking
Posted: 06 Sep 2014 11:54

Bare, but it is important to make an erotic trip of getting to that point. The 'forced' undressing, or skirt-up/panties-down, must be made part of the foreplay. Also, the bare bottom gives a proper sound when spanked with a properly cupped hand; again to aid in the foreplay's build-up.

Topic: Can you truly trust a person after they cheat?
Posted: 25 Jun 2014 10:46

First off, no, the trust can not and will not ever return. Second, from the way you describe how this came about she sounds, at least a bit, manipultive; so you already know that trying to trust will simply place you back in place to be set-up again. The realities of these situations are always lousy and best to be walked away from.

Topic: Gf cheated on me. Second chance?
Posted: 11 Jun 2014 16:08

Cold, hard fact, the trust is gone, and for a very good reason, HER behavior! So therefore the relationship that may, or may not have, existed is over. Move on, yes it sucks, but trying to recycle a relationship will just make things worse.

Topic: Talking about anal
Posted: 14 Jan 2014 10:42

Lots of good quality, like Astroglide, lube and go slow, be gentle.

Topic: Guys what do you like more shave pussy or not?
Posted: 20 Dec 2013 16:13

Shaved smooth is best, it's clean, one doesn't get hairs when performing oral and less chance of sweat smell. At very least it should be trimmed short. Hairy is just short of gross.

Topic: Do Tattoo'd women turn you on?
Posted: 21 Oct 2013 09:50

I asked a female trainer at the gym I attend if she had any tattoos, her response was perfect, "why put a bumper sticker on a Ferrari."

Topic: porn with a story
Posted: 26 Aug 2013 09:57

Go to fantasti.cc and search 'complete movies' and/or 'foreign films, the 'Strictly English' series is great.

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Strict Aunt spanking fantasy

Initially, Jerry was not happy with his wife joining the local amateur theater group. However, the first time that he saw her made up to be the mature school teacher, he knew he had to do a fantasy scene with her done up like that. Since they had previously done scenes, to spice up the sex life in their marriage, he knew that the issue would not be getting her onboard, but rather, what...

Added 07 Jun 2011 | Category Spanking | Votes 12 | Avg Score 4.83 | Views 35,111 | 10 Comments

This one is for Tracy

This story requires a short preamble. I had e-mailed erotic stories and fantasies back and forth with my friend Paul for several months. He liked to be a dominant, so one day I asked him to send me exacting instructions on how he would like me to masturbate, which I would have to do and then describe back to him. He sent the instructions, which involved me getting fully cross-dressed...

Added 28 Mar 2010 | Category Crossdressing | Votes 9 | Avg Score 4.89 | Views 12,937 | 7 Comments

Crossdresser's Spanking Scene

My roommate and I were both bi and part-time cross-dressers. We were also familiar with consensual B & D and had already worked out several code words, then went a step further and wrote scenes for each other, so that when we're in the mood, we could call up the scene rather than try to explain it or coach someone through it.   Sometimes we did a scene to please each other sometimes we...

Added 25 Jan 2010 | Category Crossdressing | Votes 4 | Avg Score 5 | Views 19,300 | 2 Comments

An Erotic Spanking for Her, from Him

My lady and I were familiar with consensual B & D and had already worked out several code words, we also went a step further and wrote scenes for each other, so that when we're in the mood, we could call up the scene rather than try to explain it or coach someone through it.   Sometimes we did a scene to please each other sometimes we asked for a scene because we were in a specific mood.  ...

Added 24 Jan 2010 | Category Anal | Votes 10 | Avg Score 4.8 | Views 57,979 | 7 Comments

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20 May 2013 16:51
something to think about
02 Jul 2012 15:39
Thanks also for all your kind comments.
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