Topic Birth Control Patches
15 Dec 2011 12:57
I loved the patch. They have recently come out and said that it carries a slightly greater risk of blood clots than other forms of birth control, but it was a great option for me. I ended up stopping it after about a year due to some other health issues, but while I used it it worked great. The only thing I would warn you about is: 1. If you wear it on your arm/shoulder people will continuously ask you if it's a nicotine patch. 2. I highly suggest not wearing it on your butt (which is one of the options) because it can get stuck to a pair of snug jeans.
Topic Defending our freedom
15 Dec 2011 12:45
... and yet all of you posting replies to this undoubtedly enjoy and completely underappreciate the amount of freedom you have.
In many countries even having this conversation would be considered treason and could land you in prison or worse. Especially as a woman, and one who has served in that very military that you are questioning, I completely appreciate what is going on around the world. Most of the time when you are talking about war or other events in the world that you see on the news you are seeing a biased or incomplete version of the truth. The media doesn't care about the truth, they care about being published/viewed and making money.
When our men and women enlist in the military they are signing a blank check to the government and it's citizens worth up to and including the price of their lives. Sometimes it is difficult to see the direct relationship of their actions to our rights here, but I would argue that the general public is not privvy to most of the intelligence and information that drives foreign policy and military action decisions. So before you discuss whether or not the military is really defending American freedoms, try living a day in our shoes, seeing what we see, and doing what we do.
Most of us agree that WWII was necessary to defend our freedoms at home and yet that war was fought in other countries as well. We were attacked at Pearl Harbor, yes, but the rest of the war was fought overseas.
We were attacked on 9/11. It might have been 10 years ago, but it still happened. Sometimes I wish they would replay the news coverage from that day so that people don't lose sight of what happened and the people that were lost. ON AMERICAN SOIL. So yes, I will fight overseas if it even has a chance of preventing another attack HERE. To me, THAT is defending American freedom.
Topic When Lush members just disappear...
12 Dec 2011 16:54
I know I connect with my Lushie friends and they definitely pick me up when I'm down, but when I'm dating someone seriously I don't generally use the site, I feel sort of guilty about it. If they're into it too, then that's cool, but a lot of times it just makes people uncomfortable or jealous and the emotional connection with my real life love life is more important to me so I try to avoid drama or hurt feelings. Plus it just makes ME uncomfortable. If I'm in love with someone and they are filling all my needs, I feel no need to use the site other than to just monitor my page/stories. To me,, when people disappear I always think they have something going right in their real life, and I try to be happy for them.
Topic Taken their virginity
29 Nov 2011 18:25
None that I know of... But I'm with you, I didn't tell my first that he was and I never will haha.
Topic Are there different levels of unfaithfulness ?
29 Nov 2011 09:57
There are, though all of them are wrong, but ones that are emotional as opposed to physical seem to be harder to handle.
Absolutely. Although physical infedility would be hard, it's not something I would absolutely be unable to get over. If he makes the emotional connection with someone else, and I can speak from experience, THAT is what kills me.
But now, turns out my ex is physically cheating on his new girlfriend...so I guess maybe it was just part of a slippery slope...
Topic What body type on men do you favour?
19 Nov 2011 11:03
I don't really have a "type." The guys I've dated don't really look anything like each other. I won't date a guy shorter than me though, and I like guys who are in shape. They don't need to be ripped or anything, but they need to be in shape enough to keep up with me. Be able to go hiking and play sports and such and of course keep up with me in bed ;)
Topic A Tip.. for oral sex
14 Jul 2011 13:23
In what mood we are for, how much we like diversity, do we want foreplay.. every woman is different, yes, however I think that unknown writer in original post, was trying to say that whatever you do, do it that woman will know for sure that you are enjoying eating her out and not just 'working hard' to make her cum. Does it make sense?
SHE, i think this is in essence what "anonymous" wrote summarized.
I have noticed, that the more involved you become the more your partner responds.
Your words are perfect - you can´t just do it, you got to feel it while doing it.
Absolutely agree with this. And the post. Just make sure you guys are PATIENT. What turns me off more than anything is a guy who makes me feel like I'm being timed. :(
Topic Do younger ladies like older men?
12 Jun 2011 17:42
Age is honestly just a number to me, cliched as that sounds...
If I love someone? I love them. As long as everyone is a legal consenting adult? Do what floats your boat :D
Topic Facials.. thumbs up or thumbs down?
12 Jun 2011 14:30
I don't mind it. If it makes him happy I'll do it. It's not a big deal to me. The problem though....... it gives me a rash. Awwwwwwwwwwkward to explain when you're staying at his parents' house and you wake up with an awkward rash on your face. I had to tell his mom I must be allergic to the laundry soap she uses and she ended up changing brands for me
Topic Do younger ladies like older men?
12 Jun 2011 14:23
It's not about age to me. At all. I've dated a guy twice my age and my current honey is 3 years younger than me. To me it's about personality, sense of humor, all that jazz WAY more than age.
Topic How do men feel about red headed women?
12 Jun 2011 14:14
Love them! Now I am talking about the true ones. I sometimes have the feelng that redhaired girls go thru a trough phase when they grow up. They get a lot of jokes and a lot of them probably dont feel realy beautiful as little girls. But as soon as they grow up they probably find out that a lot of them are crazy about red. And I guess this is what may make them more sexual then others. Just a theory - what do you think?
So true. :)
We get picked on a lot. Plus I was the pudgy girl until midway through college. All of that combined? Now when a guy thinks I'm beautiful, I melt like butter. haha.
Topic How do men feel about red headed women?
12 Jun 2011 14:11
Scientific fact: Redheads shed...a lot, they also replace & grow their hair rapidly. So, if you don't mind sweeping the drain in the shower daily, or vacuuming the abode, three times a week - they are just as helpful around the house as your garden variety strawberry blonde models which do not shed nearly as much.
Best bet - brunettes...they can clean, vacuum, cook, fetch the mail and take the trash to the curb with ease and no complaint. They can also be trained to mix the perfect martini!
Platinum blondes? Man...that's a recipe for high maintenance bank account drainage.
Bahaha as a redhead I agree with the shedding. But I'm also a natural caretaker. I love taking care of people...as long as they appreciate it! LOL.
Topic Do you find it easier to write from the man's point of view?
12 Jun 2011 14:08
I always find it easiest and best to write from my own perspective. My most popular stories are always the ones that are my deep dark desires worked out on paper, just thinking about what I want and how I want to feel...
Topic Best Lube??
15 Nov 2010 22:55
Wet Platinum! That's the one I was thinking of.....
Yes, spermicide is hard on your delicate tissues. I was told Nonoxydil-9 was detergent. Mmmm, sounds like a great idea to rub on your wet folds, huh?
I think au naturel is the unanimous winner, but there was never really a contest there, was there? I thought the question was more to do with what to do when that's not an option (just not working or using a non-lubricating orfice). The natural stuff tastes the best too. ;) The only place the artificial stuff has a chance is in the underwater arts.
Thanks guys! Yes, natural is best, I agree...but I only get to see my boyfriend every couple of weeks, so we often have sack sessions of 5 hours or more, thus the need for some extra lubrication...haha. As for the age comment......I'm 23. AGE is not the issue. : but it's for sensitive skin and it's hypoallergenic. Since I have sensitive skin that seemed to be a good idea. I'll let you know with further testing ;)
Topic Best Lube??
07 Nov 2010 19:46
Hi guys! I'm looking for the male opinions here on the best kind of lube! I'm in a straight monogamous relationship where we don't use condoms (I'm on birth control) and I'm looking for something to try as a surprise for my sexy guy. We'd be using it for vaginal sex and oral sex and hand jobs, not anal. Suggestions? Thanks!
Topic Women and War
09 Jul 2010 00:16
Since this topic actually relates to me... haha I'll throw in my two cents:
The biggest and most prominant problems in the service with women serving on the front lines are twofold:
1. The rape issue. This has been discussed at length above so I won't go into it. You know the problems here.
2. The way men react to protect women. When a woman is in combat men will put themselves in danger to help protect them. If a man is shot one guy will stop to help him, but if a woman is shot five guys will stop to help her. If a woman finds herself in a dangerous situation, men will automatically put themselves in danger to protect her. Not saying they won't do it for other guys, but the effect is magnified when it's a woman.
WE might be aiming for gender equality, but not everywhere we fight is, in fact a lot of places aren't and that would cause a lot of problems in and of itself as well.
In the military the mission must come first. If it's going to interfere with the mission, which fair or not it does, it can't be allowed. I'm sorry if it hurts your feelings but I'd rather not go with the guys and have more of them come back alive than go with them and lose extra people because I needed to prove that I had balls too.
p.s. there already are women on the front lines, just only in specific jobs (MP and Medic specifically)
Topic Doing the Kermit...:-)
13 Mar 2010 15:33
actually, I think "froggie" style is a position.... um like a mix between reverse cowgirl and doggy? Imagine you fucking doggy style and the guy sits back on his heels, with the girl sitting back on his lap, her back against his chest.
Topic Don't Fall for This...
12 Mar 2010 11:28
Topic Tastes Like Chicken
12 Mar 2010 11:23
Topic Babies and the Stork
12 Mar 2010 11:21
Topic A Kiss Is Still A Kiss
11 Mar 2010 21:52
I don't think there is anything physical between two humans, more intimate...than a passionate kiss.
I completely agree.
I love kisses especially when you add cuddling. Yummy!
Topic When is a woman flirting or not?
11 Mar 2010 18:08
who goes to germany to get a haircut....
you dont have swiss saloons?
No kidding! Out of that whole post that's what caught my attention. "Today I went to Germany to get my haircut." wtf. hahaha
From my experience, German women are very direct and they will make it clear if they are interested. That said, they are also very polite, which many of us mistake as them being interested when they are just being nice.
For all of it, if YOU are interested in HER, does it really matter if she was flirting with you? Flirt with her! Go get 'em tiger.
Topic It's the real thing
11 Mar 2010 14:26
this is why you should use toys that are DESIGNED for anal.
Can you imagine having to go to the ER for this? Having to explain why you are there? Why you can't sit down?