About Just_A_Guy_You_Know


Hi. I'm just a guy, you know - yeah, there's a comma there. I don't actually know you (unless that's some fantasy of yours, then maybe I'll be your secret admirer - winky face, winky face). I'm a Canadian who's been living in the US for the past decade. I'm pretty well educated about some things, and totally clueless about others. I can tell you about post-modernism (it comes after modernism), but I'm pretty much useless at home repair.

I'm married to a wonderful woman who is not on Lush, and doesn't know I am. She has some personal sexual issues that she's trying to work through. I give her the space to do that without making her feel worse about it than she already does. Unfortunately, that means I'm left to 'take matters into my own hands' so to speak. Writing for this site allows me to explore my sexual side, which I think is preferable to going out and screwing around on her.

Hey, look at that! I've been here for a year and a half! In that time, I've made a few friends and published a bunch of stories (including a 14-part novella), most of which I think are decent (the friends and the stories). For the moment, I feel that whatever it was I came here to work out has more or less been worked out, and the stories I wanted to tell have mostly been told, so I probably won't be writing (for Lush) as regularly as I have been the past year and half - at least not until the urge hits again. No point forcing it.

I enjoy making friends and getting feedback on stories, but I'm not here looking for a relationship, or sex-chat. In fact, I'm actually kind of shy and reserved, and not likely to strike up a conversation. However, I am somewhat active on the forums when I see an interesting topic.

As to what I like in stories, my tastes run fairly vanilla (with whipped cream, sprinkles, and a cherry on top). Foremost, I like stories to be well-written, and to build up a bit of suspense or tension, before the characters jump each other. Pacing is important. I like exhibitionism/ voyeurism, good girls making bad decisions, betting, games, dares, first times, and SEDUCTION (this should be the main element of any erotic story in my opinion). I dislike violence, pain, or humiliation.

But enough about me, how about you?

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21 Sep 2018 18:24
Obviously, writing and reading. I also like to follow current events, and if the weather's nice and cool, you might find me out for a walk in the woods with my dog. My biggest interest, though, is music. I'm always listening to something. For me, being without it is like sitting in a plain white room with no art, decorations, or furniture.
Favorite Books:
The usual cliched selections: The Dark Tower Series, The Song of Ice and Fire series (Game of Thrones), Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Breakfast of Champions, Hitchhiker's Guide (the first three anyway), The Illuminatus Trilogy. Also, I like Ginsberg's poetry.
Favorite Authors:
The people who wrote the books above.
Favorite Movies:
Apart from porn videos? Ha, just kidding. I like intelligent comedies, and movies that make you think about things. The Matrix, the Good, the Bad & The Ugly, Dr. Strangelove, and the Big Lebowski are a few that come to mind.
Favourite TV Shows:
Again more cliches: House of Cards on Netflix has been amazingly well done, as was Breaking Bad. I really liked the Office when that was on, and the IT Crowd. Weeds was good until it wasn't. OITNB is okay, but not as good as Weeds at its peak.
Favorite Music:
I listen to a lot of different things, but have pretty particular tastes. Mostly I listen to jazz (primarily hard bop), and rock (broadly speaking), and am starting to get into a bit of classical, electronic, blues, and a few hip-hop acts (I posted an image on my profile of some of the music I'm into). On the other hand, I dislike most of what gets played on popular radio (apart from classic rock), and have no idea who any of the popular bands are anymore - I haven't paid much attention to 'the charts' since 1997. I am, however, quite likely to go digging deeply into music blogs and youtube searching for new things to listen to.

At the moment, I'm enjoying Causa Sui.


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Topic: Physical and facial descriptions
Posted: 18 Sep 2018 15:08

I agree with Sprite. Less is often more when it comes to providing details in fiction. Readers will fill in the gaps.

Topic: What is your favorite part of a porno?
Posted: 17 Sep 2018 22:59

Honestly, I'm more into the seduction than the sex. Unfortunately, most porn puts very little thought into setting up a scene, and just randomly jumps to people fucking for no reason.

Topic: They're not worthy!
Posted: 17 Sep 2018 22:51

I've been in the opposite position: had an attraction to someone who was with a great guy. In the end I decided I cared enough for her not to ruin the good thing she already had going on.

Topic: bulge
Posted: 17 Sep 2018 22:46

On the flip-side, if I'm dancing with a woman and feel a bulge, it's usually a turn-off.

Topic: Micro-successes
Posted: 17 Sep 2018 22:40

Added a few more pages to the dissertation. One more chapter left to revise, and maybe they'll let me graduate.

Topic: NFL: Taking A Knee
Posted: 17 Sep 2018 22:30

The protest tradition in the USA is quite a bit older than the anthem before sporting events. We've been protesting since, well, we kind of got fed up with ole King George III and his very conservative Parliamentary cronies, and appointees. And it kind of stuck around.

A bunch of cranky old malcontents.

Topic: What are you listening to right now?
Posted: 17 Sep 2018 22:24

Oasis - D'You Know What I Mean?

Love it. One of their most underrated songs.

Topic: You meet the person above you at a bar. What would you buy them?
Posted: 17 Sep 2018 22:22

Three slices of bacon, two eggs, and a spatula.

I'll take them over easy.

Topic: NFL: Taking A Knee
Posted: 17 Sep 2018 09:37

It is generally known suicides tend to use handguns. But hey, they must be military grade handguns. ;-)

Maybe you could help me out. What kind of firearm has never been used by the military?

I was speaking about gun violence in general in that last sentence, but you're correct.

In fact, women make more suicide attempts than men, but men are more likely to use more lethal means (such as handguns). Of course, if you take the guns away, there are all kinds of other means to do it. My main point was that mental health professionals can maybe prevent suicides with the clients they see, but they can't stop suicides or any kind of violence with people who are determined to do it, so it's crazy to expect them to solve these problems.

As for your other post, I'm sorry for falsely claiming you derailed the thread. Other threads, certainly, but not this one, so I apologize.

Topic: NFL: Taking A Knee
Posted: 16 Sep 2018 15:44

*A huge percentage of gun deaths in the USA is suicide by gun. I believe that most of these people could, with professional help, be saved and in the future, live a very decent life.

How did this thread get onto gun control?... Oh hey, Seax.

Anyway, on the topic of suicides, I agree that people involved in mental health can have a positive effect when patients come to them and tell them about their suicidal thoughts . But I'm reluctant to transfer the responsibility for suicides entirely onto mental health care as the perfect solution (I've made this same argument several times before). Mental health professionals are awesome, but they're not superheros, and they're limited in what they can do about gun violence (self or other-directed), and they're definitely not a substitute for common-sense gun-control laws that prohibit citizens from owning military-grade weaponry.

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