About Just_A_Guy_You_Know


Hi. I'm just a guy, you know - yeah, there's a comma there. I don't actually know you (unless that's some fantasy of yours, then maybe I'll be your secret admirer - winky face, winky face). I'm a Canadian who's been living in the US for the past decade. I'm pretty well educated about some things, and totally clueless about others. I can tell you about post-modernism (it comes after modernism), but I'm pretty much useless at home repair.

I'm married to a wonderful woman who is not on Lush, and doesn't know I am. She has some personal sexual issues that she's trying to work through. I give her the space to do that without making her feel worse about it than she already does. Unfortunately, that means I'm left to 'take matters into my own hands' so to speak. Writing for this site allows me to explore my sexual side, which I think is preferable to going out and screwing around on her.

Hey, look at that! I've been here for a year and a half! In that time, I've made a few friends and published a bunch of stories (including a 14-part novella), most of which I think are decent (the friends and the stories). For the moment, I feel that whatever it was I came here to work out has more or less been worked out, and the stories I wanted to tell have mostly been told, so I probably won't be writing (for Lush) as regularly as I have been the past year and half - at least not until the urge hits again. No point forcing it.

I enjoy making friends and getting feedback on stories, but I'm not here looking for a relationship, or sex-chat. In fact, I'm actually kind of shy and reserved, and not likely to strike up a conversation. However, I am somewhat active on the forums when I see an interesting topic.

As to what I like in stories, my tastes run fairly vanilla (with whipped cream, sprinkles, and a cherry on top). Foremost, I like stories to be well-written, and to build up a bit of suspense or tension, before the characters jump each other. Pacing is important. I like exhibitionism/ voyeurism, good girls making bad decisions, betting, games, dares, first times, and SEDUCTION (this should be the main element of any erotic story in my opinion). I dislike violence, pain, or humiliation.

But enough about me, how about you?

Not Nebraska, Nebraska, United States
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20 Aug 2017 10:48
Obviously, writing and reading. I also like to follow current events, and if the weather's nice and cool, you might find me out for a walk in the woods with my dog. My biggest interest, though, is music. I'm always listening to something. For me, being without it is like sitting in a plain white room with no art, decorations, or furniture.
Favorite Books:
The usual cliched selections: The Dark Tower Series, The Song of Ice and Fire series (Game of Thrones), Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Breakfast of Champions, Hitchhiker's Guide (the first three anyway), The Illuminatus Trilogy. Also, I like Ginsberg's poetry.
Favorite Authors:
The people who wrote the books above.
Favorite Movies:
Apart from porn videos? Ha, just kidding. I like intelligent comedies, and movies that make you think about things. The Matrix, the Good, the Bad & The Ugly, Dr. Strangelove, and the Big Lebowski are a few that come to mind.
Favourite TV Shows:
Again more cliches: House of Cards on Netflix has been amazingly well done, as was Breaking Bad. I really liked the Office when that was on, and the IT Crowd. Weeds was good until it wasn't. OITNB is okay, but not as good as Weeds at its peak.
Favorite Music:
I listen to a lot of different things, but have pretty particular tastes. Mostly I listen to jazz (primarily hard bop), and rock (broadly speaking), and am starting to get into a bit of classical, electronic, blues, and a few hip-hop acts (I posted an image on my profile of some of the music I'm into). On the other hand, I dislike most of what gets played on popular radio (apart from classic rock), and have no idea who any of the popular bands are anymore - I haven't paid much attention to 'the charts' since 1997. I am, however, quite likely to go digging deeply into music blogs and youtube searching for new things to listen to.

At the moment, I'm enjoying Causa Sui.


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Topic: Why not line the streets
Posted: 20 Aug 2017 08:21

Is it because the US is not (yet) a fascist dictatorship that considers its own population to be an enemy of the state?

Topic: Trump's Response to Charlottesville Is Both Disappointing and Dooming
Posted: 20 Aug 2017 08:09

Yes, they have freedom of speech. But that does not legitimize their odious opinions and we all have a right to object to them. Perhaps you are unaware of very much history. The torches were reminiscent of two things, the nazis marches in 1930s Germany, and unfortunately marches by the KKK in the first half of the 20th century US. They were chanting "you (African-Americans) will not replace us" and "Jews will not replace us" among other racist and anti-semitic chants. They hate Jews. They hate African-Americans. They hate immigrants. They hate Asians. They hate Latinos. They hate Native Americans. They hate anyone who does not have white skin and worship as they do. Not only that, they wish all of these groups dead and think that Hitler was doing the right thing in Germany.

Hundreds of thousands of Americans, Brits, Canadians, and many other nationalities fought a world war against this. Millions died in battle and in concentration and POW camps. That is why good people have to raise their voices to object to these people and their world view. The neo-nazis have the right to march, but the rest of us have not only a right but a moral obligation to say they are wrong, not just wrong but that their ideas are unacceptable in civil society. As the leader of a democratic country Trump had a moral responsibility to denounce the neo-nazis and all of their ideas. That is why he should care, but that would assume he had a moral compass. That he equated them to those who objected to them made it much, much worse. He abdicated the high moral ground and sank to the level of a segment of his base to ingratiate himself with them.

You probably will not like my answer and I accept that. I will not argue with you about this, but I could not let your post go unanswered.

For what it's worth, I like your answer.

Topic: How Anonymous Is The Internet?
Posted: 20 Aug 2017 08:04

To a small extent, I think the best privacy (from government spying, at least) is hiding in plain view. If the government is collecting data on us all, then paying attention to any particular person's online life is like finding a needle in a haystack. Of course, they probably run algorithms to comb through the data for red-flags like child porn and terrorism etc, but for most of us who don't draw attention to ourselves, our weird personal, private, and potentially embarrassing idiosyncrasies tend to be too mundane for notice. No one is randomly asking 'Hey, what's Justin up to today?' They'd need a reason to pay specific attention to me. Otherwise, I'm just a drop in a vast ocean of data.

Small comfort, though. The real threat to privacy are criminals (including corruption in government) or corporations who are less about monitoring your behaviour, and collecting your data, than exploiting it to get something out of you. It's not the watching in itself, but the being acted on that makes me nervous.

Topic: Spirit Animal
Posted: 20 Aug 2017 07:19

Okay, I wasn't meaning for this to be a cultural appropriation of specifically native traditions. I can see how it comes off that way and I apologize for that. Maybe I should have asked what animal do you identify most with? Or if you were an animal what kind of animal would you be?

Topic: What is the most ridiculous sexual question you've been asked?
Posted: 19 Aug 2017 09:21

I was glancing at the 'ask the guys' forum and saw a bunch of off-the-wall threads of things that only seem to happen in porn (and even there, look awkward and uncomfortable). Then I checked out 'ask the gals' and they've got it ten times worse. So I'm wondering what is the most bizarre, uninformed, or ridiculous sex-question you've seen or heard (either on here or elsewhere), and how did you respond (if you did)?

Topic: DVP ?
Posted: 19 Aug 2017 09:10

No. The only DVP I've experienced is driving on the Don Valley Parkway in Toronto.

Topic: Spirit Animal
Posted: 18 Aug 2017 15:16

What is your spirit animal (vegetable, or mineral)?


Topic: What are you listening to right now?
Posted: 18 Aug 2017 15:10


Topic: What are you listening to right now?
Posted: 18 Aug 2017 15:07


my car keys are jingling in my hand; my high heels are clicking towards your door...

Great song!

Topic: Trump's Response to Charlottesville Is Both Disappointing and Dooming
Posted: 18 Aug 2017 11:29

Whatever anyone thinks of Trump and his actions / opinions, the fact is more Americans voted for him than Hilary Clinton, so you got what you wanted, it is a democracy after all lol, you all knew what you were voting for.

Right. It's not like Trump made any secret of his views during the campaign. The guy has been pretty open about being a bigot and an asshole. Clinton was no great candidate, I get that, but in my opinion, even those conservatives who don't consider themselves racists decided for the country that obnoxious bigotry and assholery are not serious barriers to leading the country. It was a tacit acceptance of values and attitudes that many people consider to be fundamentally unamerican, and his election made a lot of people (particularly minorities) very nervous about the state of the nation. But if there's one positive, it's that it's no longer a secret how much prejudice actually exists in the US. All the ugliness is coming out into the open now for the entire world to see, so maybe it can be properly acknowledged and addressed instead of being swept under the rug.

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