About Just_A_Guy_You_Know


Hi. I'm just a guy, you know - yeah, there's a comma there. I don't actually know you (unless that's some fantasy of yours, then maybe I'll be your secret admirer - winky face, winky face). I'm a Canadian who's been living in the US for the past decade. I'm pretty well educated about some things, and totally clueless about others. I can tell you about post-modernism (it comes after modernism), but I'm pretty much useless at home repair.

I'm married to a wonderful woman who is not on Lush, and doesn't know I am. She has some personal sexual issues that she's trying to work through. I give her the space to do that without making her feel worse about it than she already does. Unfortunately, that means I'm left to 'take matters into my own hands' so to speak. Writing for this site allows me to explore my sexual side, which I think is preferable to going out and screwing around on her.

Hey, look at that! I've been here for a year and a half! In that time, I've made a few friends and published a bunch of stories (including a 14-part novella), most of which I think are decent (the friends and the stories). For the moment, I feel that whatever it was I came here to work out has more or less been worked out, and the stories I wanted to tell have mostly been told, so I probably won't be writing (for Lush) as regularly as I have been the past year and half - at least not until the urge hits again. No point forcing it.

I enjoy making friends and getting feedback on stories, but I'm not here looking for a relationship, or sex-chat. In fact, I'm actually kind of shy and reserved, and not likely to strike up a conversation. However, I am somewhat active on the forums when I see an interesting topic.

As to what I like in stories, my tastes run fairly vanilla (with whipped cream, sprinkles, and a cherry on top). Foremost, I like stories to be well-written, and to build up a bit of suspense or tension, before the characters jump each other. Pacing is important. I like exhibitionism/ voyeurism, good girls making bad decisions, betting, games, dares, first times, and SEDUCTION (this should be the main element of any erotic story in my opinion). I dislike violence, pain, or humiliation.

But enough about me, how about you?

Not Nebraska, Nebraska, United States
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23 Oct 2017 14:19
Obviously, writing and reading. I also like to follow current events, and if the weather's nice and cool, you might find me out for a walk in the woods with my dog. My biggest interest, though, is music. I'm always listening to something. For me, being without it is like sitting in a plain white room with no art, decorations, or furniture.
Favorite Books:
The usual cliched selections: The Dark Tower Series, The Song of Ice and Fire series (Game of Thrones), Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Breakfast of Champions, Hitchhiker's Guide (the first three anyway), The Illuminatus Trilogy. Also, I like Ginsberg's poetry.
Favorite Authors:
The people who wrote the books above.
Favorite Movies:
Apart from porn videos? Ha, just kidding. I like intelligent comedies, and movies that make you think about things. The Matrix, the Good, the Bad & The Ugly, Dr. Strangelove, and the Big Lebowski are a few that come to mind.
Favourite TV Shows:
Again more cliches: House of Cards on Netflix has been amazingly well done, as was Breaking Bad. I really liked the Office when that was on, and the IT Crowd. Weeds was good until it wasn't. OITNB is okay, but not as good as Weeds at its peak.
Favorite Music:
I listen to a lot of different things, but have pretty particular tastes. Mostly I listen to jazz (primarily hard bop), and rock (broadly speaking), and am starting to get into a bit of classical, electronic, blues, and a few hip-hop acts (I posted an image on my profile of some of the music I'm into). On the other hand, I dislike most of what gets played on popular radio (apart from classic rock), and have no idea who any of the popular bands are anymore - I haven't paid much attention to 'the charts' since 1997. I am, however, quite likely to go digging deeply into music blogs and youtube searching for new things to listen to.

At the moment, I'm enjoying Causa Sui.


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Topic: Micro-successes
Posted: 17 Oct 2017 12:30

I got my private collection of porn pics/gifs deleted from the company's backup server before someone else noticed it had ended up there <img src="/forum/images/emoticons/embarassed.gif" alt="Embarassed">


... Wait, maybe you should wash that hand first...

Topic: Readers: Do sex scenes have to be explicit?
Posted: 17 Oct 2017 12:14

Erotica shouldn't shy away from being explicit. However, stuffing scenes with sexual minutia in dull mechanical detail is not really very erotic. In many cases, less is more. You can rely on your readers to work out a lot of the details for themselves in their imagination without having to explicitly spell it all out for them.

Topic: Readers: Do sex scenes have to be explicit?
Posted: 15 Oct 2017 22:58

The more I read and write, the more bored I'm getting with sex scenes. Speaking for myself, I feel that the eroticism of erotica is in the seduction or building of sexual tension. The sex itself is just the logical conclusion of that tension, and not particularly remarkable in and of itself.

Topic: Help in these difficult times
Posted: 15 Oct 2017 22:41

There is still beauty in the world. It's all around. You just need to see it.


Topic: Have you ever experienced racism?
Posted: 15 Oct 2017 22:32

Hmm. Now if only I had been born white like you. Then all my dreams would come true? Or is it only because you are a white male?...
Since I am not a white male, does that mean society has been against me all along?

Umm, no that's not what I said. One can acknowledge that they benefit from a system that privileges White males without taking away the struggles and hardships that any individual person has experienced in their lives. No one has ever handed me a billion dollars and keys to a mansion based on my race, but then again, no one has turned me down for a job on the basis of my race either. I've worked hard to get to where I've gotten in my life, but perhaps not as hard as others have to to get to the same place, and certainly the position I'm in hasn't been regularly denied to 'people like me,' or reserved for other kinds of people. So, will being a white male make all your dreams come true? Probably not. But in this society, I honestly wouldn't want to be anything else if I had the choice.

Topic: Designer implants
Posted: 13 Oct 2017 12:34

If you were going to get a mastectomy and implants, and you weren't going to go the traditional 'round and squeezable' route, what shape would your new chest take?

I think if I were going for implants, I'd try to get them in the shape of the faces of Paul Simon (Right) and Art Garfunkel (Left).

Topic: Have you ever experienced racism?
Posted: 11 Oct 2017 11:38

A white person who gets shot because he walked into the wrong neighbourhood is just as dead as the black guy who gets shot when trying to get his drivers license out of his pocket.

Of course, neither is acceptable, but one of those things is more likely to happen than another. I've ventured into the "wrong" neighbourhoods on several occasions, and the fact is even then, I was still white, and that in itself gave me some degree of power and protection. Black people are less likely to mess with a White person because the consequences are likely to be more severe than for Black on Black crime - an internalization of a racist system that values White lives more than Black lives.

Which is only part of the issue, because my circumstances also make me less disposed towards murdering people. I'm not in a desperate situation. I've not spent my entire existence being told that I am 'less than' others or being held back because of my race. My potential has been unlimited by my skin colour or ethnicity. I could even become a hip-hop star if I had the talent and was inclined to do so. I'm not discriminated against usually, and not to the extent that people of colour experience it both overtly and covertly. Sure, I've got my own complaints, but to paraphrase Jay-Z, '99 problems, but race ain't one.' It's a privilege I enjoy. I'm not personally trying to take away the lives, the well-being, the possessions (etc.) of Black people in order to survive or come up in the system. I don't have to. The system does it for me. And the fact that I benefit from that system, even if I haven't personally, consciously contributed to 'Keeping the Black man down,' and consider myself to be a proponent for social justice, still makes me complicit in their oppression.

Topic: Outfits?
Posted: 11 Oct 2017 11:07

Now do I understand correctly you find it just as sexy if we meet you for dinner in something casual and easy to get into. Rather than spend all the hours we do to look just right for you?


Speaking for myself, yes, I'd actually prefer a casual look. Save yourself the time. I find that when women spend all that time working on themselves, it creates an air of artificiality that isn't really too appealing.

Topic: Podcast recommendations
Posted: 06 Oct 2017 10:21

I'm badly behind on actually listening to it, but "quirky, off-beat, humorous, nerdy" immediately suggests Welcome to Night Vale . It's educational to the extent that you can probably pick up some good storytelling tips from listening to it. The team behind it have some books out, too.

That looks interesting. I'll give it a shot.

Topic: Las Vegas shooting: Dozens killed in Mandalay Bay attack
Posted: 06 Oct 2017 10:16

What happened to the Canadian Long Gun registry?

The short answer is politics. Conservatives were against the registry, and Liberals were for it. As the governments changed over the years, so did the national agendas. In addition the program was mismanaged and ended up being quite expensive, and there was debate on its effectiveness (and a lack of data to reach a conclusion).

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