Forum posts made by justalilfun

Topic Do You like to give or reciever oral sex?
Posted 02 Mar 2016 02:57

Absolutely love to give, and like all men love to receive oral too.

Topic Story behind your avatar
Posted 02 Mar 2016 02:55

I like older music more than the new stuff. At the time I picked it out, I was really into Floyd. I also like bodypainting and love the effort that the artists had gone to in painting the ladies. I guess the two go hand-in-hand and the picture to me was cool.

Topic Can a woman's sordid sexual history prevent her from being "the one"?
Posted 15 Dec 2015 18:10

No. I might not say hey Mum, Dad my new girl used to....

However, with me there is only 1 deal breaker, and there is never going to be a second chance.

Do anything behind my back and you know where the door is, don't let it smack your arse on the way out.

Our past is in our past. We can never undo it. If we are all honest with ourselves we have all done something friends and family would not like - well I have anyway.

If the person was open and told you, they trust you. Respect that trust and if you have any insecurities with something from their past, or if you found out some other way. I suggest you discuss it with them straight away before it gets a chance to gnaw at your inner self.

Topic What's on your sexual bucket list?
Posted 15 Dec 2015 17:53

The only trouble I find with my 'sexual to do' or bucket list is... Well I cross something off and there is a spot to write something new.

I wouldn't mind making a sex tape though - young people, video recorders used to record on a video tape giggle

I mean I have done the pics and short movies while having sex before, but not the whole start to finish with a friend/stranger filming - yet. That would be hot.

Topic What's the weather like where you are?
Posted 15 Dec 2015 17:42

23c Humidity 77%. Trying to rain, only light showers though. 11.40 am Wednesday.
Wish it was fine though, been nightshift for the last 7 weeks and need to catch up on a lot of work.

Topic Is squirting gross or hot?
Posted 30 Oct 2014 04:34

For me it is hot. Esp if it happens during sex, I would get a headswell at being able to make you cum so hard you squirted all over me like that.

Topic help please
Posted 30 Oct 2014 04:29

You may not like my advice, but here it is.

Get him alone, in a car/room etc where he cannot be distracted from you.
Tell him how you feel, explain to him things are as you have told us. You can give him examples if you like.
Make sure he cannot feel you are entering into an argument as you explain yourself - you don't need that.
Let him have time to think about what you have to say, we men don't like to be rushed.

If he does not reciprocate your love, your heart will be broken. But you will know for sure how he feels towards you.

If he does not reciprocate your love, then he is a fool and not worthy of your love.
Do not go looking for a rebound relationship. You will only be hurt more in the long run.

Hope it all goes well for you.

Topic Would you meet up with a girl from this site?
Posted 29 Sep 2014 03:34

Sure I mean why not?
The situation of why we are meeting up here is an open ended question.
Do you mean, are we meeting up because we have a few things in common and we are turning our friendship from a purely on line to 'normal' too?
Or do you mean would I meet up for sexual reasons?

Topic Do strip clubs turn you on or not?
Posted 23 Sep 2014 23:46

I have never been to a strip club. I have seen a few performances though.
For me, I have mixed reactions though.

On the one hand the girls put on a great show - some are just slutty, some are sensual about their routine. As it is just entertainment and not a prelude to sex... You get all revved up, with no place to go - if you get my drift.

I would much rather spend time and money with someone where the result can be different, if I impress her.
If I was going to spend money on a stripper? No offence, but it is cheaper to pay for sex than it is to pay for a tease.

If I want a tease I can look at porn, it has the same outcome. You get revved up and you don't get the sensual touch of the lovely lady involved.

Just my take on it.

Topic how many of you want to have sex outdoor
Posted 20 Sep 2014 19:21

Have done it. Great to have the sun shining on your lover, just watch for sunburn. Will do it again every time the occasion arises.

Topic Aroused by Bondage - Please give me advise.
Posted 18 Sep 2014 03:45

I am no guru on the matter, however my one experience was fantastic.
I had a friend I met online, we were both curious to try it and I trusted her to be in control.
She tied me down to the bed and we both just went with it.

She teased me. Giving me some pleasure, but denied me orgasm, my friend also denied me her body at times as I yearned to suck her nipples, kiss her, etc.
This went on until I was begging her to let me have her, and to orgasm.
It was awesome.... Something I definitely want to do again.

Topic Her orgasm or yours?
Posted 16 Sep 2014 03:36

Definitely hers first.
The orgasm race is the one race in which every man should come second.

Topic What should a new to swinging couple try first, second, and third?
Posted 14 Sep 2014 02:04

Hey Gals,
Just not sure what the hubby and I should do to start this sexual adventure. Thank you for all the help, I know I'll get.

I know you posted this in the ask the gals section, I hope you don't mind me adding my two cents.

1st - Establish what you are and are not happy to do with another man/woman/couple that you meet.

2nd - Set the ground rules with the lucky people who you meet.

3rd - Meet them somewhere away from your home first preferably public like a coffee shop or cafe. You may move to a nearby park etc etc to discuss the bedroom stuff, you need to see that the potential bed buddy is sane etc and that they are what they say they are wherever you meet them.
Some people have had bad experiences from internet meets where the first meet is at home.

Then there are the extra things.

4th - Once all of your boxes have been ticked - Enjoy yourself, pleasure your partner in the meet and see how your wife/husband reacts with each position, each touch of the other person.

5th - Write a story and post it to lush lol

Topic Showing off for the webcam
Posted 09 Sep 2014 00:12

If you are looking for a site? I visit adult friendfinder, there are loads of webcams going on there with lots of people viewing.
If you are looking for a little advice on the matter?
Think about the possibilities BEFORE you show the world your inner moist sluttyness (pun intended)
What would you do if you boss, neighbour, son/daughter or any family member was also on the site you chose and saw you?
I have done a live cam show for a friend, but if I were to do something for a large world wide audience, I would do a lot of things to keep my identity anonymous.
Try caming for a friend or two to see if you really want to go big on the audience size.

Topic unfairness of women compared to men in the choice of whom we want to have sex with
Posted 09 Sep 2014 00:01

I am more interested in how a lady acts than just her figure.
It is what is on the inside that counts, and if my personality shines through as someone she is interested in.. Then I may be on the inside.
I have met some women who are what mainstream media etc tell us is sexy, only to be turned well away by their personality.
I have met a couple of men who were as big a dick as their appendages too, maybe it works both ways?

Topic what does a girl's pussy and cum taste like?
Posted 07 Sep 2014 03:49

I've just always wondered. I know I can just taste myself, but I'm kind of scared to try that.
Why be scared? Just lick a finger clean next time your masturbating. If you like a guy to taste you, why not taste yourself?
Every woman is different, though I have never found one I did not like.

Topic What is it about older women that attracts younger men?
Posted 04 Sep 2014 02:30

Wait... So older women have a stronger aroma? :(

Not what I meant.

I was alluding to the fact that in my experience, younger women seem to be more into quickly getting you off. Whereas mature women take things more slowly, enjoying the whole pleasurable experience rather than just trying to cum and go in a heated rush.

Topic Who wants their dicks sucked?
Posted 03 Sep 2014 03:14

Now there is a gentleman right there. My panties are off to you sir

Mmm pity you are on the other side of the world, rather than the other side of my bed. We could both put our money where our mouths are.

Topic Who wants their dicks sucked?
Posted 03 Sep 2014 02:44

Well if I am to answer honestly... Only on days ending in 'Y'
Especially if I am able to simultaneously return the favour.
To see her eyes as she is giving me oral is a turn on, to 69 is divine

Topic Age,does it matter?
Posted 25 Aug 2014 00:59

It does with some, but not with me.
Age is merely a number. As long as both parties are of legal age - Who cares?

Topic What's your opinion on abortion?
Posted 17 Aug 2014 15:34

If you are the one paying for it then what Ajax?? you would object to being out of pocket??

I have to agree here and also ask what you are paying for?

The abortion, or the child's next 18 years of welfare as a responsible parent.

Or do you mean you shouldda manned up, thought with your big head (not your little head) and bought some condoms before you got her pregnant?

In my opinion it is the choice of the potential mother.

Topic What's your opinion on abortion?
Posted 17 Aug 2014 15:34

If you are the one paying for it then what Ajax?? you would object to being out of pocket??

I have to agree here and also ask what you are paying for?

The abortion, or the child's next 18 years of welfare as a responsible parent.

Or do you mean you shouldda manned up, thought with your big head (not your little head) and bought some condoms before you got her pregnant?

In my opinion it is the choice of the potential mother.

Topic casual sex
Posted 15 Aug 2014 03:24

I have no problems with it.
I always use protection, if it's not on, it's not on.
Although I have one exception to what others seem to have, I see no reason why a one night stand or FWB's cannot be sensual and have some feeling - without love.

Topic The Perfect Pussy?
Posted 14 Aug 2014 21:10

I would like to add my two cents; I am only a man so forgive me if I am wrong. But some of the things we men and women get bombarded with in print and on the web are truly ridiculous. No wonder the shrinks do so well, I wonder just how much of it is put out there by the shrinks?

I digress; here are my thoughts on the three topical problems and solutions for a woman to achieve the perfect pussy.

Problem 1: Your Vagina Tastes Bad
Solution: Vagina Mints.

I think it should be a shower for two. Why not wash each other and enjoy a little clean foreplay, before hot dirty sex?
Soap and water is a great remedy for all over body hygiene, is your pussy any different?

Problem 2: Your Vagina Is the Wrong Color
Solution: Vaginal Bleaching and Dying

There is a right color? Who says it is right or wrong?

Kojic acid, the same ingredient that keeps salmon meat pink. Salmon? I thought we were eating pussy? Something fishy there. Or sodium hydroxide, which can also be found in drain decloggers and septic tank cleansers.

Uh Uh, I am not going to eat anything that has been dipped in, or had septic tank cleaner splashed all over it.

Problem 3: Your Vagina Is Too Loose
Solution: Vaginal Rejuvenation

Honestly? Honey, leave it just the way it is. If you want it tighter, isn’t that what doing your kegels is for?

I do accept that some women have inner labia that hang down and cause discomfort. I agree with her having labioplasty performed in these instances, but not purely to aesthetically please a lover. If he, or she doesn't like the taste, look or feel of you, move on and find yourself someone who does.

To me the perfect pussy is the one I get to eat and is attached to a woman who has a great personality, to make me want to come back for more...

Just my two cents ladies.

Topic Getting hit on by younger men.
Posted 13 Aug 2014 23:02

Hello ladies, I would like to know what reactions you have when you have a younger man hit on you. If you were to consider accepting his advances.

Would (or do) you consider his age?

Or is your decision based more so on the other things that would attract you to any other man?

Do these change if you are married or out of town for some reason?

Just curious...

Topic What is it about older women that attracts younger men?
Posted 13 Aug 2014 22:46

I don't really know for sure what actually attracts me more. BUT....
Women are like scotch.
A young scotch (or your favorite type of drink) will get you to your destination pretty quick.
A mature scotch, (again,your favorite type of drink) I find just as much pleasure to enjoy the taste and aroma, as it is the destination.

Topic eating your own cum
Posted 12 Aug 2014 22:36

Not after masturbating, no.
I have kissed a lover when she had not quite swallowed all of my cum though.

Topic Where is the riskiest or oddest place you've had sex?
Posted 11 Aug 2014 02:21

was given a bj on a bench in a park at night

Topic Assisted Suicide - What's your view?
Posted 07 Aug 2014 21:41

I'm with you on this, but with the proviso that the person wants to hasten their end. I would.
My father died of lung cancer. He went from 220 pounds to just over 100, and was in great pain towards the end. He didn't want to die and I respect that. If he had, I would have understood.

I agree it should be up to the sufferer to decide - that is where the dignity of it all comes into play.
I also think they should be assessed by more than the one doctor who would be happy to administer the fatal dose, just to make sure they are still of sound mind.

Topic Ever fallen in love with someone you can't have?
Posted 07 Aug 2014 21:39

I think the question should maybe read, 'When was the last time you fell for someone you could not have?'
Everyone does at some point in their life.