About KimDeSade


Time for another update Oct 2017. I have some very wonderful supportive friends here and I am glad we got to know each other and I truly value your friendship. Thank you.

I will NOT Meet, Skype or phone you. I will not share personal details about my family other than shown here.

So, My name is Kimberly, or Kim, divorced mum of two demanding young adults, I'm 5'7" blonde hair, blue eyes, 10stone 7lbs (147 lbs) and have a g/f in real life. She knows I come here and we are very happy together and have a wonderful family life with our "little fella".

Enjoy giving BDSM, but only with the right person. Guess it is more of a Control thing to be honest, some would say I'm a control freak lol!

I like to think I can be fun and it has been said I have a quirky sense of humour or even humor


I am here to make new friends, chat and generally enjoy myself and have a little me time. I will try and keep the chat going in the room but it is a struggle if no one else wishes to join in.

If English is your first language and can't tell the difference between your and you're, or there, their or they're then expect me to correct you!

Please do NOT WHISPER without chatting first and then have the courtesy to ask first. If you do not complete your profile or have that horrid red silhouette, I will say Hi but don't expect anything else.

Please do NOT request me to be a friend unless we chat a little to start with. If you are a friend and stop chatting with me, I will from time to time review my list of friends and you will be removed. If you are looking to collect friends, then pass me by.

I am a professional photographer with my own business, so can tell web pictures a mile off, so do not bother to try and fool me with a picture that is allegedly you!

Kimberly Guess
Relationship Status:
In a Relationship
Local Time:
24 May 2018 09:34
Photography. Card Making. Gardening. My family. Vacations
Favorite Books:
No specific book
Favorite Authors:
David Baldacci, Tess Gerristen
Favorite Movies:
Not been to the cinema (or do you call it the movies?) in ages other than on a cruise
Favourite TV Shows:
NICS, Dexter, Scandal, NICS LA, Deadliest Catch, Perception, The Big Bang Theory, The Blacklist, House. Scandal. Madame Secretary. House of Cards (both UK and USA versions)
Favorite Music:
Queen, Garth Brooks, Elton John, 1960's music, Rod Stewart


Date Joined:
21 Dec 2013
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Topic: Would you like to see a Ladies only Basement chat room?
Posted: 01 Mar 2018 03:19

yeah, thing with that is, if we gave someone that ability, it would work in all the chat rooms - you'd have mod powers, and i just am thinking that it would open a can of worms. i am thinking that a small core of Dommes probably won't have the apathy issue, anyways. :)

Fair point. It was merely a possible suggestion to generate more discussion on the apathy issue we find in the Ladies Room.

Topic: Would you like to see a Ladies only Basement chat room?
Posted: 28 Feb 2018 04:55

no, just the ladies room does. i'll ask him to add it - i kind of guessed it would be a desired feature.

and yes, i am. never forget it ;)

For what it’s worth I fully support the idea of this room, but would ask for a different means of controlling who can enter.

In the Ladies Only Room, we get so many with a doubtful gender.

I appreciate Lush can’t control how someone completes their profile but the “boot” option isn’t always successful as it requires a majority and apathy often reigns.

Could we have some nominated members able to “boot” undesirables?

Topic: Moderator of the Month, for January
Posted: 21 Feb 2018 04:43


Topic: Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted: 01 Dec 2017 05:19

Nobody realises I do care

Topic: Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted: 19 Nov 2017 10:59

wine by the bottle best

Topic: Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted: 19 Nov 2017 10:58

Enjoy the evening with wine

Topic: Awesome Award 11/9/17: Apptobebad
Posted: 10 Nov 2017 00:27

Well done Lulu, always knew you were a troublemaker, I mean sociable lady.


Topic: WORDS or PHRASES we rarely hear anymore...
Posted: 13 Sep 2017 02:18


Think it's "bar humbug" and no I wasn't around in Dickensian times lol

Topic: WORDS or PHRASES we rarely hear anymore...
Posted: 13 Sep 2017 02:15

Holy cow!

That's often heard (herd) in India

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Topic: WORDS or PHRASES we rarely hear anymore...
Posted: 04 Sep 2017 09:24


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I like your new office
28 days ago


Saw these and thought of you ...giggle
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22 Apr 2018 22:50

22 Apr 2018 13:32


although I am sure LUCK has nothing to do with it - J
22 Apr 2018 02:33

20 Apr 2018 13:19


Thank you
18 Apr 2018 02:13

13 Apr 2018 07:04

09 Apr 2018 06:10


with all the heartache i have been put through recently
I am in danger of forgetting who my REAL friends are here so -
to Kim, Rosie Posie, Sylvia and Cas a big thank you
for your support, comfort and advice (not always taken)
I love you
05 Apr 2018 01:45

I thought you might like these for your collection... Hope you are having a lovelytime .
16 Mar 2018 00:35


Bon Voyage
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