About kinky_girl

I came across this site a while ago and just read the stories to start with. I have since written a few of my own and started chatting with the people on here. I have made some great friends, but am always open to making more. I have learnt a lot about myself since joining this site and exploring things I would never have dreamt of doing, so I'm game for new experiences. I will genuinely try anything once and if I don't like it, I know for next time but if I do like it then my sex life gets more interesting- it's win win.

Very happily in a D/s relationship (DD/lg to be precise) so I will not be 'playing' online but I'm always game for a nice chat. Please have some respect

Kinky Girl
Relationship Status:
Hertfordshire, United Kingdom
Ice hockey, swimming, tennis, reading, theatre, music, naturism, submission, reluctance...
Favorite Books:
Wetlands, Rumour Has It, Harry Potter.
Favorite Authors:
Jill Mansell, Jeremy Clarkson.
Favorite Movies:
The Grinch, Beauty and the Beast, The Little Mermaid, any comedy or rom com really.
Favorite Music:
Classical, jazz, rock, metal, R&B, acoustic...
Date Joined:
26 Apr 2011
Last Visit:
25 Mar 2015
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Topic: Are you on Fetlife?
Posted: 03 Nov 2014 07:02

I've been a member of FetLife for over two years now and I love it. I've been to a couple of different munches and met some lovely people, I've also had my fair share of being contacted by unsavoury characters on there but the site has 3.2 million members. Probability says that some of them will be odd balls, but you're also likely to find people you get on with, especially if you go to munches.

I think it's a great site if you use it right, for what it's intended for.

Topic: Confessions
Posted: 07 May 2014 17:11

Okay, so, top 5 confessions...

1. I have 'severe' anxiety and 'moderately severe' depression to the extent that my doctor has told me it's a disability due to the impact on my day to day life.
2. I was born into naturism and bloody love it.
3. My family and friends think I met my husband on Plenty Of Fish but it was actually on FetLife.
4. I'm a nurse and I'm terrified of making a mistake at work and killing someone.
5. My mum died 12 years ago (when I was 12) and I sometimes still wonder if it was my fault.

Topic: What Pets Do You Have?
Posted: 07 May 2014 16:52

I have two little black cats and 16 fish, hopefully more fish to be added soon :)

Topic: The little things that turn you on...
Posted: 07 May 2014 16:42

Topic: The little things that turn you on...
Posted: 07 May 2014 16:42

Topic: The little things that turn you on...
Posted: 07 May 2014 16:41

Hands! Lovely, gorgeous, sexy, strong, dominating, controlling hands that caress, spank, tease, torture, choke... Watching my husband drive is enough to make me wild. His hands are just there, on display, for me to perv over and by the time we get I am invariable horny.

Topic: When was the last time you had sex? [BE HONEST]
Posted: 03 Mar 2014 16:47

Friday afternoon. Spent a long weekend with my in-laws which means sex is a no no :( Can't wait for the morning!

Topic: What's making you happy right at this moment???
Posted: 24 Feb 2014 15:45

Hubby has fallen asleep with his hand on my boob! It's okay- we were spooning with the intention of sleeping. Poor lamb had a three hour one on one job interview today, a bit of comforting breast seems to have settled him off nicely! Just wait until I wake him up tomorrow ;)

Topic: What's your favorite story catergory?
Posted: 24 Feb 2014 15:42

My top favourites are reluctance and BDSM- more specifically Daddy and little stories, although a reluctant little being forced into something by her Daddy Dom is the obvious winner!

Topic: What's your opinion on abortion?
Posted: 07 Feb 2014 05:13

My opinion on abortion is that is damn hard. The question of whether to get an abortion rarely occurs in any woman's life... Nowadays most people use precautions and are careful to avoid an unwanted pregnancy so the number of women who are in the situation that they would have to choose to kill their baby is low. Unless you've been the unlucky one you don't know how it feels to have to make that decision.

I had an abortion, June 22nd 2010 when I was 19. I did not want an abortion. Not at all. I sobbed as I signed the consent form for the surgery. I had been with my boyfriend for a year, we were living together and everything was going great. We were on holiday when I realised I hadn't had a period for a while and when we got home I took a pregnancy test. It was positive and I cried with joy. He walked into the bathroom and told me he'd drive me to the doctors the next morning so that I could arrange my abortion. I explained that I was crying because I was happy but he said he didn't want a child and if I decided to keep it then he would leave me and that he didn't want to talk about it anymore.

So- do you have an abortion, kill the baby growing inside you- your baby. Or, do you keep the kid, give birth alone, raise it as a single parent, live in poverty because you haven't completed your education as yet and therefore won't be able to get a good job, and at some point have to tell them that their father didn't love them, wanted them dead? It's a tough choice. Really tough.

We went to the doctors and she arranged for me to have a scan to date the foetus to decide what type of abortion I would need. I was 8 weeks and 3 days pregnant. I would need to have a D&C abortion, meaning I'd have to go to the day surgery unit rather than just take a tablet. She closed the curtain to allow me to get dressed in privacy while she let this news sink in. As I looked up I noticed she had left the picture on the screen- the picture of my baby. The baby I was about to kill. Seeing it made the situation a whole lot more real, a lot more scary and so much more upsetting.

I had my abortion at 9 weeks and 3 days pregnant. I was alone but for the nurses who helped me to sit up and have a drink after the operation. I was sore, I had sanitary towels covering my vagina as well as my bottom and I felt sick.

I tried to forgive my boyfriend for forcing me into a decision I wasn't happy with but just couldn't. We broke up two years after as I couldn't stand to look at him in the end. I know it wasn't all his fault and that I could have been a single mother and that lots of women do it successfully. But that's not what I wanted. Not for me and not for my baby. My parents divorced when I was five and I remember how tough it was on my mum having to look after us alone and how hard it was for me to miss my dad every single day.

I made what I thought was the right choice. Not the easy choice, but the right one. I have a stepson now who is four months younger than my baby would have been and every time I see him I wonder how my child would compare. It kills me. Still. And I know it always will. No child I have in the future will replace the one I aborted. But I made that decision for myself and my baby and our future.

Say what you will about me and my decision but please do empathise. Unless you've been there you have no idea how fucking hard it is. How hard that decision will ALWAYS be. I have to live with knowing what I did until the day I die and I have to convince myself I made the rigt choice every single day. So don't judge us all negatively. Please.

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Stories Published By kinky_girl

I wrote you a poem once It talked of what had gone and what was to come Of all the things I didn't know about you And of all the question I wanted answering That Saturday when I woke up It had gone My window was open I saw my hopes I saw my memories I saw our past I saw all those things that didn't last As they slowly drifted down Riding the wind on that piece of paper ...

Added 14 Aug 2012 | Category Love Poems | Votes 3 | Avg Score 5 | Views 666 | 3 Comments

The Adventures of Anastasia Sapere

I'm 18, I'm in my second year at 6th form and it's coming up to my final set of exams. I've applied to the best universities as my predicted grades are good but now I'm panicking I won't make the cut and it's all because of music. I have to do an exam on my chosen instrument which is fine, it's the written analysis paper that I'm not looking forward to. So, each morning I get in to school...

Added 31 May 2012 | Category BDSM | Votes 14 | Avg Score 4.43 | Views 4,339 | 8 Comments

An unusual night out

'Hey, how are you? Enjoying it so far?!' he asked embracing me and ruffling my hair.   'No, not in the least mate. End of the first and we're only up 1-0, what's all that about? We should be all over them!' 'Trust me, we'll win.' 'I hope so, see you later anyway I don't wanna miss the start of the second.' I went and took my seat for the beginning of the second period and tried to...

Added 19 Apr 2012 | Category Reluctance | Votes 25 | Avg Score 4.65 | Views 13,148 | 8 Comments

My First Time With a Girl

Holly and I had been friends for about 18 months. We'd been introduced by a mutual friend and the three of us got on really well. Holly and Si lived a few minutes apart and on the same bus route, so they used to make the twenty minute bus ride and the ten minute walk to my house together, usually two or three nights a week. We'd sit and eat ice cream and watch television or we'd go and sit out...

Added 29 Mar 2012 | Category Bisexual | Votes 33 | Avg Score 4.90 | Views 17,537 | 11 Comments

Sick day

I woke up at 8am to hear my fiance saying, "why does the clock say 8?" Shit, my alarm hadn't gone off again.. I really must remember to change the batteries! I got him to ring work and tell them that I wouldn't be going in. I was already two hours late. I slipped out of bed and went to the loo, admiring my handiwork from my shower yesterday in the mirror on the way back. I normally have short...

Added 12 May 2011 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 11 | Avg Score 4.64 | Views 7,280 | 10 Comments

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