I am currently working on my first story. I've never written anything before so I'm still getting a feel for it. I'm also a student, so between spending 9 hours a day in school plus studying at home it can be difficult to find time to work on my story and keep up with Lush. Also, guys: Don`t bother. You`re wasting your time. Aside from some literary feedback (once my story is finished) I`m not interested in anything sexual with you. Don`t try to send me a friend request without including a message. I don`t accept them. I am studying to be an esthetician so I do enjoy some girly things. I`m also something of a nerd, so I also enjoy most things fantasy or sci-fi related.
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Thanks! That's great advice. The main reason its so nerve racking for me is because up until this point monogamy has been very important to both of us. I find that I'm starting to move beyond that in a lot of ways. I'm secure enough in our relationship that I'm no longer threatened by the idea of us pursuing pleasure/gratification with other people. In fact I feel that if you love someone it would make sense for you to want them to pursue and experience that. And it hadn't really occurred to me that he might be excited by that.Who knows maybe it's something we could even do together... I guess all I can do is buck up and tell him how I feel and hope he understands. Thanks again <img src="/forum/images/emoticons/Lwinking.gif" alt="Lwinking">
Hello. I notice you're also new to Lush...Any thoughts/ideas on my current predicament?
So heres my situation: I am currently in a real life relationship with my boyfriend of 2 years. I love him very dearly. We have both been experimenting with the BDSM lifestyle for awhile now and were getting pretty into it. I am pretty satisfied with our sex life. However, I find myself craving something else, not instead of what we have now but in addition to it. I really, really want a mistress. Because we are both relatively new to the lifestyle I want a domme whos a little more experienced. also, being bisexual the idea of a dominant women excites me. I feel like an online thing might be a good way to explore this. My partner and I have very good communication between us and were pretty open but this is still a subject I'm afraid to broach...I wouldnt feel right doing anything behind his back....but I feel like if I don't do something about this then it will always be the unfulfilled fantasy in the back of my head that I keep to myself for fear of alienating the person I love....Any random thoughts or advice?
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