About LavenderGarden


I am a lover of sex. I will write some stories, but for now im looking. I am married. But I dont get it as much as i'd like. so here i am. i love talking dirty, but dont assume that i will talk dirty with everyone. i also like non sexual chat so if you just want to talk about life im good for that too. Sometimes i just need to talk about life. Please dont be pushy its a turn off. I also realize that I miss the chat messages and that maybe why i dont respond.

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i like to read, i make jewelry, watch tv ... the simple things.
Favorite Books:
the cider house rules by john irving
veronica by nicholas christopher
the time travelers wife by audrey neffenegger
Favorite Authors:
john irving
margaret atwood
neil gaiman
Favorite Movies:
notting hill
dead poets society
Favorite Music:
i love love love tori amos


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Topic: gentlemen, your advice please.
Posted: 07 Oct 2013 12:39

I think it's done. He is on that site to play and doesn't want things going any further, but he also wants to hold you in reserve in case he wants to play again.

which is what my friend said to me. that he is holding on because he might want to come back. i know its done.
which i went on to play calmly today and he found me and was kinda bothered i unfriended him. im just done with excuses and i think the world would be better if we just were open and honest.

i think we all know if you want it you make time for it.

Topic: gentlemen, your advice please.
Posted: 07 Oct 2013 07:32

Thanks guys!
I do believe you all gave me good advice.
i am so glad to get so many different perspectives of and see how many different viewpoints there are to one situation. From asking you guys I have now considered possibilities that i hadnt before. But i am standng my ground and just letting it go even if it does, i hate to admit, hurt a little.
Im ok so its not anything im going to lose sleepover.

Topic: gentlemen, your advice please.
Posted: 05 Oct 2013 10:46

thank you for replying.
i wont be extending any courtesies.

Topic: Ladies, please help me please my man!
Posted: 05 Oct 2013 07:06

i will say the pineapple juice is interesting i may have to have my man try that. i think cum is like the consistency of snot.
but do the cheating method thats what i would have suggested

Topic: Please help
Posted: 05 Oct 2013 07:02

im confused. if its no isnt it better to say it right away?

Topic: Who else loves fingering fun?
Posted: 05 Oct 2013 06:50

There's just something about it. I love get finger fucked. Just thinking about it makes me wet.

Topic: gentlemen, your advice please.
Posted: 05 Oct 2013 06:35

Thanks in advance for answering.

Here's my question/situation:

I have been having a flirtation with someone online for a few months. Started out as nothing and we got feelings. This is how it was: no one is leaving spouses, no one is in love but there are feelings. That is how we agreed it was.
Anyway, i have noticed that he doesnt email me much anymore and when he does its a laundry list of excuses of why. If I run into him on the site where we met its an active convo. I dont go much on there and I noticed that he doesnt go on there when I am on there or when he knows I can be. I notice he is on there late at night now.
I asked if there was someone else because if there is, then its fine . we are done and its over im ok with that. But he swears there is no one just the wife. im not convinced.

I sent him a dirty email. no response. i sent him an email about us getting on google hangout to chat no response. its done right?
do i just let it go and say nothing or email him a im walking away have a nice life?

I get it its an online thing but how can i tell whats really going on or will i never?

Topic: Girls do u really like having ur nipples played with?
Posted: 04 Oct 2013 07:01

yes yes yes.
do it i love it
sucked on
rub your cock on it
do it all.

Topic: If you were to get a divorce would you get married again?
Posted: 19 Sep 2013 07:35

If i found the person with the same sex drive, i'd marry them but that doesnt happen and so if i knew what i knew now i would not get married again. id just get a bf

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My Lover Knows

I'm waiting by the doorway of the hotel suite's bedroom. I can hear the electronic key card sliding and unlocking the door. My lover enters the room after a long day of work and a two hour drive to our secret place. He gives me the shy smile I have come to adore, as he places his suit jacket on the chair. I'm dressed in lingerie he bought me a month ago and sent to my work. He can't send it...

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