About Lightningrod1


I am a psychologist in training and by hobby, so I naturally gravitate towards conversations. I mean conversations as in genuine conversations, where I have an opportunity to understand you at least a little better, a pristine and rare chance to see what kind of person you are. I don't study people to judge them, but to understand them, out of pure curiosity. People, especially the chemistry between us that we call relationships, are magical and breathtaking. I want to spend my life watching people, understanding people, helping people understand themselves. After all, that is precisely what I've been dedicating my life to doing in respect to myself.

Try to remember, the entire point of life is to live and to make a positive impact on the fellow creatures we dwell with within the short lifespans gifted to us in our blessed lives. Cherish every moment, remember but don't hold onto the past, and prepare while worrying not about the future.

Hakuna Matata.

P.S. for Lush-related info, I of course love meeting new people and old friends alike, please feel free to say hello in my mail or chat rooms, I spend a lot of time in the rooms enjoying pics and talking to people. If we get to know each other well and find each other mentally and sexually stimulating, fate only knows where that will lead, and I certainly enjoy the occasional raunchy dialogue ;) However, this isn't what I'm here on lush for, I'm here to talk to people and read beautifully crafted stories. Same goes with pictures, I only exchange pics with people I've grown close to or trust sufficiently.

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20 May 2019 04:33
Reading science fiction and fantasy novels, watching sitcoms that make me laugh and cry, spending time with my dear friends, shmoking da ganja, playing with animals, walking or biking in nature, meditating, exercising & playing sports, writing stories and random thoughts, exploring and traveling, playing or listening to music, dancing to the rhythm of my soul, hugging, cuddling, eating delicious treats, sleeping, drinking, partying, living in the moment.
Favorite Books:
I've read fantasy novels since I was a child, filled with witches and wars.

Harry Potter, Brave New World, Ready Player One, Witch of Portobello, Summerland, Perfume, A Connecticut Yankee in King Arthur's Court, Game of Thrones series... I read a lot, honestly can't think of my favorite books.
Favorite Authors:
J.R.R. Tolkein, C.S. Lewis, Mark Twain, HG Wells...
I really just enjoy reading a variety of styles, especially interested in the fantasy and science fiction genres
Favorite Movies:
Lion King, Lord of the Rings, Boyhood (spectacular), Inside Out, A Beautiful Mind, How to Train Your Dragon, Perks of Being a Wallflower
Favourite TV Shows:
Friends, White Collar, Peaky Blinders, New Girl, One Piece, Bleach, Narcos, Suits, Grimm, Arrow, Peaky Blinders, Weeds, Stranger Things etc.
Favorite Music:
I primarily listen to alternative, like OneRepublic and The Killers, and hip-hop, because I enjoy dancing
Some rap and R&B when I'm in the mood (like Chance the Rapper, T-Pain, Trey Songz)
Chainsmokers, Mac Miller
Ever since stepping into the rave scene, I've caught back up with my electro roots and embraced my love for EDM.
Disney songs will hold an everlasting, precious spot in my soul.
Anything that gives me the urge to dance, sing, inspire, or create.


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11 Nov 2013
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Topic: Kiss, Drink. Date, or Fuck,......No Passing
Posted: 11 Feb 2019 22:16

Fuck. An adventurous, breathless, unending Fuck with nothing more and nothing less than pure animal instincts

Topic: In your view what is a difference between a girl and a woman?
Posted: 22 Aug 2018 22:44

A girl wants attention, a woman wants respect. A girl wants to be adored by many. A woman wants to be adored by one.

That pretty much covers it for me....I hope that helps?

I've been asking myself the same question, because I tend to use girl and woman to define different ladies I know, without realizing I was doing it. But wow, this is a great contrast in definition, I like it. I also would add that a girl seeks and relies on protection from others, while ladies know how to protect themselves, yet help others at the cost of their own safety or satisfaction.

Topic: Why did he cum so fast?
Posted: 22 Aug 2018 22:39

Most of the responses you've gotten are usually the reason...control issues, you're more amazing than you give yourself credit for, he'd wound himself up thinking about you before you even started. But in my personal experience, I've come very quickly before, even though I usually take a very long time, and it was because she wanted to blow me, but I just wanted to get out as quickly as possible, because in my mind at the time I had better things to do than spend time with this girl, who'd been annoying tf out of me the whole day. So, I played some mind games with myself and encouraged the lil man downstairs to finish his business as quickly as possible so I could move on and move out.

Topic: Do you guy like being rimmed and fingered
Posted: 22 Aug 2018 22:35

I haven't been fingered or rimmed before, but imagining it definitely turns me on. However, I quickly get turned off imagining being rimmed by some girls, so I think it depends on how comfortable I am with her. I mean, to be honest, think about how vulnerable it'd be to let some girl get down and dirty up my ass, I have to know her well and know she isn't about to laugh at the absurdity or something half way through. But if we're close or love fucking each other's brains out as filthily as possible, gawdamn it I'm having her shove her tongue and fingers all the way up there!

Topic: What do you first notice?
Posted: 22 Aug 2018 22:30

I notice different things with different girls. If I notice her ass first, I know I find her really attractive physically, but it ends there. If I notice her eyes first, along with her fine ass, then go back to looking at her eyes anyway, I know I want to make sweet passionate love with this woman every goddamn night and day.

Topic: Do Tattoo'd women turn you on?
Posted: 12 Dec 2017 03:33

I find a well placed tattoo with beautiful artistry and a background story that's emotionally charged and means something important enough to the person to justify making a permanent part of their bodies a very admirable and desirable aspect of their personality and appearance.

Topic: Guys do you prefer a girl completely naked or with something sexy on?
Posted: 12 Dec 2017 03:29

My answer mostly depends on my level of comfort with the lady. However, seeing her in something sexy that I can admire her in without the immediacy of sex on my mind is very stress relieving. I personally get riled up, perhaps too much, as foreplay and a higher degree of intimacy approaches, so seeing her in a semi state of undress in something very alluring to my eyes makes me feel comfortable enough to strip down to my boxers and sit back and enjoy the moment together. It's a natural break in the night that neither party has to feel awkward about, and instead it's a time of companionship as we both banter while fiddling clumsily with her bra strap or my jeans zipper, while also taking a plethora of mental images, of her undressing in lusty progressive stages, to last a lifeime.

Topic: How do men feel about red headed women?
Posted: 23 Dec 2014 16:47

Red-headed women are incredible. In my experience, they seem so demure, but once you reveal their subtle side, their lustful passions come out full force ;).

Topic: how much are you attracted to a woman's eyes?
Posted: 23 Dec 2014 16:43

The eyes are what catch my attention and hold me enthralled with her beauty. After all, the eyes are the windows into the soul. Especially a dirty, lustful soul.

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My Blueberry Nymph

One... two... three... four… I stared down at a crack on the floor with sweat running chills down the small of my back as I resolutely refused to focus any more attention out of my peripherals towards the girl, clothed in ass-sculpting black spandex shorts and tight blue tank top, who’d been honing her shoulder muscles with powerful presses next to me. Instead, I ground my teeth and...

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