Forum posts made by lilgirl1414

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 13 Aug 2016 07:53


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Posted 03 Aug 2016 18:21

light colored boots

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 30 Jul 2016 14:57

pink bra

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Posted 24 Jul 2016 14:36,fishnets,sexy,fashion,girl,portrait-456b4d33a26bd5e981076f24d1c7bf6a_h.jpg

fence net hosiery (not fishnet)

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 18 Jul 2016 17:59

black thong

Topic Orange Is the New Black
Posted 04 Jul 2016 15:00

Love this show too! And honestly it's really the first series I've watched outside of the mainstream (well it kinda is mainstream cause so many people love it lol but I mean mainstream as in "on cable tv" and this show definitely wouldn't pass in my opinion to be on cable tv).
I'd say my fav thing about the show is realizing the in-depth back stories to the characters. Yeah, they're criminals, they've done wrong, etc. But they're people with lives and other loved ones in their lives. (side note: and obviously some of the "crimes" like petty drug crimes don't fit the punishment of some of them & the fact that non-whites are punished more, and unfair treatment by the law, etc). It shows the humanity of the other side of the jail cell. And shows that unfortunately one wrong turn in life can send your ass to jail like that. Also, the struggle between drug addiction and the law.
And love that it's not censored.

Topic Do you tell your partner..
Posted 04 Jul 2016 15:00

Most of the time I do yup, I think it's super hot to say that to them, and vice versa.

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 04 Jul 2016 14:54

thigh tattoo

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 02 Jul 2016 13:00


Topic How many girls have performed oral on another girl.
Posted 02 Jul 2016 12:41

Yup I have, love it.

Topic Do you actually like anal sex?
Posted 02 Jul 2016 12:39

I love it when done right...and that's what people have to realize makes great or horrible anal sex. Whether you're a person who's never tried it and doesn't want to because of what you've heard, or someone who tried it and it wasn't done the right way.
Lots of preparation is needed. I won't write a blog piece about it, lotsa info online about it. But in the right position, with enough lube, and the anus is relaxed enough for it....OMG. So amazing.

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 29 May 2016 09:15

bright green panties or bikini bottom

Topic What time do you get up in the morning?
Posted 28 May 2016 11:00

7:15 on weekdays

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Posted 28 May 2016 10:59


Topic Should women wear heels when having sex
Posted 24 May 2016 17:12

Honestly, 98% of the time I have sex, I'm wearing heels. It would pretty much feel incomplete now not to wear them.

Topic What's making you happy right at this moment???
Posted 22 May 2016 19:34

Knowing I'll be flesh-to-flesh soon with my Dom <3

Topic Do you enjoy eating Pussy? or do you pass
Posted 22 May 2016 16:26

Absolutely love it, a clean smooth pink soft wet pussy & clit on my tongue mmmm...

Topic The Rage Cage
Posted 19 May 2016 18:40

I'm grateful that I'm in a good job now with good pay & benefits, I really am...
But fuck me if this job hasn't blatantly proven to me that we live in an extroverted world. I have always been an introvert (for the most part...and shy at times too....and yes there's a difference between shy & introverted). Science has fuckin proven that extroverts & introverts brains are wired differently... so please don't friggin judge me, dislike me, compartmentalize me because my mouth isn't going all freakin day. I am not a bitch because I'm quiet. Why can't I just come to work, do my work, exchange a few pleasantries during the day, and go home...without being considered "weird"? I swear some of my co workers only work there for the talk-talk-talk & occasional gossip.
I realize we all work in close quarters together, but can some of you just learn an appreciation for silence? There's nothing fucking wrong with it. I have NO desire to talk just for the sake of talking, saying empty words just to fill the silence. I small talk sometimes yeah, we all have to...but fuck me if I'm not sick and tired of hearing the same ol' ignorant comments such as:
You're so quiet...I never hear you...what's wrong?...You barely ever talk...oh I didn't even know you were here, I never hear you!...etc etc
Most of that comes from a fuckin whiny la-dee-da woman in her mid 50' of those people who's always making "harmless" making-fun-of comments to some other people with a grate-on-your-nerves annoying laugh.
Next time she makes her little comments to me I'd like to just look her in the eye and say "Yup I am quiet...always been and always will be. Do you think those comments push a magic invisible "talk" button on me? I don't need to mindlessly fill a silence with empty words just because you're uncomfortable with silence and reserved people. And you know what the funny thing is? By you making those comments - that makes me more quiet around you, more reserved. I'm not going to open up to someone who criticizes and makes fun of me. So you're created a catch 22 sweetheart..."
Don't get me wrong, I realize that sometimes small talk can lead to more friendships and learning more about others, making some connections etc. But it's the social construct of it all that I just can't "do". I've had very deep meaningful friendships and relationships and the close people in my life I value very much. But it's hard to create those connections/relationships in a work environment that you can't begin a "serious" conversation with's all small talk. It's not like I can turn to my co worker and it be considered normal for me to say "so... what do you think the meaning of life is? what are some of the hardest lessons you've had to learn? how has the path of life changed you over the years?" etc etc...that's the kinda conversations I'm interested in.
And it's funny again, or fucked up...I hear the words people are saying...the topics of conversation....but I just fuckin can't get in on them. And I'll admit it, hate to admit it...that I'm often jealous of some of those extroverts...the ones that can just so naturally fall into conversation all. I sometimes compare it to asthma/breathing problems... a healthy person/healthy lungs can easily inhale & exhale, it's natural, you don't think about it, you don't actively have to work to do it... that's like extroverts. Someone with breathing problems can't breathe "naturally" or normally like a healthy's a struggle. It feels like so much work to them, it's laborious, it can be awkward. Most importantly, effortless breathing/social skills do not come naturally to that person. And they shouldn't be penalized for it.

I apologize that this post isn't real rage-y like some others and I understand if it gets deleted....I just wanted to explain my way of thinking and feeling for this topic. I fucking hate that introverts are a minority, and fucking hate when people comment on it. It's like pointing out a giant zit to someone....yes I know it's there! You don't need to say the words aloud, especially in front of other fucking people and embarrass me! I embarrass easily enough, fuck off! And most of all....just don't friggin think that I'm a bitch or weird cause I'm quiet!! Some people comment on quiet people like "She's real quiet, but she's nice!" BUT....there ya go, automatic assumption that quiet people are not nice. There are plenty of damn extroverts, talkative, loud, etc that are NOT "nice" so stop fucking categorizing introverts with an automatic "oh mustn't be nice" label.
Oh and it also doesn't help that I work with a bunch of people whom 95% of them are married with kids. I'm not coming down on that....but they have to fucking realize that a lot of their conversations are centered around their kids. I can't participate in those convos, no kids here. And while I don't have a "boyfriend or husband" I have a Dom...not a relationship you can talk about around the water cooler. So they see me as single and not dating at all. There better not come more judgement over time for that I swear to fuck....

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 17 May 2016 19:52


Topic Are submissives very quiet people?
Posted 14 May 2016 21:39

For the most part, I am a quiet person (also submissive). However, it can sometimes depend on who I'm around and the social situation. If I'm with a few of my close friends I'm a regular-talk person. At work however, I'm pretty sure I'm the quietest one there amongst about 20-25 women (cubicle setting). It can sometimes suck because not everyone is accepting of quiet, introverted, and/or shy people (and yes there's a difference between shy & introverted, I just happen to be both sometimes). And my personality at work tends to not easily create friendships, which sometimes I long for when I look at other friendships there. As well, 95% of those women are married with kids, while I'm not. No kids, not married, "single" in their eyes, but I have a Dom...not exactly the kind of relationship you can talk about at the water cooler lol.
I don't think submissives can be put into a category of quiet or really depends on the sub. Some are quite extroverted, social, talkative etc. Some are not. Some of them are total opposites between their social/work life and their private life (aka in control at work, managing people, etc) while some may be similar between their public and private life. For example, I'm not in any kind of managerial position and would never want to be.
Anyway sorry for going off on a bit of a tangent.

Topic Music: What NOT to play at a Wedding Reception
Posted 03 May 2016 16:58

Never Again & Already Gone, by Kelly Clarkson

Topic Dirty Mind Test
Posted 01 May 2016 15:50

Score: 80

This probably isn't much of a shocker, but you've got a one-track mind! Either your hormones have taken over your brain or you're feeling deprived in some way, because s-e-x is the first thing that pops into your mind on almost any occasion. This may or may not be a problem, depending on the point to which your fantasizing takes over your mental processes - thinking about getting it on is a vital part of any healthy sex drive, but it can bring trouble when it's too extreme. As long as you are still able to shut off that part of your brain when need be (while working, for example), there's no cause for concern.

laughing6 bates kekekegay

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 01 May 2016 15:22

long fake nails

Topic Nipple clamps
Posted 01 May 2016 15:12

Sorry, I'll be the odd girl out here. I tried them once... never again. Now I wouldn't call myself a masochist perse, although I do love the pain from spankings/croppings/paddlings/floggings...but nipple pain I cannot do. Maybe I'm super sensitive in that area, I dunno. Agonizing pain that had 0% pleasure for me. And honestly, I shudder when I even see pics of nipples clamped.
Who woulda thunk with how kinky I am elsewhere lol...different strokes for different folks I guess :)

PS: however... I have cum (actually "cum") from having my nipples fingered/rolled between my partners fingers. Not twisting/yanking etc...but I actually did cum down there (with no touching down there) from simply having my nipples rolled between his fingers with just the right amount of pressure. So yeah yum :)

Topic What was your first sexual act
Posted 01 May 2016 05:25

Stroking and sucking a guy. On me, it was oral.

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 30 Mar 2016 17:28

long black gloves

Topic Things you don't understand even when they're explained to you.
Posted 30 Mar 2016 17:19

The 'greater than' and 'less than' signs....cannot comprehend. People have told me different cute ways of remembering them. lol ffs
< > > < there's a block in my head that will not let me understand the concept of this damn thing grr

Topic Saddest song.
Posted 20 Mar 2016 10:39
I think this song is so raw & heartbreaking...

among others:

Adele - Someone Like You
George Strait - Today My World Slipped Away
Travis Tritt - Tell Me I Was Dreaming
Avril Lavinge - Nobody's Home
Bruce Springsteen - Streets of Philadelphia
Clint Black & Martina McBride - Still Holding On
Kelly Clarkson - Already Gone & Because Of You
Live - Lightning Crashes
Nelly Furtado - All Good Things Come To An End
Pam Tillis - The River & The Highway
Paul Brandt - What's Come Over You
Reba McEntire - What Do You Say & And Still

to name a few..

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 20 Mar 2016 09:38

jeans with the top button undone

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 10 Mar 2016 19:42