Forum posts made by lilgirl1414

Topic Post the title most recent song that you listened to
Posted 03 Oct 2015 19:34

Sunny Came Home - Shawn Colvin

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 08 Sep 2015 18:48

Topic What's the biggest age difference between you and someone you had sex with?
Posted 08 Sep 2015 18:42

21 years...I was 21, he was 42.

Topic Someecards
Posted 22 Aug 2015 13:15

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 22 Aug 2015 12:49


Topic Would you take the test...
Posted 14 Aug 2015 17:08

90% Submissive
84% girl/boy
80% Ageplayer
76% Bondage receiver
68% Sadist
66% Masochist
62% Voyeur
60% Degradation giver
59% Experimentalist
54% Slave
54% Switch
52% Brat
48% Non-monogamist
45% Bondage giver
40% Primal (Prey)
37% Dominant
34% Pet
31% Exhibitionist
29% Master/Mistress
23% Vanilla
22% Brat tamer
22% All-Rounder
19% Owner
16% Degradation receiver
14% Daddy/Mommy
12% Primal (Hunter)

Topic First time calling a man Daddy
Posted 14 Aug 2015 16:29

Hilarious, since when are put downs and mud slinging "honest opinions"? Go tell this to the gays and lesbians after you finish telling them what twisted perverts you see them as being. Then, you can move on to those who are "into" feet or latex or... But hey, your spanking thing... why... there's nothing wrong with that, right? You have a right to FEEL whatever you please and do or NOT DO whatever you please. BUT, when you start chucking rocks you really need to make sure YOUR glass house is rock proof.


Topic Confessions
Posted 14 Aug 2015 15:51

1) I lost my virginity in a threesome
2) I've never had a vanilla relationship (ie: "boyfriend") and doubt I ever will.
3) I've been pretty much an introvert my whole life (and no that's not the same as being shy) and it's really only the past year or so I've accepted/embraced it (since we live in an extroverted world). In the past I used to try extra hard to make certain friends/get people to like me...not anymore. Don't like me? Don't care. It's extremely liberating.
4) I've never (not one single time) had sex naked
5) I'm a junk food addict, it's something that needs to be controlled
6) Crying is so therapeutic for me
7) I have to keep myself in check when it comes to road rage...wish I could just let stuff go with that
8) What I wouldn't give to have a job like Lee in the movie Secretary...
9) The closest I'll come to being a parent is having pets...the responsibility of children scares the crap outta me
10) I know most of us have probably gone through some sort of bullying in our lives during our school years, whether a little or a lot... but I used to have a major crush on a boy from school & a couple of years later he was one of my bullies. And honestly? I think it fucked me up royally in quite a few ways. (let's just leave it at that)...

Topic First time calling a man Daddy
Posted 12 Aug 2015 19:22

Sorry for my past half dozen replies to some other replies, just wanted to express my gratitude/agreements with those posters.
So to make a jot-notey reply here of my own, let's sum it up..
*Don't judge/criticize/shame/put down anyone who's into it just cause you aren't (sound like a broken record I know). I would never put down someone else's kinks just cause I'm not into them, as long as you're not hurting anyone.
*Calling a man Daddy during sex or whatever time in the relationship doesn't necessarily mean a girl has 'Daddy issues'. Please lol, how cliche.
*It doesn't mean it's connected to her father in any way shape or form. Like some others have said, it's a label for some partners... whether that be a Dom (in my case), a mentor, guider, protector, etc...who may also be your sexual partner.
*It most certainly doesn't mean either party is of the pedo-variety. 2 legal age consenting adults? Not pedo.
*I've had a 'Daddy Dom' for almost a decade. With the exception of the first few weeks of the relationship, I have always & only ever called him Daddy. That's just how it is, what feels natural to us, etc. It would actually feel outta place for me to call him by his real name. So yeah...vanilla isn't really for me lol. Daddy is a term of an endearment, a sign of respect, an extra label for his dominance, and a sexy label overall that we like (sexy meaning because we connect it to his dominance).
I don't care what other people think about it...I'll do what works for me, you do what works for you.

PS: I do agree that this is the kinda thing that should be talked about beforehand...not something to spring on someone in the middle of sex (ie: the girl calling him Daddy or him calling himself Daddy or telling her to call him Daddy, mid-coitus).

Topic First time calling a man Daddy
Posted 12 Aug 2015 19:03

I honestly don't see the big deal in it. I have in the past with a few men I've been with. Online and in person relationships. It doesn't happen in every relationship I'm in either. It all depends on how he makes me feel. I have a submissive side in me, but it doesn't come out to play for everyone I date. It just lingers there until she wants to come out. She's rather shy. It has nothing to do with biological daddy issues. I do not think of my father in any sense when I'm being sexual with a man I care and trust. That is just gross. I call him daddy because he protects me, he takes care of me and he loves me.

I certainly wouldn't suggest moaning it out the first time you have sex with a guy. You might want to talk to him about it. Some men might not be down for it at all. From what I've seen, most don't care. Though some do lie about it and say it's okay, only to find out later they didn't like it. It's their dumb-ass fault for lying.

So yeah, just learn how to communicate with your lover. If you can fuck em', you can talk to em'. Simple as that.

Ditto ditto, fuckin ditto! Thank you.

Topic First time calling a man Daddy
Posted 12 Aug 2015 19:01

Putting the question in context and for many who don't know this, Daddy isn't just something you start calling your boyfriend during sex. It is a term given from a submissive to a dominant as a sign of respect and maybe even reverence. It is a part of a lifestyle and a relationship that is typically clearly defined and not just a term endearment as some of you seem to think. (Although within the relarionship it could feel like an endearing way to address your Dom).

Once it is put into context my answer would be that in the right relationship, Daddy works. And using it is typically agreed upon by both parties way before sex is involved.

Thank you, yes.

Topic First time calling a man Daddy
Posted 12 Aug 2015 18:59

People who live in glass houses AND that it's no different than putting down LESBIANS and BI's or male HOMOSEXUALS.. There is difference between saying "That's not my thing" and a put down.

Hit the nail on the head!

Topic First time calling a man Daddy
Posted 12 Aug 2015 18:58

calling someone daddy is a term of respect ..a daddy in the d/s world refers to a caregiving loyal teacher nurturing protecting .. teaching respect and loyalty and obedience .. not everything about is of a sexual nature .. so if it is your thing good ..if not good too ..

So true; some people have to turn everything into a sexual perversion.

Topic First time calling a man Daddy
Posted 12 Aug 2015 18:57

I could get into a very long deep discussion about this , but I will save my breath ,because I see WE as baby girl/littles have already been judge by PEOPLE that obviously have never experienced a Daddy/Baby girl relationship. All I will say is until you do. Dont call us names and or judge something you know NOTHING about!

Thank you. Ditto.

Topic First time calling a man Daddy
Posted 12 Aug 2015 18:56

hmm - interesting that daddy would weird people out but being called 'baby', 'little slut' or 'sexy girl' (etc etc) doesn't bother many women in the same way.

Couldn't have said it better myself.

Topic what are u watching on tv?
Posted 07 Aug 2015 17:52

I don't really watch tv perse, but as for netflix... really into Witches of East End and just started to watch Once Upon a Time. Love mythical shows like that, great escape.

Topic Which is the more intimate act?
Posted 03 Aug 2015 18:14

While I agree with others here that intimacy has more to do with the people involved and the feelings, etc... I do think there's a certain level of intimacy that's higher with some acts than with others.
To me, kissing is very intimate, and personal. My Dom and I have occasionally been with other girls together...and I have no prob at all watching him bang another woman...but kiss her? The green eyed monster comes alive within me. I don't want him to kiss other women.
I think oral (on a ahead and judge me or call me anti feminist if you want lol) can very intimate as well.
I'd say anal next...then vaginal last. Not that it's 'not' intimate, that's just my ranking and my opinion.

Topic Ever fallen in love with someone you can't have?
Posted 29 Jul 2015 15:38

Yup and it sucks. That is all.

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 19 Jul 2015 17:19

Beggin for Thread - Banks

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 19 Jul 2015 14:44 Girls_hot-rod-pin-up-girls-05.jpg

polka dots

Topic If you were forced to wear a warning label, what would yours say?
Posted 19 Jul 2015 14:39

Warning: keep your distance if you're looking for vanilla.

Topic What is the best song to have sex to?
Posted 17 May 2015 18:13

that was like a ready made bucket list lilGirl1414, thanks for sharing :)

for me, if it is a romantic setting, soft, tender, but build to passion? I say "Bolero" by Maurice Ravel.

more intense, well there are many to choose from.

Heh, well I have specific playlists on my comp and I just opened them up and typed away here. Music is my porn kekekegay
I just looked up Bolero, very nice.

Topic How many guys have you had sex with?
Posted 16 May 2015 17:47

The more the better lol? I prefer quality over quantity... not saying if you've been with many men that they weren't good..but don't think just cause someone's been with many men that it's been great. Other than giving a bj to one other man, I've only ever fully been with one man, my Dom. Been with several girls.

Topic Describe yourself in one word
Posted 13 May 2015 18:49


Topic What's the one word that pops into your mind when you see the avatar above you?
Posted 12 May 2015 19:08

Happy (in love kind)

Topic What is the best song to have sex to?
Posted 12 May 2015 19:06

I love this topic ;) I'm a huuuuge lover of music during sex. Everyone has their preferences of course; some like the more romantic music, some naughty n nasty. I tend to lean more towards the latter heh. I have a specific sex playlist on my comp...and some are good for spankings too mmm, and just dirty dancing.
So without further ado, here's my list (which I hope people will like and consider for their next sexy time...I will also look up some of the songs here that I haven't heard of, nice)...

Banks - Waiting Game
Banks - Begging for Thread (Banks is a very sexy singer..)
Beyonce - Crazy in Love remix; from 50 shades of grey. Love or hate the movie...cmon that song is sexxxy!
Beyonce - Haunted (again, 50 shades soundtrack)
Madonna - Erotica
Madonna - Justify my love
Nine Inch Nails - Closer
Dulli - Somebody Needs You (any 'sex and the city' watchers? the song in the background when charlotte and harry first kiss in his friend's apartment that he's showing her...daaaamn hot song)
Fiona Apple - Criminal
The Devlins - World Outside
The Smiths - How Soon Is Now
The Prodigy - Smack My Bitch Up
Mecca Kalani - Feel Me (more of a romantic one)
Digital Daggers - Spark (romantic as well)
*there's a dance scene in the underground in the Matrix Reloaded, & Neo & Trinity have sex, just look up "matrix reloaded dance Zion scene"... the music (no lyrics) is hot hot hot*
Chris Issak - Wicked Game (cmon, a classic)
Kings of Leon - Closer
Kings of Leon - Sex on Fire
Aaliyah - Rock Da Boat
TLC - Red Light Special
Monifah - Touch It
Alyssa Reid - The Dark Side
Ginuwine - Pony
LL Cool J - Hey Lover
Toni Braxton - You're Makin Me High
T.I. - Whatever You Like
Paula Abdul - My Love is for Real
Skrillex - First of the Year (Equinox). (this is a pretty specific genre of a song, not everyone will like it..the beat/rhythm is great for some marathon sex though)

There's my go-to list, thanks for reading :d/

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 02 May 2015 19:47

Topic What did you have for lunch today?
Posted 09 Mar 2015 18:09

Stuffed salmon and lemon water, with some pesto spinach crackers and hummus