Forum posts made by lilgirl1414

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 19 Jul 2015 17:19

Beggin for Thread - Banks

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 19 Jul 2015 14:44 Girls_hot-rod-pin-up-girls-05.jpg

polka dots

Topic If you were forced to wear a warning label, what would yours say?
Posted 19 Jul 2015 14:39

Warning: keep your distance if you're looking for vanilla.

Topic What is the best song to have sex to?
Posted 17 May 2015 18:13

that was like a ready made bucket list lilGirl1414, thanks for sharing :)

for me, if it is a romantic setting, soft, tender, but build to passion? I say "Bolero" by Maurice Ravel.

more intense, well there are many to choose from.

Heh, well I have specific playlists on my comp and I just opened them up and typed away here. Music is my porn kekekegay
I just looked up Bolero, very nice.

Topic How many guys have you had sex with?
Posted 16 May 2015 17:47

The more the better lol? I prefer quality over quantity... not saying if you've been with many men that they weren't good..but don't think just cause someone's been with many men that it's been great. Other than giving a bj to one other man, I've only ever fully been with one man, my Dom. Been with several girls.

Topic Describe yourself in one word
Posted 13 May 2015 18:49


Topic What's the one word that pops into your mind when you see the avatar above you?
Posted 12 May 2015 19:08

Happy (in love kind)

Topic What is the best song to have sex to?
Posted 12 May 2015 19:06

I love this topic ;) I'm a huuuuge lover of music during sex. Everyone has their preferences of course; some like the more romantic music, some naughty n nasty. I tend to lean more towards the latter heh. I have a specific sex playlist on my comp...and some are good for spankings too mmm, and just dirty dancing.
So without further ado, here's my list (which I hope people will like and consider for their next sexy time...I will also look up some of the songs here that I haven't heard of, nice)...

Banks - Waiting Game
Banks - Begging for Thread (Banks is a very sexy singer..)
Beyonce - Crazy in Love remix; from 50 shades of grey. Love or hate the movie...cmon that song is sexxxy!
Beyonce - Haunted (again, 50 shades soundtrack)
Madonna - Erotica
Madonna - Justify my love
Nine Inch Nails - Closer
Dulli - Somebody Needs You (any 'sex and the city' watchers? the song in the background when charlotte and harry first kiss in his friend's apartment that he's showing her...daaaamn hot song)
Fiona Apple - Criminal
The Devlins - World Outside
The Smiths - How Soon Is Now
The Prodigy - Smack My Bitch Up
Mecca Kalani - Feel Me (more of a romantic one)
Digital Daggers - Spark (romantic as well)
*there's a dance scene in the underground in the Matrix Reloaded, & Neo & Trinity have sex, just look up "matrix reloaded dance Zion scene"... the music (no lyrics) is hot hot hot*
Chris Issak - Wicked Game (cmon, a classic)
Kings of Leon - Closer
Kings of Leon - Sex on Fire
Aaliyah - Rock Da Boat
TLC - Red Light Special
Monifah - Touch It
Alyssa Reid - The Dark Side
Ginuwine - Pony
LL Cool J - Hey Lover
Toni Braxton - You're Makin Me High
T.I. - Whatever You Like
Paula Abdul - My Love is for Real
Skrillex - First of the Year (Equinox). (this is a pretty specific genre of a song, not everyone will like it..the beat/rhythm is great for some marathon sex though)

There's my go-to list, thanks for reading :d/

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 02 May 2015 19:47

Topic What did you have for lunch today?
Posted 09 Mar 2015 18:09

Stuffed salmon and lemon water, with some pesto spinach crackers and hummus

Topic Annoying things that people say
Posted 14 Feb 2015 11:41

Literally - when meant figuratively. Mostly said by teens. Drives me nuts. "Omg I literally died when she said that to me!" Wow, did you? You're doing pretty good then for a dead person since you're here talking to me Brick wall
Also, improper grammar. That could be a loooong post lol, but a big example? "That don't matter." That may seem small, but I fucking hate it lol, I just want to scream "Doesn't! That doesn't matter! Not don't!"

Topic Spanking: Yes, but how hard?
Posted 14 Feb 2015 11:33

Love spanking sessions. Tied up, spanked/flogged/cropped, etc. Sometimes can be a love/hate thing lol. But mostly love. Not a fan of the stinging (crops), like more the hands and floggers. Definitely want my ass reddened. And the aftercare...pure bliss...

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 03 Feb 2015 18:18

In a few mins will be listening to a rain playlist on falling asleep to the sound of rain, thunder mixed in is even better

Topic Do you prefer to wax or shave your pussy or have it nicely trimmed.
Posted 02 Feb 2015 17:22

I've shaved bare for almost 15 years. Never waxed, though I would like to try that.

Topic Do you like having your hair pulled during sex?
Posted 31 Jan 2015 17:54

Pulling/tugging yes, not yanking. And if I'm in a kinky, uninhibited mood then yes yum

Topic Escort services
Posted 26 Jan 2015 15:08

Many loopholes around it (and depends where you live). Some say it's the actual solicitation that's illegal, then also another loophole is that they're selling only their time and what goes on between consenting adults behind closed doors is no one else's business. So yah, many ways around it.

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 26 Jan 2015 14:55


Topic Would you consider LUSH to be a porn site?
Posted 26 Jan 2015 14:53

I wouldn't consider it 'porn'. Sexual? Of course. Kinda the difference of a nightclub and a brothal; nightclub you go there for fun and maaaybe some sexual action. Brothal being straight-up go there for sex. That's my analogy anyway.

Topic Teen/20 Something or DILF?
Posted 21 Jan 2015 18:32

Definitely older. Since my early teens I've preferred older guys (30 now). Was never even much into guys my own age. Never know, maybe when I'm 50 I'll want a 30 year old lol.

Topic Teen/20 Something or DILF?
Posted 21 Jan 2015 18:30

Definitely older. Since my early teens I've preferred older guys (30 now). Was never even much into guys my own age. Never know, maybe when I'm 50 I'll want a 30 year old lol.

Topic Teen/20 Something or DILF?
Posted 21 Jan 2015 18:29

Definitely older. Since my early teens I've preferred older guys (30 now). Was never even much into guys my own age. Never know, maybe when I'm 50 I'll want a 30 year old lol.

Topic Teen/20 Something or DILF?
Posted 21 Jan 2015 18:27

Definitely older. Since my early teens I've preferred older guys (30 now). Was never even much into guys my own age. Never know, maybe when I'm 50 I'll want a 30 year old lol.

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 11 Jan 2015 14:29

Topic Five letter word - change only one letter
Posted 11 Jan 2015 14:24

Deals - meals

Topic Chest/ body hair
Posted 10 Jan 2015 20:20

I think it depends both on the hair and the chest. Gotta say, I prefer smooth/hairless, but if he's hairy I much prefer that his skin has at least some tan to it...sorry, just don't like the white skin/chest hair look. And muscle doesn't hurt either. Ideally if there is hair, it's only on his chest and forearms. I know we grow hair with no control of our own (we only control shaving/waxing it like so many women have to do), but don't like the hairy back/upper arms/tummy/ass.

Topic Fat People -Thick or what!
Posted 10 Jan 2015 20:14

I couldn't have said it better myself, that was a perfect response...hits the nail on the head.

I have never had a weight problem and in some circles I may seem a little obsessed with staying in shape.

Having said that, I think it's important to remember that the goal of the show that you were watching was
to sensationalize an extreme example of the situation in order to get viewers. Being overweight is not symbolic
of a lack of intellect or even in some cases (and I do stress some) it is not even associated with laziness. In some
circumstances, if someone is on certain medications it affects the rate of metabolism. Often it lowers it dramatically,
especially if the person already has a low metabolism. Weight loss can be attained but it is extremely difficult. Thyroid problems can also wreck havoc on a person's metabolism and grossly encourage the development of fat within the body. Some people inherit the tendency to be obese. life in general is just hard, everyone has an outlet whether they admit it or not. For some it is food. Admittedly, eating is fun and a stress reliever for many. So like with any other addiction it takes more than just the desire to lose weight, it's a whole restructuring of the mental concept of food. It's like someone being Bipolar. You can't just say you need to behave and think that's going to solve the problem.

I guess my point is to not judge.

However, I will add that in today's society, regardless of the situation,
everyone has access to information about health and weight loss. No situation
makes it impossible for you to control your weight. You do have to want to. Just,
for some it isn't just a battle, it's a full time fight to the death type of war with less soldiers
than the other side has.

Topic Are women visually turned on like us guys are?
Posted 09 Jan 2015 15:04

While women and men may not be on even fields when it comes to being visual, if a woman says shes not at all visual, then she's sexually dead in my view lol, c'mon. Sommmmmething visual has gotta create some kinda spark ladies...
I'm visual... I can definitely appreciate men and women's bodies, whether it's a sexy butt, shapely hips/waist, legs, smile, eyes, hair, lips, etc etc. Women may be more discreet when checking people out, but on some level we do.
Some things I notice regarding men (when talking about 'checking out')... his walk, stance, curve of his shoulders/back muscles, arms, fingers, width of his hands, smile and eyes, waistline/the way his belt looks around his waist, ass, shoes. Oh, and cologne lol mmmmmm!!
And regarding more intimate moments.. love looking at how his arms flex when he's holding himself above me and his pec muscles. The curve/muscle along his neck when his head is held back in passion, the way his back muscles shift when he's shirtless and moves a certain way, the look of the veins in his forearms, the line of his jaw in his side profile, how his lips move/curve with whatever kinda way he smiles (happy/funny smile, a grin, leer, closed-mouth up curve in amusement, etc). Wow I'm getting really detailed lol, so yes women can certainly be visual ;)

Topic Road Head
Posted 09 Jan 2015 14:54

I know you asked about people 'receiving' and I'm answering about giving, and sorry to rain on people's parades, but I want to answer. I've never given and will never give oral while someone is driving a car, way too risky. As some people here have said, they almost wrecked. The possibility of killing someone (anyone) is not worth a freakin' orgasm. There are lots of risky, thrilling activities people shouldn't do, this is one of them. At most, I have lightly stroked a guy while he was driving...and I always took notice of his notice of the road...if/when I sensed his focus straying, I'd move my hand away. I don't care about ruining the moment, I'm not gonna possibly ruin someone's life. All it takes is a split second...same with texting, calling, eating, or whatever else you're doing while driving that's taking your focus away. Too many people have been hurt and/or killed by inattentive drivers. Again, sorry for raining on the parade, but it had to be said. Don't be stupid...

Topic Post the title most recent song that you listened to
Posted 09 Jan 2015 14:50

Spark - Digital Daggers