Forum posts made by lilgirl1414

Topic If you agree for a Threesome and given option of FFM or FMM , which would you opt ? why ??
Posted 27 Jun 2017 15:43 of both worlds mmm

Topic Have you ever fucked two different people in a day?
Posted 27 Jun 2017 15:42

If 3somes count then yes lol

Topic Last time you swallow cum?
Posted 27 Jun 2017 15:42

10 days ago

Topic Dirty talk during sex
Posted 12 Mar 2017 15:42

I LOVE dirty talk, it's actually one of my biggest turn ons. It needs to grow with the mood though. Ideally I like for things to start off more sensual and romantic and turn more dirty and that includes the talking.

When I'm in that rough, dirty mood I love almost anything.

Slut, whore, fuck toy, etc. I love the word "my" in front of those. "My slut"... I enjoy the ownership.

I like combining the soft with the dirty like "my beautiful little fuck toy"

And I love using words like cock, pussy, dick, cunt. Telling me what you are and are going to do to me. "You like when your little cunt is full of my thick cock don't you princess." Kinda thing.

Bingo. We're twins on this lol. I def agree with the "my" in front of those words. Def "my" instead of just "a" in "a slut, a whore" etc, I'm not a fan of that.
Also, tone of voice is very important. With dirtier/more graphic talk, tone can sometimes easily get hard/harsh, but if the tone is a made a little softer it can make a big difference.

Topic You just won the lottery...what's your first BIG purchase
Posted 14 Feb 2017 09:16

After the typical "buy a nice size house", I'd buy a large condo with a custom built dungeon in my Dom's city mmmm.

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 07 Feb 2017 18:58

30 Seconds to Mars

Topic Have you ever watched or had someone watch you have sex ?
Posted 07 Feb 2017 15:46

Yes and yes...and hope it happens again :P

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 29 Jan 2017 07:30

black & white polka dot pattern

Topic What's for dinner tonight?
Posted 08 Jan 2017 12:18

Mushroom ravioli and Pour Wine

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 04 Jan 2017 16:07

shorts/pants/etc pulled down below ass

Topic Do you prefer Red or White wine??
Posted 27 Nov 2016 13:01

I like white, but I love red.

Topic This is to all the submissives
Posted 12 Nov 2016 16:40

I want/need the Daddy Dom (thankfully I have one). A man who knows who he is (doesn't change/bend to other peoples' wills...just "this is who I am, take it or leave it") and of course secure and confidant in who he is. Obviously "who he is" shouldn't be an asshole lol. Confidence is a no brainer, even some cockiness is sexy, as long as it's not the kind that puts down anyone else or is ignorant.
Someone who knows how to adapt to other people (this doesn't mean changing themselves like I mentioned earlier). It simply means he's able to communicate and possibly make a connection with different kinds of personalities...meaning acceptance and absence of ignorance for different kinds of people.
Someone who can discuss/debate things with an open mind and be articulate. Respect for other views even if he doesn't agree with them.
Someone who knows he's sexy and can utilize that in his sex life with his partner/sub, to make her melt. But his sexual attractiveness also carries over into everything (even the most mundane daily things) while he doesn't even know it. ie: watching him fry bacon is sexy. But a sub who finds her ultimate Dom should feel that quality in him anyways, even if he doesn't realize he possesses it.
And most importantly (and probably the most tricky) when it comes to being a proper Dom...knowing that while domination means taking/having a lot of control, there's still consent involved. This is why crystal clear communication is needed when it comes to boundaries and limits. Being a Dom doesn't mean doing whatever you want whenever you want, but the relationship is a finely tuned and timed coalescence of the Dom and sub.

Topic First time same sex, was it planned?
Posted 12 Nov 2016 15:32

Very planned

Topic being watched
Posted 11 Nov 2016 15:33

I've always had an exhibitionist streak, a huge turn on. I'm more turned on being watched in a sexual environment (ie: fetish club) than a more mundane realistic one though.

Topic What food are you craving right now?
Posted 08 Nov 2016 19:23

pepto bismol for the election coverage lol and I'm not even American!

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 08 Nov 2016 17:36

dark woods

Topic Post the title most recent song that you listened to
Posted 08 Nov 2016 15:18

Beggin for Thread - Banks

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 06 Nov 2016 16:59

hand on front of thigh

Topic The Rage Cage
Posted 06 Nov 2016 15:56

I cannot fucking stand people who treat me differently just because I don't have a vanilla relationship (aka single to the vanilla world) and/or are childfree. People who purposely leave me out of things/conversations etc because of that fact...oh I'm sorry, just cause I'm not married with a baby on my hip looking out at my white fucking picket fence, that means you can't even have a fucking conversation or lunch with me? If all you can fucking talk about is your kids then you're the fucked up one, not me. There's more to life than that....whatever happened to connecting with someone because of who they are and not what their marital/kid status is? Seriously jesus fucking christ......

Topic What do you call...
Posted 01 Nov 2016 15:39

If a woman is a Cougar - Whats wrong with a Tiger for a man.
I know a few girls who prefer a much older man - unfortunately one calls her lover - her Daddy. He isnt - but thats life.

Nothing wrong with the Daddy thing ;) doesn't mean it has anything to do with her father or that she has Daddy issues, I should know. ;)

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 01 Nov 2016 11:45

sharp black eyeliner

Topic Face Sitting
Posted 18 Oct 2016 15:32

Exactly. I think though, if the Dominant were being more leading, perhaps with his hands on hips, gripping tight, guiding some of the movement, that might work. And when coming, if he were to hold you down so you can't move and force you to take more, that would be his control.

That's my My 2 cents, anyway. :)

Another great point! It's not always the position, but how the Dom is controlling said position. Spot on;)

Topic Why the big hate on for ladies hosiery?
Posted 16 Oct 2016 15:58

My Dom has a pantyhose fetish and so do I. I can understand how some women find them uncomfortable, however you have to realize that if you're buying cheap drugstore pairs then you get what you pay for lol. I've worn some of the best qualities and they are oh so sexy, and comfortable too.

Topic Your guy's pubic style
Posted 16 Oct 2016 09:57

Mine has always been shaved and I love it that way. Trimmed would be fine too. Doubt I'd be into the full natural style, but whatever floats your boat. I prefer smooth.

Topic Face Sitting
Posted 16 Oct 2016 09:53

My favorite way to get oral sex is to be giving it at the same time. This usually has me on the bottom, because I love the submissive feel of it. Perhaps I'll switch it up next time, though. It would certainly let me work more on his cock.

Face sitting on its own, meh. It's too dominant a position for me. Maybe with the right guy. That's one time I wouldn't mind being topped from the bottom.

I feel the same way, about face sitting being too dominant a position. My Dom and I have recently been doing that and he actually loves me sitting on his face, but I do feel it's too dominant for me. In a roundabout submissive way, I have to think about it as in 'I'm being submissive to him cause he likes this', but I myself would much prefer lying back or being the one on the bottom.

Topic For girls who like to be choked during sex.
Posted 16 Oct 2016 09:46

Like some others have said here, I like hands around my neck holding tight, but not actual choking. I mainly like it during D/s play when my Dom has me restrained and is spanking/paddling me and he puts a hand around the front of my neck/throat and holds tight with some squeezing. Coupled with whispers in the ear and kisses, it's heaven.

Topic Today in songs (post a song representing your mood)
Posted 16 Oct 2016 09:38

Topic Challenge - Ruin a First Date in 4 Words
Posted 13 Oct 2016 15:26

I support Donald Trump

Topic Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted 02 Oct 2016 18:39

Apologise to me for once

Topic Post the title most recent song that you listened to
Posted 01 Oct 2016 20:26

Call Me When You're Sober - Evanescence