08 Jan 2012 07:14
Agreed things to mail out in general are fading out........ email for everything.
Big Brother wants to watch us all.
Topic Word Scramble
11 Dec 2011 06:18
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Topic nudity in the house
03 Dec 2011 16:15
Nude at home is so relaxing a lot of time though a tanktop and panties are main home clothing
Topic Addicted to Lush
30 Oct 2011 11:52
oh I am so addicted to this place. Some friends opened a chat so I was still able to chat but I was home also checking every hour or so til it came back.
Topic BDSM 101
22 Aug 2011 08:13
Ok i am a sub and someone has asked me to comment so i will give a run down of my opinion on this whole thing. I am kind of new to this and it took me little while to find someone that fit. I agree you should not jump into a dom/sub relationship. i learned it takes a little time for that bond to grow. You have got to know each other some to be able to give that control to your Dom it doesn't happen overnight. To me it is better if you have a mutual respect and true caring for that person.
I also agree that the sub does have the power really the idea is you choose your Dom, you give over that control and yes no one else has that right to correct or discipline you as a sub/me, excepy my Master. Anyone that knows me knows I do not behave as the typical sub but that is a part of me and also why we work because although I am his he knows I need to be silly and have fun and act a little crazy, so he gives me my space to do so keeping an eye on me at the same time. I play around a lot asking things I know the answer to just to test him. My Master humors me a lot online but when he has enough he does stop it. Sometimes I do cross the line and we deal and I understand my limits a lil more after we discuss it and after my punishment. The rules i have were agreed on mutually and yes they are to make me better a lot of them are things I want to be better at in my life and having my Master remind me of that with the rules I have helps me achieve that better, and when i slip up which does happen a lot i tell on myself. It is about trusting my Master, I don't want to disappoint him but I do mess up and he should know by me not by someone else. If someone else has to tell on me we have no trust is how I feel. I knew what I was doing when I did it I agreed to the rules and there is a consequence.
Punishments are depending on wht was done but I do agree it is not the ones involving a bit of pain that are the worst. It is knowing the disappointment I caused or feeling that i am making my Master do something he does not want to do knowing I know better than that. That hurts more than any painful punishment in my opinion. Or when something I want is taken away that hurts more than any spanking. It does make me think about what I have done more so than a quick punishment.
Just as Tager said a sub does desire structure and control and that is what my Master offers me besides other things. Honestly even though I have had others he has been my Master a while even before I and he knew he was. In the beginning whenever I had questions or was curious or just wanted to feel loved and safe it was him I looked to for that not the people I claimed to be with. So because of that I realized this is a complex thing not just some quick choice. I love my Master and I know he loves me and is those feelings weren't there I would never listen. The key is I chose to submit to him.
So really all this is different for everyone but if looking you should always choose a Dom you are comfortable with never be scared of him don't choose hastily because that can lead to dangerous paths but look for someone who will guide you to a safe direction maybe telling you the things you do not want to hear but should improve it may make you a better individual and maybe that person can help you achieve what you want also forming a bond that is like no other.
I know my description seems a lil personal but everybody has to form their own idea here and work it the best way they can online in real wherever this is whole thing goes as far as you want it to.