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Topic: Have you ever cum in your pants?
Posted: 05 Jan 2014 17:12

You mean by accident because the moment was so thrilling I was overwhelmed? It has happened twice. The first time, I younger, and I saw a nudie book that had full-frontal nudity (this was the 70's). I was a hyperhorny bronkin' buck of an unnamed age, but it took all of 10 seconds for the fun.

The second time was when I was anticipating my first threesome when I was 20, I came when one of the two girls and I kissed before stripping.

Since then, I've purposefully cum when driving, knowing I was going to be home for a shower. Thank god I wasn't in an accident and killed, I really would have died of embarrassment!

Topic: Would you really say no?
Posted: 05 Jan 2014 02:10

Is this a trick question? <img src="/images/emoticons/regaeman.gif" alt="Regaeman Man">

I go with LasarDaddy's answers 100% in any case.

Now ask me if you want me to cash your winning lottery ticket because you don't want to pay the taxes, or you're too drunk to drive to the lottery redemption point.

Topic: Can online relationships be significant or meaningful?
Posted: 04 Jan 2014 23:02

While it's a fair question, their can be more than one answer, depending on the significance of the relationship.

I am generally attracted to people on their attitude and their demeanor, as well as their "purported" looks. Well, we all are visual people, but in general looks and attitude are remarkably similar. Online, especially with strangers, we tend to be able to be very candid about our lives, especially our sexuality, in such a way that we can rarely be with people we know, live with, or are even friends with in real life.

So basically, attractions that occur emanate not only from lust, but our desire to be with someone who knows our deepest secrets. This is a different dynamic of attraction that would occur through conventional means, that is, being more closed about most things, then gradually opening up.

Then there is the human need to connect. It's one thing to share passionate, intimate secrets, by typing (and masturbating), but it's completely different to be reciprocated by a human sense, either through hearing (by voice or on the phone), by vidcam, or finally, in person.

But what happens when people meet in person is that it tranforms the online dynamic to a real world dynamic, with all the inherent issues that result from meeting in the CONVENTIONAL manner. This is where a lot of relationships that started and maintained online, long distance, may fall apart.

In my case, I don't have relationships with people online, but I do have friendships. But they aren't the types of friendships that are the same as the ones I have in real life. For instance, I would loan a real life friend, say, a thousand dollars. But an online friend, who I may share more intimate moments or passions, I would balk at such a loan.

So the short answer is, yes, online relationships can be significant, even meaningful, but ultimately, that type of relationship for me would have to evolve into real life for it to be pertient, otherwise, it's an online friendship. Great for ego boosting, great for an incredible libido enancer, but ultimately, not good for full relationship status.

Topic: How often do guys masturbate? (really)
Posted: 04 Jan 2014 20:01

If I'm not going to date within a couple of days, I usually do it in the shower every morning, and once in bed every night. The shower is for relief, while the bed is more a fantasy time which entails more details and more time. As I'm pushing 50, I'm not a gumball machine, so I have to bide my time.

But when I know I am going to date, I want to be sure I can perform at least four times during the entire course of the date. If I masturbate, say, on the morning of a date, then I'd have to spend a lot more time on cunnilingus. On the other hand, that may not be a bad thing...

Topic: Straight Guy in a gay bar: You go in, not realising it is a gay bar, and get hit on.
Posted: 04 Jan 2014 19:57

I have gay friends, and we drink in both gay and straight bars, so there is no real difference to me because I am known in the ones I go to. Since they know me as straight, there is definitely a polite understanding for the most part, as I find in my experiences that even if a gay man is attracted to me, they won't go beyond a certain limit. While synonymous with women being hit on by straight men, the difference is that most gay men will NOT do anything more to attract a straight man, while in the straight man being rebuffed by a gay woman, he will more than likely make an ass of himself.

I've walked into bars before not caring about sex, so I rarely care what type of bar it is, though I rarely go to new bars and stick to the ones I know (both gay and straight).

Just to clarify, I'm straight. Ironically, I've actually met a nice woman in a gay bar. She was with gay male friends because it was a place she could go and not be hit on but be around men, and she was somewhat "impressed" that a straight man would be "tolerant" enough to be in a gay bar and, hence, found me attractive. So it can actually be a somewhat hidden method for meeting nice girls. But not likely.

Topic: Short Girls
Posted: 04 Jan 2014 19:49

There is never an issue with size for me. I've actually been with a person of short stature (NEVER use the n-word terms "midget" or "dwarf"), and actually enjoyed myself in ways that I've not experienced with non-short statured individuals.

But in general, if you are referring to adult females between 4' 6" and 5' as "petite," it doesn't really make much of a difference. I admit to being with both skinny petite women, as well as more "roly-poly" (but not overweight). There are unique differences with everyone, but more important that their stature is their attitude and desire.

Typically, it is easier if they are on top during intercourse, but in reality there is little to no difference between ANY adult, while their unique qualities make more of a difference in my own reactions. Having said that, the thought of a smaller woman now is quite compelling. <img src="/images/emoticons/pourwine.gif" alt="Pour Wine">

Topic: Why are males so obsessed with anal sex
Posted: 04 Jan 2014 19:40

I think anal sex is more of a "control" feeling than anything. I've engaged in it in the past, but to be quite honest, it's not something I enjoy. Maybe I'm a bit more hygienic than most, but the thought of feces in play during lust is not really conducive to my own pleasure.

I've been with women who love anal sex, but don't request I do it to them knowing I'm averse to it. They know fully well that we can undergo several positions involving penile-vaginal interaction, as well as extensive oral sex. I do have a trick during oral sex where I may use my finger on her anus, but only in stimulating her rectum, not entering it, as my primary focus is on her clitoris or g-spot or "man-in-the-boat."

When I get "control," I usually get on top and pin the woman to the mattress with my body while I get animalistic in my movements. But I still enter her vagina, not anus.

Topic: Golden Showers?
Posted: 04 Jan 2014 19:34

Please delete...accidental double post...

Topic: Golden Showers?
Posted: 04 Jan 2014 19:34

Sorry, doesn't appeal to me. So perhaps I'm not the person to answer this.

When I was first experiencing sex at an unmentionable age, it was fun to get peed on in the shower by your partner, but that phase went away rather fast. But this is more of a fetish, so it's not really my point to recommend one way or the other.

Topic: What underwear do you wear?
Posted: 04 Jan 2014 19:27

First of all, we are talking about either dating or relating with a woman to the point where the pants are gonna come off. If you are in a situation where you may have sex, it is best to be in the proper attire for me. If you know you aren't doffing your slacks, then it doesn't matter what you wear.

But we are talking the stripping game. And the Prime Rule is this... NO TIGHTY WHITIES!! I can't emphasize it ENOUGH! In addition, while colored tighties are not as bad, they still have that diaper look which really detract from the otherwise masculine appearance.

Now, if you are a guy who has a large paunch, then boxers are best. Mid-length boxers, either silk or dark cotton, with a fly that is not gaping, though only one snap at the waist.

Finally, if you are fit or at least have no or little body fat, then boxer briefs are the absolute best. Darker colors are usually better, mainly because they camouflage the "precum" or other bodacious liquids that may seep. I DO assume you washed your ass COMPLETELY beforehand, and I mean COMPLETELY, and there is ABSOLUTELY NO DISCOLORATION in the rear. And yes, women will know from twenty feet.

As someone who was both 40 lbs overweight at one time, and now currently fit and physically active, I can attest to this from both angles. I would invest in "formal" boxers or boxer-briefs for dates, spending more for high-quality silk or other such material. In addition, the same care must be given for socks, undershirts, and even thermal underwear if in super-cold weather areas.

EDIT: Oh, one more thing... do NOT GO COMMANDO! It may seem cool to unzip right to the Johnson, but women have an innate sense of hygiene which they will remember. And, frankly, it's not all that comfortable for "the boys."

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