About LovingSadist

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Some men want to be loved for their money. Others want to be loved for their handsome looks. Some even want to be loved for their good deeds. I, on the other hand, want to be loved for my writing. It is a sickness I have. The only cure I have found for a lifetime of debilitating insecurity is getting random strangers approval for my writings. So, please don't deprive me of that. If you liked something I wrote let me know.

I am in love with someone who I call mine. We have a strong DD/lg 24/7 TPE relationship that can be best described as mostly monogamous. She isn't as obedient as I’d like, but she tries hard every single day to follow my rules. With a lot of hard work, discipline, punishment and reward I think I can mold her into something really special. I offer this up in my profile not to reveal something about myself but to show that I am a proud daddy to a little girl. So, please keep that in mind when having conversations with me. I am not a huge fan of sexual online conversations, anyway. Trust me, you're better off. I am too kinky for you.

Let’s see, what else. In college I got degrees in economics and English. I’m self employed. I have a dog named Cambridge. He’s a Rhodesian Ridgeback. My politics are far left. I like to cook. I watch more TV then I should only because this is the golden age of television. There are objectively at least two dozen shows on that are better than most every show that came before it. I’ll keep adding to this as I think of new stuff.

Name:
Rob
Sex:
Male 
Age:
38
Sign:
Gemini
Relationship Status:
Single
Orientation:
Straight
Location:
Florida, United States
Local Time:
14 Dec 2017 11:45
Interests:
Writing and punishing my sub.
Favorite Books:
I hate reading.
Favorite Authors:
Bret Easton Ellis, Hubert Selby Jr., Hemingway, Me, Chuck, Italio Calvino, Jerry Stahl, probably more I can't remember because I hate reading.

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Topic: Search Engine Explanation
Posted: 18 Nov 2017 16:35

So, as SEO (Search Engine Optimization) is an increasingly big part of my job, so I can try to answer a couple of questions. First, interestingly, the number of users clicking on the specific link has actually relatively little to do with its final ranking, so you hardly ever "climb" among the pages as a result of that. the weight of users was largely diminished (along with a few other factors like number of incoming links to a page and meta tags) precisley in order to make SEO more difficult. Webmasters could generally "buy" either incoming traffic, massive redirection links or lie in the meta-tags in order to fool early SEO.

Contemporary SE use literally hundreds of factors to order their searches. So it has generally become a "best guess" thing as to what actually works. What we do know for sure is that Google crosschecks tags with the overall semantics of a page to consider its relevancy. The number one SEO recommendation for professionnals now is to remain extremely consistent between content and tags. Recently, Google has notably mentionned that "usefulness" of the pages was their top priority.

In your case that probably means that with the tag "instruction for masturbation", you've employed semantics Google estimates from billions of past searches that the users are actually looking for. And because SEO is not only a personal thing, but a constant competition, it's probable that you first appeared behind pages Google considered less relevant but more established, and slowly climbed the rank in competitive evaluation as users kept searching.

Another parameter likely to be involved is the lack of commercialization. Google heavily favors websites that aren't trying to sell anything, so that there's more of an interest for commercial websites to actually pay Google to appear high in web searches. As the page you mention is non-commercial in an heavily commercial domain, it probably helped you a lot to climb in ranking.

As to how to do it again: Your guess is as good as mine. The main element of SEO tends to be luck, you only really know if it works when it has worked.


Thank you. This is very helpful.

Topic: Search Engine Explanation
Posted: 17 Nov 2017 15:01

So, I have this blog that is mostly erotica. This blog is a few years old. On this blog I have about 60 writings. One of my writings is basically masturbation instructions for women into DDlg. The title is Masturbation instructions: babygirl. This writing has had about 80,000 views. The writing that has had the next amount of views is 5,000. When you do a search in google for "masturbation instructions for a female" as well as many other searches that have the words "masturbation instructions" in them a link to my writing comes up on the first page. My question is, how did this even happen? Like, when I posted the writing three years ago was it coming up like 30 pages deep, and somewhere along the way someone went that deep and they clicked on it. And then it was 28 pages deep until someone else clicked on it? And now it is on the first page? Is that basically how search engines work?

So that brings me to the following question. Should I be making my titles so they are more search engine friendly or do the tags I use take care of that. For example, the next most searched story is titled "Forced Bi." This is a super common fetish. I use the tag forced bi for it. Is that why it gets hits. One of the least viewed stories is titled "Gretchen," the name of the main character. This obviously has no real clues as to what the story is about. Is this a bad title because it makes it so nebulous in a search engine? Please, anyone who understands this crazy stupid world of search algorithms, if you have any insight into this, I would really appreciate it.

Topic: What should be done about Roy Moore?
Posted: 16 Nov 2017 02:14




What are you even talking about? Higher taxes trumping child abuse, "just because" it happened 40 years ago? Please explain. I'd hate to have such a negative view of you since you just joined this site. Sounds like you'd be ok with child molestation as long as taxes didn't get raised.

Maybe I'm just reading this wrong...

Of course I’m not OK with child abuse. But if the situation was reversed with a democratic candidate the one being accused, and I feared losing my healthcare, (a real possibility as I get my healthcare through the markets set up by the ACA) I would reluctantly support the accused democrat. I’d hope that the leadership in the senate wouldn’t seat him, allowing for another special election. Yes, I’d vote based on my healthcare needs. If I lost my healthcare my entire life would fall apart. I do not support Judge Moore. I’d never ever support a republican candidate, let alone a a republican candidate who hurt children. All I was doing was imagining what I’d do if the situation was reversed and I had to choose between someone who fucked a 14 year old but would protect my healthcare and one who didn’t fuck a 14 year old and wanted to take my healthcare away.

I really don’t care if you like me or not. You’re an internet stranger to me. My hypothetical situation was really just intended to provoke a more interesting conversation in a place where the debate had grown stale, redundant, and boring.

Topic: Your profile views
Posted: 15 Nov 2017 18:37

I have three profile views, oh wait now four, now five! I’m popular. You people like me. You really really like me! Oh... wait. I just realized it’s me who keeps viewing my own profile. Nevermind.

Topic: what are you drinking?
Posted: 15 Nov 2017 18:35

White Zinfandel

Topic: Post the title most recent song that you listened to
Posted: 15 Nov 2017 18:33

Monster (feat. Rick Ross, Jay-Z, Bon Iver & Nicki Minaj)

Topic: I AM
Posted: 15 Nov 2017 17:13

I am loving a sadist

I would expect nothing less. She who loves a sadist is doomed to love to the point it hurts. She who loves a sadist is doomed to suffer as a means of showing her affection. She who loves a sadist is doomed to spend more time on her knees than on her feet. Sadists are easy to love, they are very, very, very hard to please.

Topic: What's the biggest age difference between you and someone you had sex with?
Posted: 15 Nov 2017 16:00

I once had sex with a female who was 108 when I was 23.

Topic: What should be done about Roy Moore?
Posted: 15 Nov 2017 15:31

Being "an anti gay, pro life, gun toting, 10 commandment humping, 9-11 is because America is godless believing asshole" is not illegal, pursuing children sexually and fucking 14-year-olds are though.

Yeah, I really could care less about what is legal or illegal. I think he should burned and be put to death, but I thought that before I found out he was a kid fucker. I’m trying to have empathy for the mouth breathers in Alabama who are still supporting Moore. And when I imagine the situation is reversed I reluctantly pull the lever for the kid fucker because what he did happened 40 years ago. What his opponent could do in the senate would raise taxes on the middle class and take away healthcare for millions. With my apologies to his victims, but if the situation was reversed I’d vote to protect those millions of other people.

Topic: What should be done about Roy Moore?
Posted: 15 Nov 2017 14:27

If I had to choose between Anthony wiener and Mike pence I’d vote for Wiener

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Added 05 Dec 2017 | Category Cheating | Votes 5 | Avg Score 5 | Views 3,758 | 6 Comments

Dark Alley

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Primal

We got to the trails: blue skies, oppressive heat, gnats swarming around our heads even before we hopped out of my car. “It’s such a beautiful day. Aren’t you glad you’re out here?” she said to me, and I can’t tell if she was rubbing it in or just oblivious to my pain. She skipped off ahead, waving at me over her shoulder, “Come on! Isn’t this so exciting! Our first hike!” She wore khaki...

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Mind Fuck - Alexis

“You don’t want to do this,” I said into my phone, peering through the blinds at the car that had just pulled into my driveway. “You walk through my door and there’s no going back. You’re going to be mine. Forever.” Alexis’ soft voice responded with, “At this point, I don’t really have a choice. Every day I wake up and crave your voice. If I go without it for too long I find myself...

Added 09 Nov 2017 | Category BDSM | Votes 2 | Avg Score 5 | Views 2,760 | 1 Comment

Ride My Face

I tell Jessica, “I want you to get on top of me,” and without hesitation she pushes the comforter off my naked body and climbs on top. Already this was a new sensation for her. It wasn’t the first time she had straddled me, but when we fucked like this I would pull her down close so her lips were by my ear. I’d hug her tight, and control her body’s movements with the tension in my arms....

Added 08 Nov 2017 | Category Oral Sex | Votes 9 | Avg Score 4.33 | Views 5,026 | 6 Comments

Journal of a Girl Who Wanted to Be Choked

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Added 06 Nov 2017 | Category BDSM | Votes 2 | Avg Score 4 | Views 2,521 | 1 Comment

Mind Fuck - Jessica

Standing in the center of my room, I paced around Jessica who’s naked from head to toe. She turns her head to follow me and I lean in and whisper, “Eyes. Fucking. Forward.” We had been getting to know one another for the last few months through text. Over and over again she complained to me, “Guys don’t care about my mind. Some of them pretend to at first, but eventually all they care about...

Added 04 Nov 2017 | Category BDSM | Votes 8 | Avg Score 5 | Views 3,157 | 5 Comments

Father Brentwood

Maybe it was some kind of trick priests learned in seminary school where they make their eyes infinitely deep, but Father Brentwood’s pupils and brown irises locked onto me. He touched my forehead and didn’t need to say a word. I heard his soft deep voice anyway, “I understand what you’re going through. It must be so hard. I’m here for you.” When he moved the wafer closer to my mouth all...

Added 03 Nov 2017 | Category Masturbation | Votes 10 | Avg Score 4.6 | Views 5,107 | 5 Comments

Forced Bi

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