You know, before when I had this profile up, I thought it was me being loving and lusting over a forbidden love. But, when I came to find out that that love I lusted for so much was oddly twisted and that my mind had created an illusion right before my very eyes, I was dumbstruck and broken. *****I APOLOGIZE FOR THE DEATH SCARE***** But, over the last year I've learnt something. Its not who you love, its why you love them. And if you love them for a specific and straight reason, then you're loving wrong. To actually 'Love' someone, acceptance, acknowledgement and agreement are the three A's required. For someone to love you back, you need to be respectful and respected. It isnt just a feeling you get from time to time. Its a feeling that warms your heart every minute of the day. I've learned another thing, dont tell the person you're in love with that you love them, until you're absolutely sure that you do. If you can look her in the eyes and know that she's not perfect, but that she's everything you were looking for, you've truly found it......And If you do end up telling her before, you'll be shattered. Well, such is life. This profile was and is run by the same person who inhabited it a year ago. I am the lustone. I do admit, I still love deciphering the mind, body languages and interwebbings of human thoughts. I have to add in though, I havent given up on love yet. I've fallen too hard too many times in the past year and a half. So, for now I'll spend my time focusing on my career and work my way to happiness from there.
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So, as most of you know I'm the deep emotional type of guy that is really looking to find love although I'm pretty damn young. Plus, you know, I'm a virgin. And the thought of having someone there to share good times and bad times with, knowing that we got each other no matter is all I want in real life. Unfortunately, the girls I've been with only wanted to 'date' and not get serious. Which was a bummer for me, cause apparently I'll only have sex with someone I'm in love with and who's equally in love with me. (I know, it's weird.) So, ladies. Views on this? All opinions are accepted :) Feel free to call me a loser, or wish that I was where ever you're living.
So, remember that question that completely stumps most people? "What is love?" Contrary to popular belief, it's not "Baby don't hurt me. Don't hurt me! No more!" I've been thinking (which is no easy task for me), and came to this solution. Love is giving someone the power to completely destroy you, but trusting them not to.If anyone got some answers to share, give it a shot! I'd really like to hear what's your meaning of love.
Happy Birthday to the person I seriously dont know :p
Having a list isnt such a good idea it means your going into things with a narrow mind. Just talk to people, any people, all people..............your talking to all these people on here arnt you?? its no different out there I know, that's why I said my problem is that I'm looking for someone who doesnt exist.But I dont think having standards is bad, it's just bad when it's either too high or too low.
honey most people love to talk about themselvesa person who is generally interested in THEM is sexybut you have to make the effort..if you dont talk to any one..they wont talk to youso brush up on current events, music, movies, sports and go get them!you can do this! Sure, I know I can do this because I've done it before. It's just different this time, like you said, I showed interest in them, and still nothing. I think I know my problem, though. I'm looking for someone who probably doesn't even exist. Here's a list, just so you people can tell me what you think. It's kind of a standard for me, which has gotten a bit higher over the years. I can't imagine how, though. SmartFunnyBeautifulFunShySexyInquisitivePassionateDetermined.............That's just what I got off the top of my head in the list of things I look for in a potential partner.
As most of you said in the previous posts- "Just be yourself, kind and respectful, introduce yourself and start from there"..... I've tried that, it didnt work. Sometimes, they look at me like I'm insane <img src="/forum/images/emoticons/freak.gif" alt="Nutbag"> Me being the socially impaired person I am just end up raising my cup to my mouth, drink something and walk away :-"
So, I've been to a party recently and I had loads of trouble talking to the girls that I didnt know. I know I have major confidence issues, can anyone give me some tips on how to overcome my situation? Note, I have trouble starting conversations, not so much as continuing one. For example, if a girl starts to talk to me, I'm completely normal, but if I start to talk to a girl.......... I have pet pasta and right now it's not talking to meatball for some odd reason.
Throughout my life I've never seen, A smile with pure curiosity, A might that played so willingly, A face of pure ingenuity, Hands of true generosity, Taste of raw animosity, Eyes that speak lustily, Faith and pure loyalty, Yes, I see, I'm only in a dream, A dream of integrity, Hopefully, One day you'll see, Maybe you'll love me, As I've loved thee. But oh, I...
Added 13 Dec 2012 | Category Love Poems
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