About LuvitAll


This is my personal life story. I am a woman in my early forties who has a fulfilling sex life that has developed from my teenage years into adulthood. I am sharing this so that other women may be open enough to explore the life of pleasure I have found.

I have tried practically everthing in the sexual spectrum, some of which I can't write about here. I have had many, many men and enjoyed many women in all varieties of group and singular sex.

I have had the good fortune of making some very close life long friends from my sexual encounters, and the partnership of loving men and a husband who have understood my needs and allowed me to pursue them, and also assisted me in pushing my boundaries.

The hardest part of writing my story, apart from finding the time, is choosing which parts of my life to include and what to leave out. I am concentrating on the episodes that were new experiences, major events, or changed my mind or orientation on certain acts or aspects of sex.

My hope is that others who read this will open their minds to new experiences, be adventurous and learn to enjoy their bodies and the pleasures it can provide, free of guilt and inhibition.



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Topic: Considering an Open Relationship-- Questions to Ask First
Posted: 23 Feb 2018 07:56

Hmmmm.....this is a serious one.
If you read my profile you'll see that I am a dedicated swinger and multi partner sexual person, so my response comes from that perspective.

Over the years I have encountered many couples in this and similar situations.The relationships that survive are those where both partners want the same thing and accept that from their partner.

The strongest relationships are those where a couple can share these things together. You are both trusting enough that you can have your partner go out on a date with someone else, knowing that they will come home to you, and you can go out on a date knowing that you will come home and love your partner even more for giving you that freedom. It has to be 'want' on both sides; and I don't mean sexual 'want' but the want of satisfaction and happiness for your partner. In return, your partner has to have the same feelings of wanting you to be happy and satisfied.

I'm not qualified as a counselor, just experienced from a couple of decades in the swinging and group sex lifestyle. I've seen relationships bust up through jealousy brought on from inequality of freedom for each partner. Similarly I've witnessed many that grew into inseparable bonds because both partners 'got it'. The strongest and happiest relationships I know are couples who share this and understand what it means.

From what you've written, it seems that you've been around the block with some FWB's and have no issue with that. I assume your partner has done the same and you have no issue with that. The test is if you can do it together. Can you watch your partner fuck someone else and be happy for them? Can he watch you fuck someone else and be happy for you? Until you know this, you will never progress to independent dating. Sitting at home wondering who he's with and what he's doing will likely tear you up. You have to know that he is fucking someone else; you've seen it before and you hope he's having fun. In the morning, he comes home, washes his dick, tells you what a great or dull time he's had and life goes on. Same for you. If you've been out and partied with two or three guys, come home dribbling cum and tell him about it, he has to be happy for you too.

My recommendation is for you both to go to a soft swing party or club where you live. Have a threesome both ways; an extra guy for you and then an extra girl for him. Be together in the moment; be involved. Hold his cock while he pushes into her. Have him fold your legs back when the guy penetrates you. Watch your partner while he is in pleasure with someone else and examine your feelings. If you are jealous and feel dead inside, then it's not for you. If you feel good about it and enjoy the freedom of pleasure you get from it, then explore it further.

From what I've seen, jumping into independent dating (let's be honest; fucking) without being comfortable in the shared sex experience, is a recipe for failure.
Hope this helps you on your journey.

Topic: Marrying someone who has a daughter the same age as me
Posted: 23 Feb 2018 06:58

Back out now.
The daughter will never accept you as a friend; you've been thrust upon her. She'll never recognize you as a step mother; you're the same age as her. She'll likely see you as a pan handling money grasper who is trying to do her out of her inheritance; which is highly likely.
He will have erectile disfunction within ten years needing pills to get it up to satisfy you. You will end up having affairs with men your own age to get some physical satisfaction. He'll find out and be devastated and want a divorce, whereupon you will get most of his assets and deny the daughter her rightful inheritance.
You'll also leave him in a lonely impoverished existence until he dies, dependent on the daughter whose inheritance you stole.
Do the decent thing and get back on the boat.

Topic: Female Masturbation Poll
Posted: 21 Feb 2018 22:11

1. How often do you currently masturbate? Always have a play when I wake up in the morning. Just an idle pull on the flaps, a rub and a finger. Sometimes an orgasm if I need it; sometimes not. Usually give myself a good bash in the evening if I'm not having sex with someone.
2. What techniques do you normally use when masturbating? Fingers in the morning. Dildo, vibrator, bottle, or edge of furniture when I'm on it.
3. What toys if any do you use when masturbating? See 2.
4. How many orgasms do you achieve each time you masturbate? Depends how horny I am and how much time. Sometimes don't go all the way; just do it for the feeling. Can be up to 3 orgasms when I'm horny.
5. How long does it take you to achieve your first orgasm when masturbating? About 1 to 2 minutes if I really need it bad. Otherwise I stretch it out, slow down and then build again.
6. At what age did you first reach orgasm through masturbation (over 16 references only please)? Then I can't answer.
7. How did you first discover masturbation (over 16 references only please)? Exploring the good feelings happening 'down there'
8. Does your current partner know how often you masturbate? Yes; he's around most of the time I'm indulging.
9. When comparing the orgasms you have during masturbation and the orgasms achieved during partnered sex, which orgasms are stronger/more satisfying? 50/ 50. Sometimes stronger with a partner; sometimes not. Depends on who with and the scene going on.
10. Do you achieve orgasm more easily through masturbation or partnered sex? Masturbation because I know what I want to feel at any time.
11. Do you achieve multiple orgasm through masturbation or partnered sex? Both
12. Do you taste your own juices during/after masturbating? Yes. I think all women do. It starts from licking your fingers to get yourself lubed. Next thing you know, you're sucking your fingers clean.

Topic: What are most sensitive places on your body other than the genitals ?
Posted: 21 Feb 2018 09:43

Nipples by far. Prefer being started here. Also neck kissing. A light tongue running down my bum crack really gets me going.

Topic: What are most sensitive places on your body other than the genitals ?
Posted: 21 Feb 2018 09:41

Nipples by far. Prefer being started here. Also neck kissing. A light tongue running down my bum crack really gets me going.

Topic: Would you be willing to be shared?
Posted: 21 Feb 2018 08:47

I’ve shared myself all of my sex life. Sex is so much more with more partners. I share myself. I don’t need to be shared. That implies ownership. I’ve made it clear to all my partners that I make myself available to whoever I want. It’s been a lot of fun. I don’t understand why people constrain themselves to one other person. It would be like only ever drinking water. Boring as.

Topic: Girls, what color panties are you wearing today?
Posted: 21 Feb 2018 08:09

None. Again.

Topic: Honest who has seen a 12 inch penis?
Posted: 21 Feb 2018 07:57

Anyone that has read / followed me knows I’ve had many men. Cocks into four digits. Twelve inches is a freakish rarity and it is too long. Bangs your cervix and ultimately hurts like hell without even being all the way in. Maybe some women can take it in, but I’ve never met one. The only time a really long penis is of value is when engaging in threesome or foursome sexual gymnastics where the man can get some in when he’s not really close to you. Women are just not physically built for twelve inches.

Topic: How many different guys have cum inside your pussy within 24 hours
Posted: 17 Aug 2017 16:32

I'm usually up around the 15 mark and that's at gang bang parties which I adore. I used to count the number but it gets a bit of a blur after about 10. Also hard to keep track of when the guys are tag teaming and keep swapping in and out.

Topic: Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted: 13 Apr 2017 18:24

When will you fix the mobile site so it doesn't freeze on iPad? It comes up as the default search result and I appreciate that it is uncluttered for easy reading, however it always either freezes up or annoyingly loses the text from the bottom of the page. I end up reverting to the full site.

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