Forum posts made by mattdyne

Topic clothed or naked?
Posted 13 Oct 2011 10:52

"More concealed is more revealed," I always say. It doesn't make sense literally, but it sounds like what you're talking about. Another way to say it is "Teasing builds arousal."

Teasing is where it's at, at least for starters.

Topic If You Could Change Sex For A Day... Would You and Why?
Posted 29 Jun 2011 14:15

Sure. easier to get laid.

Topic Help! Vagina, Pussy, Cunt... what to call it....
Posted 31 May 2011 14:55

As someone else wrote, what word to use for female (or male) anatomy depends on context.

Firstly, vagina is an internal organ, and pussy connotes more the external female genitalia, though the definition of pussy is not exact, and it can be used with great latitude.

If, in a story, a narrator is speaking, then I use proper English. A narrator does not directly express emotion, so vagina, vulva, and labia are preferred. However, pussy, though I am not altogether a fan of the word, has become ubiquitous, so, as I said, it can be used with great latitude.

If a man is talking to his wife of then pussy or cunt is not appropriate. Vagina or vulva is preferable.

If a modern young woman is talking to another modern young woman then pussy might be okay. Cunt would not be okay.

If a man is talking about a woman who he is angry with, such as a woman who strung him along and didn't come across, he might say something about what he'd like to do to her cunt.

Pussy connotes something soft, furry, and cuddly, so it might be used as a term of endearment, such as, "I love your pussy... I mean, I love all of you, but..." It wouldn't sound as good to say, "I love your vulva" or "vagina" or "cunt."

Terms like nether lips or secret garden are crap and should not be used, though I have used feminine core as in, "Her legs spread, and he could see deep into her dark wet feminine core.

Be imaginative, but don't slip into purple prose, and make sure the tone of the terms you choose fit the feelings of the context within which you place them.

Topic Would you pay to take a girl's virginity? How much?
Posted 06 Apr 2011 18:27

No! Never! But I would offer her a gift she would never forget. If you want to read a true story about how this happened, with my neighbor, a virgin until nineteen, you can read my story Girl Gets a Bath :

Believe the story or not, it's all the same to me.

Topic 5 minute man
Posted 01 Apr 2011 12:43

About thirty percent of men have or have had a problem with premature ejaculation. It's quite common--a vagina just feels so great it milks the cum right out of us. I suppose at one time that might have been an evolutionary advantage--the baby would be his--but it doesn't say much for a woman's right to choose.

A much smaller percentage of men, and women too, have the opposite problem. They can't orgasm with a partner though they can with themselves. This problem is usually psychological.

I've had this later problem, and it's more a benefit than a problem. If I take the time to develop a relationship it's not an issue, but for casual sex it can be. I am pleased that I have to get to know a woman before I can successfully have complete sex with her.

On the positive side, even when I know a woman well I can have sex for a very long time until I'm ready to come and then do so, though if I wait too long, like more than forty-five minutes, I may lose my arousal (what goes on in my brain, not my penis) and even though I remain hard I may not be able to come. When I masturbate I usually play around for thirty minutes before I come. So, on average, my condition turns out to be more of an advantage than a hindrance.

There are resources on the web that make suggestions about what a man can do to help with premature ejaculation, mostly various methods of distraction.

Another technique is to have him play with you for as long as you like and then, when you tell him to, to put his penis in you.

You should get a vibrator, and your partner should try not to be offended. No one is at fault. You're both just trying to feel good in whatever ways turn you on.


Topic Sexless Relationship
Posted 01 Apr 2011 12:26

Masters and Johnson, in their book Heterosexuality, state that on average men and women like sex equally, but how much one likes sex varies greatly among individuals.

There are many people, men and women, who are not very horny most of the time. That may seem odd to one who is always aroused, but I'm sure you can think of some men and women you know who just don't seem that interested in sex.

Some women need to have sex every day or more often, either with a partner or with themselves. Some women are only turned on by candlelight, wine, romance, talking, touching, and lots of foreplay, and many men don't have the patience for that or the skill to pull it off. Pulling themselves off is so much easier.

Topic Why are males so obsessed with anal sex
Posted 01 Apr 2011 12:18

I don't care for the idea. I've never done it and don't find the idea appealing.

On the other hand, pun intended, offer me a vagina, and I'll happily play in it all day long and far into the night.

Topic big girls
Posted 01 Apr 2011 12:14

You're cute, but your body may not fit our society's idea of perfection. there are a couple of ways of looking at that. One is that none of us are perfect specimens of beauty. The other is that we are all beautiful in our own ways.

My grandfather used to say: there's an article for every customer and a customer for every article.

I say: we all have to play the hand we're dealt, so play as good a game as you can and try to have fun at it.

And once again, you're cute. You have a pretty face and a great smile. I'm a small, thin man, and I think we'd look great together.


Topic Say one good thing about the person above you
Posted 20 Mar 2011 10:50

Open, friendly, nontraditional, and a Lush addict, but cautious, which is good. A girl can't be too cautious who she lets in, even if she is Swollen.

Topic Pinched Nipples
Posted 18 Mar 2011 09:24

I love having my nipples pinched BUT be gentle.... Ease me in... Tease me first.....

It's like driving a manual shift car.... Listen to the noise of the engine.....

xx S

I agree with Stephanie. Nipples are wonderfully (or terribly) sensitive and, especially at first, need to be manhandled with a gentle touch. Later, after they are played with for awhile, they become somewhat desensitized, and a firmer touch may be appreciated.

But you be sensitive too, and, as Stephanie says, listen for signals as to how best to proceed. A woman will tell you what she likes--when your firmer touches thrill her and when to be gentle again.

I love women. Matt

Topic Paragraph formatting lost
Posted 18 Mar 2011 08:53

I recently embellished a story at LushStories. I did it by writing my embellishment in MS Word, doing a Ctrl-A in word to select all my text, doing a Ctrl-C to copy all my text, and in the LushStories embellishment window doing a Ctrl-V to paste in my text.

Everything looked good--there were blank lines between paragraphs--until I clicked the Embellish button to upload my embellishment. Then, all my double carriage returns that separated paragraphs disappeared, and all my sentences, regardless of which paragraphs they were in, ran together.

This is strange, because I submitted one story to LushStories, I believe I did it the way I described, and my paragraph formatting was retained.

I opened my Word file in a binary editor and saw that each paragraph was indeed separated by two carriage return characters (Hex 0D). If anyone has had this problem and solved it please let me know what you did. I sent a note to Help-Contact Us, but I did not receive a response.


Topic Open question to writers
Posted 18 Mar 2011 08:42

Hi Irishmik60,

The responses of some users may be confusing. When they write "two spaces" they do not mean hit the space key twice. They mean hit the Enter key twice, as some users do note. Hitting the Enter key twice will put a blank line between your paragraphs and make your paragraphs easier to read.

Topic True or False?
Posted 07 Mar 2011 12:38

False. That may be your intention, but you're far too horny to carry through on it.

Men want to have sex to feel loved. Women want to feel loved to have sex.

Topic Lie to me
Posted 07 Mar 2011 10:13

#1 is the lie. Guys are too jealous of each other, though if you had said "I was gang banged by three guys" I might believe you.

1. I and five other guys were were the only people at a skinny dipping pond, and a fifteen year old girl came and stripped in front of us. Then she went swimming.

2. At my fraternity a bunch of guys convinced the wife of the fraternity's faculty adviser to strip for us and let us spank her when her husband was out of town.

3. I and two other guys were renting a house, and a local thirteen year old girl kept coming around. One of the guys said he was going to fuck her. Then we saw her, him, pull out a penis and urinate on the ground.