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47 yo, italian, married with Vivi.

Name:
Mattew De Martino
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Age:
48
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Pisces
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Married
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Straight
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Italy, Italy
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25 Apr 2018 07:20

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Topic: Can a marriage survive if...
Posted: 23 Mar 2018 13:40

Seems there are at least two questions not one.

Do you find it morally acceptable for your wife to be the incubator of another mans child? That is assuming he plans to raise the child and not you and your wife. Do you have other children that you will need to explain the events to? Could you love and raise this child if that is the plan.

Secondly, is race a factor in how you look at this new being. A number of people have expressed the concern about a mixed race individual. Those that see great barriers, must live in a different place than I do. Mixed race kids are certainly not the majority here but they are not that great of a exception either.

I have an IUD and it is considered an effective Birth Control Method. However, we all know there is no method is 100% effective. While most men I have sex with are of European Heritage, there also have been men of every race known. Could I love and raise a Mixed Race Child.

Of course I could.

Abortion is out of the question for me. There is no basis I could Murder a Baby just because of convenience or the difficulty of the life they may have.

I know many of you will not be agreement with me. Plus yes I know the risks and made the decision long ago that this is one of the risks I must and will take.

You and you wife have some serious decisions to discuss.



Honestly speaking Chandler of course i do not find morally acceptable that my wife to be the incubator of this man child! In this case i know this African man goal is to create a strong life link with my wife!
What better than get her mother of child????!!!!
He says he cares a lot of her and so does she.
In other words my wife has developed strong feelings for this man!
I and my wife do not have our own children.
I am trying to dissuade my young wife from this plan but i fear she will comply with his will!!

Topic: Can a marriage survive if...
Posted: 23 Mar 2018 12:09

Can you share with us the reason you and your wife are no longer sexually active together?

As some have already mentioned, the first thing I thought about was the issues the child will be forced to deal with as a mixed race child. I have a very dear, vanilla, friend who has dated a black guy for over 20 years. One of her daughters married a black guy, and they have 4 beautiful children, two sons and two daughters. I know about some of the problems the children have dealt with, especially since they started school. They are teased often and neither the white or black kids accept them.

Hubbie and I believe, regardless of what our beliefs are, people have a right to make their own life choices. And in doing so, unless those choices are illegal, like robbing a bank, others should accept their decisions and not stick their noses in their business. But we all know that is not the way it works!!!!! And probably won't happen until the lamb can lay down next to a lioness with out fear of becoming her dinner.

Brandie



Honestly speaking because for ages i am experiencing ED problems

Topic: Can a marriage survive if...
Posted: 22 Mar 2018 09:37

What i was simply wondering is why an African man who has a liason with a married white girl should ask her to have his baby....i mean playing the racial card on her by asking her to prove him her loyalty to him by getting the mother of his baby?!
I am asking it because i read that in many African Communities for an African man to get a white girl mother of his child or children is a great achievement....and by far more if she married....i read that it involves ancestral colonialism matters!
What do you honestly think?

Topic: Can a marriage survive if...
Posted: 21 Mar 2018 11:25



Is the child going to be with the lover or with you?
Is the child going to have to live through the stigma of such a relationship. You maybe progressive and accepting, the rest of the world... including your?!! Child may not.
Are the 3 of you living together already to provide for a cohesive family structure already.
Do you already have children.

And realistically... probably not.

No we do not have childrean of ours.

Topic: Can a marriage survive if...
Posted: 21 Mar 2018 10:33



Is the child going to be with the lover or with you?
Is the child going to have to live through the stigma of such a relationship. You maybe progressive and accepting, the rest of the world... including your?!! Child may not.
Are the 3 of you living together already to provide for a cohesive family structure already.
Do you already have children.

And realistically... probably not.


My wife since more than one year is having a liason with her African boss...she told me she fell deep into it!
We still love each other, even if our sexual life ended since several years ago...
We reasoned that our marriage can survive if i would accept her relationship...the problem is that her African lover asked her to prove her loyality and palyed his racial matters asking her to get the mother of his child....
We live together and when my wife desires we guest her lover in our house.
It is as you can see a delicate situation.

Topic: Can a marriage survive if...
Posted: 21 Mar 2018 09:38

That's pretty much up to you and your wife. The best relationships are those forged free of jealousy and possessiveness, as well as being immune from the judgement of others. David and I have discussed this since there's a small possibility my birth control could fail at some point, and I became pregnant by one of my FWBs (a few have been black). It's the last thing I want to happen, of course, but it's a risk I take on a regular basis. We've made everything else work in this lifestyle, so we could deal with the scenario you propose and stay together. But then, we are both very liberal and open-minded.

"The best relationships are those forged free of jealousy and possessiveness, as well as being immune from the judgement of others. "

I truly admire you and your husband Bethany!! I absolutely agree with you! I think it has to be my wife decision and is not fair i would interphere with it!

Topic: Can a marriage survive if...
Posted: 12 Feb 2018 16:18

your wife lover has asked her to be the mother of his son/daughter?
Does it make any difference if he is African so everyone could understand baby is not mine?
Please be sincere not diplomatic

Topic: Wife liason
Posted: 06 Oct 2017 19:53

Hello Gals,

how do you honestly think a husband should deal with his white and young ongoing liason with her African Boss?

We love each other but our sexual life and passion terminated almost one year ago when she cut me off.

More precisely is ethical that her African lover asked her to cut sexually her husband off?

Do not worry to be open and honest































Topic: White Gals Africanization....
Posted: 24 Mar 2017 17:13



I kinda feel like this is a non issue. We're all people, human with human. Bi-racial couples can come in a lot of different pairings. I think people see color less important than chemistry. It's sad to me that we are still dividing ourselves like this.

Thanks Simmerdownchick for your contribution!

Just trying to understand women opinion about what was stated in the article.

I also read about white gals who are intoxicated and hit by African or black men...nothing to argue or divide...just chemistry as you state!

Thanks for add your feed back.

Topic: White Gals Africanization....
Posted: 24 Mar 2017 11:58



Um, I'm really not sure how to read this statement. I certainly don't know what kind of answer it is you're looking for, Mathew.

Multiple people, including myself, have suggested that changing sociological, demographic, and economic trends, particularly in the last twenty years, have altered the way that interracial couples are seen in society. I didn't say that I disagreed with the "main issue" of the article, I said that the interpretation of the Pew Study was flawed. I also pointed out that it was one article, from a quasi-legitimate news source, and that I could find no supporting articles.

I'm thinking that, in reference to your original post and "sexual emotions", whatever those are, you wanted some kind of treatise on how hot black men are? Or how white women just can't help but be attracted to any given black man? I don't know. I think I'm done here.

Yes Hera let us go back at the original question....just wanted to ask about how white gals felt emotionally and sexually involved withan African or Black Man. I just meant how keen you are to date for example Africans...in other words by istinct has been ever happened to feel for example hit only by the fact of African or Black features? I think that article states that some white gals feel that way.....

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The story so far: Giselle’s Italian husband, Francisco, is useless in bed. To satisfy her sexually, she has taken a lover, an African named Mobu with a huge black cock. She has just had her first fuck from him, and drunk his semen out of a condom. But the evening is not over yet by a long way. Now read on… *** Then Giselle invited her African stud to lie down next to her on the double...

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